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To want the Government to do more about the Cost of Living crisis?

254 replies

user365241987 · 18/04/2026 16:26

I just cannot see what the Government is doing to support the insane rise in CoL. Our income is higher than it has ever beautiful we just scrape by every month. It's so depressing. Don't qualify for any benefits. So tired of it. I have written to my MP. I can't understand why they don't increase the lowest tax threshold as that would at least help everyone at the lower end. I don't see any improvement ahead.

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frozendaisy · 19/04/2026 11:51

echt · 19/04/2026 04:50

Then all the PAYE people would get fucked over and pay at the expense of those who fiddle their taxes.

Yep

A house is the one thing you can’t hide between shadow companies or what not.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 11:57

helpfulperson · 19/04/2026 10:02

Council tax makes up only about a third of a councils budget. Most comes from direct government funding.

I agree it should be reformed but it should be scrapped and income tax raised to cover the full cost of running services.

Well then you’d have to disband local councils. The counsellors would just endlessly demand more money from central government and make completely unrealistic promises to their local electorate to get elected, having no accountability to actually raise the revenue for covering local services. And they would become even more inefficient in how they spend the money they are allocated as well.

It would completely break the model of there being any valid local democracy at all because it would turn council elections into a farce with many areas who already get huge subsidies simply voting for whichever party promised the most money from other people hundreds of miles away to pay for their local demands (much like in national elections!) but with the added fact that the local councillors would have no power whatsoever to actually implement any of their manifestos. There has to be financial accountability and responsibility alongside power otherwise… well look what’s happened nationally.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:04

@user365241987the answer to your original question is yes of course they should be doing a hell of a lot more to actually fix the economy.

If, however, by “doing more” you mean more of the idiotic policies that decrease productivity and growth like paying people’s bills for them, then no, obviously not.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:09

Eridian · 19/04/2026 11:57

Well then you’d have to disband local councils. The counsellors would just endlessly demand more money from central government and make completely unrealistic promises to their local electorate to get elected, having no accountability to actually raise the revenue for covering local services. And they would become even more inefficient in how they spend the money they are allocated as well.

It would completely break the model of there being any valid local democracy at all because it would turn council elections into a farce with many areas who already get huge subsidies simply voting for whichever party promised the most money from other people hundreds of miles away to pay for their local demands (much like in national elections!) but with the added fact that the local councillors would have no power whatsoever to actually implement any of their manifestos. There has to be financial accountability and responsibility alongside power otherwise… well look what’s happened nationally.

Edited

I’ll add to this that we already have one of the most centralised systems in the developed world for raising revenue and allocating spending (most of which have far higher GDP per capita and therefore much higher standards of living) so the suggestions from some that local services should be added to national taxation are the precise opposite of the direction of travel we should be taking on this issue.

I don’t know why people in the UK refuse to learn even the very basics about economics, it’s bizarre. Or why successive UK Governments behave as though they need to reinvent the wheel rather than simply looking at what used to be our comparator countries (largely all now racing ahead of us in terms of living standards) and using the undeniable, proven evidence of what works to adapt our own systems to emulate them. It’s really not that difficult.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:14

loislovesstewie · 19/04/2026 08:09

@PinkElephants356 you do realize that social housing is often provided by housing associations which may well be charities and as such have nothing to do with the local authority? So effectively you want them to send their profits to the local authority to reduce council tax rather than use those profits to improve stock or help towards building more homes?

Don’t be silly. Other than debt, most of their funding comes from government grants. Did you really not know this or are you being disingenuous? In effect it is just another outsourced/ semi-privatised service with all of the negative effects remaining on the taxpayer and now some private debt holders also making a profit.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:15

Lifesd · 19/04/2026 04:51

There are practical steps the Government could take, I’m in australia and whilst it has its own challenges with cost of living but the speed at which the government halved the fuel duty astonished me and was a huge practical help to millions. I quite often think how much more future focussed the thinking is here in many ways but also - benefits are incredibly difficult to get, obviously migration is closely controlled and it is expensive and difficult to get here but they import the skills they need not boatloads of immigrants who will in all likelihood not be a bet contributor to the economy and I say that as an economic migrant myself - we moved here for a better life but had to pay and bring skills with us and accept we have no rights to benefits.

The UK emulating Australia’s pensions system, with far higher and mandatory (not opt out) contributions to personal pensions and means-testing the state pension would be a good start!

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:26

DdraigGoch · 19/04/2026 00:03

Ultimately having an aging population is not sustainable. Unfortunately politicians are too scared of losing the grey vote that they maintain unsustainable policies like the triple lock. Look at the furore when Starmer tried to limit the WFA to only those who actually needed it. That's why people are pissed off.

I have to pay the same bills as everyone else
But your income is not subject to NI, despite the fact that someone of working age who is earning exactly the same as you is liable for this tax.

Indeed. And rent/ mortgage which the vast majority of pensioners do not (either their rent is subsidised or their mortgages paid off) and childcare, and commuting, and all of the other costs involving children, as well as more tax.

The bottom line is on average the current cohort of retirees are costing the state over £200k more in real terms per head (primarily in healthcare, social care and state pension welfare) than they paid in taxes over their lifetime. Young people are having to pick up the tab for this entitlement and those of working age now are forecast to pay £300k more in real-terms lifetime tax than they receive in state services and benefits, which is one of the primary reasons that living standards are dropping like a stone and all other services are collapsing.

15% of the population (the over 65s) are consuming almost 50% of public spending. This is not sustainable and they’ve paid nowhere near enough to fund their demands. If they care at all about this country having a prosperous future then they’d stop deflecting blame and claiming young people are “lazy” (welfare benefits to those of working age have been relatively constant as a percentage of GDP over the last 50 years) and the very large numbers of them who are well off would scale down their unnecessary demands on the state.

Unfortunately, there seems to be little prospect of this happening due to the supremely entitled attitude of the proportion of that cohort who behave like this who think it’s outrageous to suggest they shouldn’t receive huge welfare payments that they do not require. The way many of them contort themselves grasping for a way to try to justify it and their self-righteous indignation at any suggestion they should make any sacrifice at all would be extremely amusing if it wasn’t one of the main contributors to the UK’s rapid decline.

2dogsandabudgie · 19/04/2026 12:47

Eridian · 19/04/2026 12:26

Indeed. And rent/ mortgage which the vast majority of pensioners do not (either their rent is subsidised or their mortgages paid off) and childcare, and commuting, and all of the other costs involving children, as well as more tax.

The bottom line is on average the current cohort of retirees are costing the state over £200k more in real terms per head (primarily in healthcare, social care and state pension welfare) than they paid in taxes over their lifetime. Young people are having to pick up the tab for this entitlement and those of working age now are forecast to pay £300k more in real-terms lifetime tax than they receive in state services and benefits, which is one of the primary reasons that living standards are dropping like a stone and all other services are collapsing.

15% of the population (the over 65s) are consuming almost 50% of public spending. This is not sustainable and they’ve paid nowhere near enough to fund their demands. If they care at all about this country having a prosperous future then they’d stop deflecting blame and claiming young people are “lazy” (welfare benefits to those of working age have been relatively constant as a percentage of GDP over the last 50 years) and the very large numbers of them who are well off would scale down their unnecessary demands on the state.

Unfortunately, there seems to be little prospect of this happening due to the supremely entitled attitude of the proportion of that cohort who behave like this who think it’s outrageous to suggest they shouldn’t receive huge welfare payments that they do not require. The way many of them contort themselves grasping for a way to try to justify it and their self-righteous indignation at any suggestion they should make any sacrifice at all would be extremely amusing if it wasn’t one of the main contributors to the UK’s rapid decline.

I'm not sure how old you are but when you retire there will be even more retired people as people live longer and longer. I suppose the only answer is for either the state pension to be means tested or there won't be a state pension and people will have to pay into a private pension and rely on that. Extending retirement age won't help as that will put pressure on the job market.

Difficult times ahead I think.

Boomer55 · 19/04/2026 12:52

The country can’t afford to keep bailing people out. It’s that simple. Ideally, they would lower tax, so that workers etc kept more of their own income, but they keep borrowing to increase benefits. Makes no sense.

loislovesstewie · 19/04/2026 12:55

If any previous government had half a brain then either:
A proportion of NI contributions could have been ring fenced and invested solely for state pensions.
Or:
The revenue from North Sea Oil could have been invested by the government in pensions funding. As Norway did. Instead it went into the general fund.

Boomer55 · 19/04/2026 12:59

JenniferBooth · 19/04/2026 00:44

Try booking an appointment at a hair or beauty salon around here. You have to book months in advance and always fully booked. I live on a social housing estate.

I live in a mix of social housing and real wealth. Either way, “luxury” treats like nails, hair and coffees/takeaways/bars/restaurants are always rammed.

Not many signs of a COL crisis here. 🤷‍♀️

BigAnne · 19/04/2026 13:32

Thechaseison71 · 18/04/2026 21:42

And people who aren't in decent incomes don't get unless they have kids/ disability etc.

Id not be eligible on 16k incone

What puzzles me is the fact that child maintenance payments are disregarded when claiming UC.

Benvenuto · 19/04/2026 13:35

PinkElephants356 · 19/04/2026 07:48

This is specifically what I would like the government to do;

  • Reverse the NI increase for employers so cost of employing is more affordable and increased costs do not get passed to consumers
  • Introduce temporary guidance to employers to allow working from home if one can and wishes to in order to reduce demand for fuel and thus hopefully prices in the short term whilst the Iran war continues
  • Remove VAT from hospitality and restaurant businesses so it is more affordable for people to support these businesses
  • Regulate comms providers more, it is great that they can no longer raise prices by RPI half way through a persons contract but they are able to raise prices by £3 each year throughout a contract - the price should be fixed for the contract term
  • Regulate leasehold and freehold building and estate charges and in particular the amount these companies are able to charge for administration and management on top of the actual cost of maintenance (as well as their profit margin) so residents are not overcharged for these services
  • Introduce more customer service regulation and greater consumer rights; make it a requirement for all consumer goods and service providers to offer a customer service email address or online form to allow quick and easy resolution, require longer warranties on electrical goods, more redress schemes in general
  • Regulate subscription prices for cloud services and VPN etc.
  • Standardise school uniform across the UK so that it can be purchased cheaply from supermarkets and mainstream retailers
  • Regulate pricing of baby formula and healthier baby, toddler and children’s foods
  • Means test those in social housing and on secure tenancies annually and if their earnings increase over a certain level, charge them the full market rate for renting their properties rather than the usual reduced rental charge. The increased revenue should go towards lowering council tax for everyone
  • Provide more funding for doctors surgeries and other NHS services. Currently my doctors surgery receives a pitiful proportion of the tax and NI that I pay each year
  • Allow more medicines to be available on an NHS prescription and fund more procedures on the NHS such as ear syringing so people are not having to pay for that separately
  • Recognise that often council tax is the household’s largest bill and efforts should be made to reduce this or at the very least freeze future rises
  • Consider turning TV license into an optional pay for streaming service for the BBC
  • I hate to say it (and many will disagree) but freeze any non-essential local authority spending in the short term such as play area refurbishment, new cycle paths etc. to lower the council tax bill for households
  • Regulate and cap the management charge allowed on pension accounts
  • Ban service charges in restaurants and allow optional tipping only
  • Remove the triple lock; increase pensions by average wage increase only
  • Reduce rates for independent high street retailers
  • Freeze any increases on prescription costs, garden waste bin collections, council tax, TV license, NHS dentistry until the freeze in tax thresholds has been lifted!

Cycle paths are really useful for cost of living though as cycling is a very cheap form of travel. The biggest blocker to its uptake is a lack of safe routes. The Active Travel share of the roads budget really is tiny.

If you really want to save money from the roads budget it would be much more effective to stop building new roads as they don’t ease congestion (redeploying National Highways to fill potholes might well be popular); ban pavement parking (as it cracks paving stones which need to be replaced) so that the London rules apply to the whole country or even tax the very heaviest SUVs as they cause greater wear and tear on the roads (as Sadiq Khah is considering in London). Or you could consider issuing more tickets from speed cameras so that all offences get a ticket.

Play parks (at least where I live) also get very little funding & rely on crowdfunders, but again they are really useful re cost of living as they are free. They are also essential for children living in older inner city areas or flats where there is very little space for outdoor play. Cutting essential services for children (eg Sure Start or Youth Clubs at the beginning of Austerity) has been tried before & proved to be a false economy.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 14:14

2dogsandabudgie · 19/04/2026 12:47

I'm not sure how old you are but when you retire there will be even more retired people as people live longer and longer. I suppose the only answer is for either the state pension to be means tested or there won't be a state pension and people will have to pay into a private pension and rely on that. Extending retirement age won't help as that will put pressure on the job market.

Difficult times ahead I think.

Exactly why I said we should emulate the Australian state pension system. They used to have a system similar to ours but changed it decades ago due to exactly the same foreseeable and entirely foreseen demographic time bomb, rather than burying their heads in the sand about the known fact that a system like ours is not affordable with an ageing population. It’s basic mathematics.

Nothing will improve in the UK until many people accept the reality that they are not entitled to the largesse which they’ve come to expect and that it literally cannot be funded. See also public sector pension liabilities: if either public sector pensions or state pensions continue without signifiant reforms then it is not an exaggeration to say they will bankrupt the country.

There’s also a very good reason other countries aren’t copying the NHS model. We need to adopt a system similar to France or Germany which pound for pound have far superior outcomes.

And low and middle earners in the UK need to accept that of they want European levels of state services they are going to have to start paying significantly more tax. Our tax system has some of the very highest rates in the world, starting at relatively low levels of income comparatively, for our “higher earners” and while low and middle earners pay far, far less than those in comparator countries. The cliff edges need removing (e.g. scrap the removal of the personal allowance (that one is causing SO much damage to growth and tax revenue)/ childcare funding/ child benefit to make them all universal again (evidence shows this would more than pay for itself in a very short time) and lower the universal credit taper rate to incentivise work) and the unstable tax base needs redistributing to make it more stable, restore the social contract to maintain buy-in for public service funding, and restore the incentives for work and higher productivity. We need to remove anomalies in the taxation system that distort the economy and disincentivise work e.g. we should levy tax on a household unit basis like pretty much every other developed country. We urgently need to reform business rates.

We need to redistribute a significant amount of public spending from the old to the young and invest twice as much on education and also fund energy infrastructure, food and water security better. Growth is being strangled by our high energy costs. We need to have a proper industrial strategy investing in technology and key UK high productivity sectors to restore growth and ensure there are worthwhile career paths and restore our balance of payments and investment. All of this is blatantly obvious to anybody who wants rising living standards and growth because it is essential for rising productivity which is the only way to achieve that. Redistribution of an ever shrinking cake with no effort whatsoever to address why it is shrinking will simply accelerate the decline.

This is all very basic economics. The question is why our Governments refuse to do any of it and why they electorate moan constantly rather than demanding that their politicians do the above.

Eridian · 19/04/2026 14:26

BigAnne · 19/04/2026 13:32

What puzzles me is the fact that child maintenance payments are disregarded when claiming UC.

It’s not puzzling at all.

In most countries absent/ non-resident parents are forced to pay 50% of the cost of housing and raising their child including childcare and if they do not there are severe penalties, similar to how HMRC treats tax evasion in the UK (as a criminal matter). All welfare benefits will be withdrawn for unpaid childcare support, it will be recorded as an unpaid debt with the equivalent of a CCJ and mean your credit rating is wrecked and you cannot rent a property or get a mortgage or loan or credit card, penalties include removing driving licences and passports and even prison sentences.

In the UK there is no enforcement like this so many people simply do not pay and, even if they do, it is nothing close to the 50% of the costs of raising a child for which they should be liable.

Therefore, it is clearly not possible to count unenforceable and often unreliable child maintenance as part of income when making monthly income calculations for the purposes of benefits as there is an extremely high prevalence pf these not being received consistently or at all.

Once a functional system with the above penalties and requiring absent parents/ non-resident parents to pay their true share of 50% of their children’s living costs is put in place perhaps it could be revisited, but not until such a system was in place.

Dexterrr · 19/04/2026 14:39

PinkElephants356 · 19/04/2026 07:48

This is specifically what I would like the government to do;

  • Reverse the NI increase for employers so cost of employing is more affordable and increased costs do not get passed to consumers
  • Introduce temporary guidance to employers to allow working from home if one can and wishes to in order to reduce demand for fuel and thus hopefully prices in the short term whilst the Iran war continues
  • Remove VAT from hospitality and restaurant businesses so it is more affordable for people to support these businesses
  • Regulate comms providers more, it is great that they can no longer raise prices by RPI half way through a persons contract but they are able to raise prices by £3 each year throughout a contract - the price should be fixed for the contract term
  • Regulate leasehold and freehold building and estate charges and in particular the amount these companies are able to charge for administration and management on top of the actual cost of maintenance (as well as their profit margin) so residents are not overcharged for these services
  • Introduce more customer service regulation and greater consumer rights; make it a requirement for all consumer goods and service providers to offer a customer service email address or online form to allow quick and easy resolution, require longer warranties on electrical goods, more redress schemes in general
  • Regulate subscription prices for cloud services and VPN etc.
  • Standardise school uniform across the UK so that it can be purchased cheaply from supermarkets and mainstream retailers
  • Regulate pricing of baby formula and healthier baby, toddler and children’s foods
  • Means test those in social housing and on secure tenancies annually and if their earnings increase over a certain level, charge them the full market rate for renting their properties rather than the usual reduced rental charge. The increased revenue should go towards lowering council tax for everyone
  • Provide more funding for doctors surgeries and other NHS services. Currently my doctors surgery receives a pitiful proportion of the tax and NI that I pay each year
  • Allow more medicines to be available on an NHS prescription and fund more procedures on the NHS such as ear syringing so people are not having to pay for that separately
  • Recognise that often council tax is the household’s largest bill and efforts should be made to reduce this or at the very least freeze future rises
  • Consider turning TV license into an optional pay for streaming service for the BBC
  • I hate to say it (and many will disagree) but freeze any non-essential local authority spending in the short term such as play area refurbishment, new cycle paths etc. to lower the council tax bill for households
  • Regulate and cap the management charge allowed on pension accounts
  • Ban service charges in restaurants and allow optional tipping only
  • Remove the triple lock; increase pensions by average wage increase only
  • Reduce rates for independent high street retailers
  • Freeze any increases on prescription costs, garden waste bin collections, council tax, TV license, NHS dentistry until the freeze in tax thresholds has been lifted!

I wish you were in charge to implement these!

Thechaseison71 · 19/04/2026 16:52

BigAnne · 19/04/2026 13:32

What puzzles me is the fact that child maintenance payments are disregarded when claiming UC.

Ah because blokes can be bloody u reliable at paying it. So if they didn't cough up it would leave the parent with care below the amount needed to live on by law id they decided not to cough up

It used to be the case parent with the child could keep the first £15 but the rest was taken off any benefits

Katypp · 19/04/2026 19:06

Thechaseison71 · 19/04/2026 16:52

Ah because blokes can be bloody u reliable at paying it. So if they didn't cough up it would leave the parent with care below the amount needed to live on by law id they decided not to cough up

It used to be the case parent with the child could keep the first £15 but the rest was taken off any benefits

Edited

Sorry this DOES need reform.
It looks like about 37% of parents do not pay up, which is awful, but it does mean that 63% DO pay up, so we have an extremely generous safety net in place for something that is more likely not to happen than to happen.
Posters on MN are always very eager to cull pensions and benefits to pensioners but are strangely reluctant to engage with anything that affects their age group.
The current system permits someone to claim full benefits for being a single parent then potentially a generous maintenance payment on top, untaxed.
Pensioners quite rightly pay tax on anything they get above the basic allowance amount - why can't everyone?
Completely agree about the public sector pensions though. That and the ability to retire a whole decade earlier than SP age.How they have managed to convince the country that their jobs are uniquely stressful and their pay is massively lower than private sector I will never know.

caringcarer · 19/04/2026 19:13

XenoBitch · 18/04/2026 19:38

Mine has gone up 40% and I used even less this time (had a note on my bill saying so and to "keep going"). I get billed every 6 months.

My DH used to work for Ofwat and led a team that got that subsidy for South West. He has retired now but was livid when he saw it was now being scrapped.

Thechaseison71 · 19/04/2026 21:08

Katypp · 19/04/2026 19:06

Sorry this DOES need reform.
It looks like about 37% of parents do not pay up, which is awful, but it does mean that 63% DO pay up, so we have an extremely generous safety net in place for something that is more likely not to happen than to happen.
Posters on MN are always very eager to cull pensions and benefits to pensioners but are strangely reluctant to engage with anything that affects their age group.
The current system permits someone to claim full benefits for being a single parent then potentially a generous maintenance payment on top, untaxed.
Pensioners quite rightly pay tax on anything they get above the basic allowance amount - why can't everyone?
Completely agree about the public sector pensions though. That and the ability to retire a whole decade earlier than SP age.How they have managed to convince the country that their jobs are uniquely stressful and their pay is massively lower than private sector I will never know.

Maybe they should get the NRP to pay directly to the state then to ensure what I said doesn't happen. Else you are plunging over a third of people into below the law poverty

DdraigGoch · 19/04/2026 21:31

Thechaseison71 · 19/04/2026 21:08

Maybe they should get the NRP to pay directly to the state then to ensure what I said doesn't happen. Else you are plunging over a third of people into below the law poverty

The NRP should be forced to contribute a set minimum regardless of their own declared means. Far too many sit unemployed or work for cash in order to shirk their responsibilities to the children they had a part in creating.

And yes, this should go via HMRC with real sanctions for non-compliance.

Thechaseison71 · 19/04/2026 22:30

DdraigGoch · 19/04/2026 21:31

The NRP should be forced to contribute a set minimum regardless of their own declared means. Far too many sit unemployed or work for cash in order to shirk their responsibilities to the children they had a part in creating.

And yes, this should go via HMRC with real sanctions for non-compliance.

Tell me about it. For 16 years and 2 kids my ex paid the grand sum of £28

In the end the csa scrapped the claim when youngest DD was 21

Eridian · 20/04/2026 12:23

ShanghaiDiva · 19/04/2026 15:34

@Eridian - agree, the public sector and state pension funding situation is frightening.
https://www.if.org.uk/research-posts/can-the-uk-afford-to-pay-pensions/

Economists have been pointing out the sheer impossibility of these systems being funded as they stand for over 30 years (despite the half-hearted reforms to public sector pensions in the meantime which are nowhere near sufficient). It’s a mathematical fact that the promises made at present cannot be paid, so they won’t be. It would be far better to be upfront with people about this now so they have time to plan, but of course our politicians don’t want to address unpopular truths so they deflect and try to find scapegoats or focus on irrelevancies in comparison like single mothers caring for children or disabled people or immigrants or whatever to deflect attention from this huge, grey, big earred animal sitting there in the corner.

Until the structure and funding models for healthcare and pensions in the UK are addressed (by far the two largest and most wasteful items of expenditure) and our tax system is reformed to remove the well-evidenced perverse incentives stifling any prospect of growth living standards will continue to decline because there will not be sufficient money to fund the productive investment in areas of the economy that will actually improve productivity and raise living standards: education, infrastructure, energy security etc.

These are basic economic realities but the electorate do not wish to hear it so keep voting for people who are pursuing policies which will accelerate the decline.

luckylavender · 20/04/2026 12:31

lovealieinortwo · 18/04/2026 16:35

I would like them to scrap the triple lock & use that saving for investment but no government will have the guts to do it.

Lowest pension in Europe I think