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Unwanted clothes

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Sweetpea70 · 15/04/2026 13:07

What is your opinion on donating clothes, or taking them some where like clothes for cash? I'm asking from a environmentally point of view, not a financial one.
I've given up with Vinted, Ebay & car boot sales for most stuff. The market is flooded with over consumerism.
Thinking about cash for clothes, because at least you get something back.
Trouble is, you read about how much of it, & also items left in clothing banks, gets shipped abroad. This has caused their own local textiles businesses to collapse. I saw one article where anything unwanted ends up on a beach!
Charity shops are inundated with stuff too.
We have wrecked the planet with too much stuff...

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PeatandDieselfan · 15/04/2026 14:41

Surely with kids it's easy? Do people in the UK not do hand-me-downs any more? Where I am, everyone passes kids clothes on to a friend with smaller kids when it's outgrown. When it's too trashed to pass on, it gets used as rags or goes to fabric recycling.

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 14:56

Have similar problem - family member passed away leaving bags and bags of ties, some unworn.

I think some charity shops are reluctant to take ties as they’re hard to shift.

I wonder if there’s any organisation that recycles things like these, turning them into clothing, bedding soft toys etc?

Had a quick search online but couldn’t find anything.

CookieDes · 15/04/2026 15:11

Thinking about your toddler coat example OP, do you not have a local baby bank you could donate that sort of thing to? I've got one near me that does amazing work with families in need (lots of women fleeing domestic violence,) and they are always in desperate need of good quality baby and kids clothes, toys, and other kids items. It will also stay very local, and won't be being shipped halfway round the world as per your concern about clothing banks.

MiaKulper · 15/04/2026 15:14

Thinking about cash for clothes, because at least you get something back.
You get peanuts. Drop it off at a charity shop instead. Ask first.

If they aren't taking it, bundle it and offer it on freegle or freecycle.

Londonmummy66 · 15/04/2026 15:25

For good quality childrens clothes I'd suggest asking at your local one o clock club or childrens centre in the first instance as they may take in/know who does. There are baby banks all over the place that also take and some food banks run free "boutiques" - my local one does where people can come in for clothes, bedding, kitchen stuff etc which is stocked by donations.

Justploddingonandon · 15/04/2026 15:52

weareallcats · 15/04/2026 13:36

There is a charity near me (assume that there are others in other areas) that works a bit like a food bank for clothes - people donate and then families in need are referred. I’ll see if I can find a link.

There's one (in fact more than one) of those near me too, and they also take toys and books, but they either only take baby stuff (we're past that stage), don't want the sizes/toys I've got because they already have too many, or have a drop off window of something like 10-12 on a Thursday when I'm working (I get that they have limited volunteers but even one weekend drop off a month would help). I eventually gave in and gave most stuff to Anglo doorstep collections, who were quite happy to collect while I was wfh. I must admit I'm not entirely convinced that the stuff sold abroad goes where it's needed, but it as that or the tip.
My current issue is they don't take school uniform, which you'd think would be easy to donate, but the school second hand uniform shop only want branded stuff (apparently no one buys the other stuff secondhand as it's so cheap new) and even the council uniform bank in inundated.

LateLifeReturnee · 15/04/2026 16:10

Zero Waste groups on Facebook are good - an alterative to freecycle. I both give away and get stuff from that site.

I try really hard to buy less.

MidnightMeltdown · 15/04/2026 16:49

I know what you mean. I was selling a few bits in Vinted recently and the sheer volume of barely worn clothes is utterly horrific. Clothing should be much, much more expensive in my view, to stop people buying it like sweets! I read somewhere that there’s enough clothing already on the planet to cloth the next 6 generations, without manufacturing anything!

I think the rule is that you shouldn’t buy more than 5 new items a year if you want to be sustainable (including shoes and handbags).

VeraWang · 15/04/2026 17:01

isthismylifenow · 15/04/2026 14:27

Do you know what happens after you get your text though?

This is a very likely scenario:

All of those bags of donated goods are sent to a warehouse, where they are unpacked and sorted into clothing types.

One section will be t-shirts. All the white t-shirts will be separated from the colour t-shirts and baled up. If the intention is for rags, white t-shirt material for rags are charged at the higher rate than colour tee-shirts.

The jackets will go to one section. Each jacket type will be sorted according to the jacket type. Puffer jackets will go together. Trench coats will go together. Kids sizes together. And so on.

Then on to the next category of long dress, short dress, light colour trousers, dark colour trousers, gym wear, jeans, shoes well that is just a whole other paragraph.

Then these are sanitized and compressed and wrapped up. A lot of the time they are wrapped up in things like sheeting and multiple of duvet covers and blankets that are there too.

Then they go up for sale and get shipped out to the buyer, who has now ordered 600kg bale of white tees, 50kg of short jackets and 200kg of jeans. A 50kg jacket bale is around 40 - 50 jackets.

Then they arrive to an African port and get shipped off to whoever ordered the bales. Some are for donations, some are for rag businesses, and some are for just for resale. For those going for resale, it just takes a walk to downtown central and there on the street and piles and piles of clothes. Heaped piles With a cardboard sign above saying the price per each item. Jeans 50p, dresses 20p etc.

I think if more people could see the reality, then maybe they would think twice before thinking about adding 20 items to their cart for the upcoming holiday.

Gosh that's a long post. I kind of feel bad that I don't care what happens to them, I just want rid! 🤣🤣

Anyway, you can check out the charities bit on their page if you get the urge.

https://anglodoorstepcollections.co.uk/

Frontpage

We offer a free charity doorstep collection service. We collect the donations from your door, then donate to your selected charity.

https://anglodoorstepcollections.co.uk

RampantIvy · 15/04/2026 17:04

I donate them to the local hospice hub.

Unicornsandprincesses · 15/04/2026 17:29

Having wrestled with this same issue, I decided to donate to the Salvation Army clothing bins. I believe quality stuff is redistributed to families in need or sold in their shops.

It was the best option I could find.

https://www.salvationarmy.org.uk/clothing-bank

Clothing banks

Clear out your wardrobe, protect the environment, and help us change lives all over the UK.

https://www.salvationarmy.org.uk/clothing-bank

isthismylifenow · 15/04/2026 17:30

VeraWang · 15/04/2026 17:01

Gosh that's a long post. I kind of feel bad that I don't care what happens to them, I just want rid! 🤣🤣

Anyway, you can check out the charities bit on their page if you get the urge.

https://anglodoorstepcollections.co.uk/

This is the general problem.

People think no more about what happens to all those bags once it's out of their hands.

It's an environmental disaster. The transport to China to sort, then shipping to elsewhere in the world to move it all along, this is before a vast amount gets dumped.

I suppose because I see it happening all around me, it just makes me hyper aware of the issue.

I do not know the charity linked. So I am not implying they don't do what they say they do. I know there are good organisations that help the needy all over.

But there is just too much waste with nowhere to go.

VeraWang · 15/04/2026 17:32

isthismylifenow · 15/04/2026 17:30

This is the general problem.

People think no more about what happens to all those bags once it's out of their hands.

It's an environmental disaster. The transport to China to sort, then shipping to elsewhere in the world to move it all along, this is before a vast amount gets dumped.

I suppose because I see it happening all around me, it just makes me hyper aware of the issue.

I do not know the charity linked. So I am not implying they don't do what they say they do. I know there are good organisations that help the needy all over.

But there is just too much waste with nowhere to go.

Yeah but I actually don't care.

I was just suggesting that since you clearly do, you might want to read the 'charities' bit in the link.

Or not 🤷‍♂️

HelloCheekyCat · 15/04/2026 17:32

Primark and H&M have recycling points for clothes but I don't know what they do with it...

I'm going to use our local salvation army collection so thank you for the tip PP!

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:33

NotATumshie · 15/04/2026 14:04

I always take stuff to the Salvation Army clothing banks as they either reuse, sell or recycle stuff.

I do as well. They are brilliant, and it all gets passed on to those in need.

Nursemumma92 · 15/04/2026 17:34

Apologies if this has already been mentioned but haven't RTFT as on the go but a local clothes bank came to mind. Could you see if there is one in your area? There are lots in my county that take clothes in good condition that open to families to come and choose clothes for their children. Lots of them you can donate a bag and then choose some more.

Obviously less helpful with adult clothes but they do exist for adults too, just not so common. Worth looking into though.

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:35

Nursemumma92 · 15/04/2026 17:34

Apologies if this has already been mentioned but haven't RTFT as on the go but a local clothes bank came to mind. Could you see if there is one in your area? There are lots in my county that take clothes in good condition that open to families to come and choose clothes for their children. Lots of them you can donate a bag and then choose some more.

Obviously less helpful with adult clothes but they do exist for adults too, just not so common. Worth looking into though.

The Salvation Army are great for that, as pp have said.

1980isitjustme · 15/04/2026 17:36

Are there any women’s shelter/community wardrobe type places near you? Mine has a Facebook page and posts quite specific requests (eg boy age 8 or woman size 10-12) as they just don’t have the space for everything but the requests are very regular as there are sadly so many people in need.

jdb9803 · 15/04/2026 17:37

If there is a women's refuge nearby they are always grateful for womens and kids clothing and toys - they often have to leave the home with nothing

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:39

jdb9803 · 15/04/2026 17:37

If there is a women's refuge nearby they are always grateful for womens and kids clothing and toys - they often have to leave the home with nothing

That's a very good suggestion. I've donated toiletries, but they are in need of clothes as well.

WerewolfOfLoudon · 15/04/2026 17:41

Your local Women's Aid will usually take Women's and Children's clothes in excellent condition. They will also take unused toiletries gift sets.

So many women have nothing when they leave an abusive situation and are put into shelters far away from home, care packages that include clothing and toiletries are essential. An unwanted gift set you have received is a small moment of peace for them.

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:43

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 14:56

Have similar problem - family member passed away leaving bags and bags of ties, some unworn.

I think some charity shops are reluctant to take ties as they’re hard to shift.

I wonder if there’s any organisation that recycles things like these, turning them into clothing, bedding soft toys etc?

Had a quick search online but couldn’t find anything.

You need to follow this account on Instagram. Very talented, I think she's Dutch.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/TheBohemianDream

booknerdhead · 15/04/2026 17:47

I’m trying to shop in my wardrobe rather than buy new stuff and not buy anything new for the ‘summer’. Let’s face it, we hardly have enough hot weather in the U.K. to warrant more new summer clothes.

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:48

Or Vinted, charity shops. Just not adding to the mountains of clothing already in existence.