My DP (together for 10 years) have always had a good sex life.
However over the past year or so he will not initiate sex with me. Once I initiate it, it’s always good. But I’m starting to feel unattractive and unwanted. I spoke to him about it and he said that at one time I had rejected his advances. So after that it’s put him off trying again.
I can’t even remember this time he speaks about, but he is definitely autistic and adhd although currently undiagnosed…so I don’t know if it’s an extreme case of rejection sensitivity. I have AUDHD too.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?