Am i being unreasonable to feel absolutely furious with how things are getting dealt with? My sisters husband (28) has been accused (SA) by both of our nieces, one is 10 other is now 18. 10 year old came out with a very specific story, she had the date and exactly what happened. Telling it very clearly, after she came out with it earlier, my 18 year old niece told of an experience she had when she was around 12 and a few others.
Now obviously this is a sensitive subject and i get that people lie, but the way these girls by my family are getting called liars, trouble makers and completely dismissed is actually really upsetting me... Everyone keeps saying he is too nice, too good with kids to do it. Now the reason why i personally believe them is because the things they've described solely, without input from anyone else are things he tried to do to me, i obviously called it out, he was brushing past my body and touching my bum/thighs every single time at first i thought i was crazy, but it kept happening. One day we was alone at my parents house, i was cleaning for my parents (i am near 30) and he came down stairs with only boxers on and a visible hard on i felt so unsafe as the only two people in the house PLUS ive given no signs, signals etc and hes with my sister, so he is a risk taker and quite brave to do that, i remember feeling pure shock as i known him for so many years and i walked out the house and just cried basically. I obviously told my sister but she didnt believe it and said i was misunderstood so since then any brushes or anything i feel are instantly written off. Well my nieces described exactly the same, brushes past on their bum and they both said he flashed their penis to them. The 10 year old remembers the exact day as it was by Christmas and she literally detailed how and when it happened (seeing his penis) and the story was identical to my sisters in terms of what they all did that day. Shes taken his side (and my father has) completely and is calling them liars trouble makers etc.
She (and my dad). said bcus the kids have had a 'tough' home life they are lying to cover up for someone else. I got mad today because they are calling them all sorts of names, dismissing the claims and even told the girls dad that hes a liar too as he is going to the police. My dad has said some questionable things, like he keeps saying he is 100% innocent (over his own grandchildren), and he said there's no way he would ever, he wouldn't dare and that he doesnt want my nieces to come at all to my moms house anymore, i cant say that he 100% did it but, i have a gut feeling and i haven't slept all night and my first instinct is to protect especially the 10 year old. Am i being unreasonable for wanting to fall out with these people for my nieces?!