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My New manager’s comment to me

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crazystar · 13/04/2026 11:40

My new boss commented “don’t talk about being a contractor as it can be quite de-motivating” to junior staff on temporary contracts

how would you take this ? I’m quite proud of my contractor status - it’s taken years to become an expert on my field and be valued as a standalone professional. So this felt jarring.

I had drafted an email to say I was upset but then pressed delete - we’ve a one to one tomorrow , is it worth raising? Or head down as I’ve not long to go here.

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Arlanymor · 13/04/2026 16:17

Sounds an odd set up - I've been both a contractor and a consultant getting paid on a rolling basis and with limited security and no holiday. As a mat leave cover it's usually paid at the same rate - unless highly specialised - and essentially a fixed term contract, but would never have called myself a contractor, just referred to myself as maternity cover. I've done four maternity cover contracts in my career to date.

Automagical · 13/04/2026 16:18

crazystar · 13/04/2026 15:57

I am a mat cover so PAYE and less security than most here

Edited

If you're on a fixed term contract for maternity cover and not even any uplift in pay as recognition of the temporary status I'm puzzled about why on earth you would be 'proud' about your contractor status.

I wouldn't even consider you to be a contractor

Automagical · 13/04/2026 16:20

Or for that fact, why colleagues would possible be demotivated by it!

Arlanymor · 13/04/2026 16:21

Automagical · 13/04/2026 16:18

If you're on a fixed term contract for maternity cover and not even any uplift in pay as recognition of the temporary status I'm puzzled about why on earth you would be 'proud' about your contractor status.

I wouldn't even consider you to be a contractor

Edited

Totally agree. I am equally puzzled. I have done mat cover for a charity, for the NHS, for government and for heritage - always called myself 'maternity cover'. Always a fixed term contract (sometimes adjusted in terms of length depending on when the post holder was returning), with PAYE, holiday and sickness. Not what I would consider a 'contractor. When I was a contractor I had no holiday, no sickness, no protections and paid my own tax!

Niallig32839 · 13/04/2026 16:22

A mat cover would be a fixed term contract so there for a period of time eg 6-12 month mat cover and paye. A contractor is usually a day rate and for a task or project and would maybe come up in context like training days or teambuilding days and not need to go, not need holidays approved in the same way. I don’t see it as something to ‘brag’ or show off about just different. Maybe if others start asking or looking into what they perceive contractors to earn it could cause a bit of upset in the team, not really your issue but can see why a manager might feel uneasy with it.

crazystar · 13/04/2026 16:23

Arlanymor · 13/04/2026 16:21

Totally agree. I am equally puzzled. I have done mat cover for a charity, for the NHS, for government and for heritage - always called myself 'maternity cover'. Always a fixed term contract (sometimes adjusted in terms of length depending on when the post holder was returning), with PAYE, holiday and sickness. Not what I would consider a 'contractor. When I was a contractor I had no holiday, no sickness, no protections and paid my own tax!

I do both! This time it’s a mat cover - the only reason to mention is that’s they way I’ve been working for 8 years or so and I’m proud of my work - I generally go in for defined projects and get good results , this time it’s a bit more BAU

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crazystar · 13/04/2026 16:24

Niallig32839 · 13/04/2026 16:22

A mat cover would be a fixed term contract so there for a period of time eg 6-12 month mat cover and paye. A contractor is usually a day rate and for a task or project and would maybe come up in context like training days or teambuilding days and not need to go, not need holidays approved in the same way. I don’t see it as something to ‘brag’ or show off about just different. Maybe if others start asking or looking into what they perceive contractors to earn it could cause a bit of upset in the team, not really your issue but can see why a manager might feel uneasy with it.

The juniors are temp workers

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Niallig32839 · 13/04/2026 17:15

So you’re currently on a FTC and they are ongoing temps with less experience.
Not worth bringing up at a 121 but maybe someone made a comment that you go on about how experienced you are and it’s not landing well.

EBearhug · 13/04/2026 18:42

I work in IT. To me, a contractor gets paid a (usually huge) day rate, which compensates for no sick pay, no holiday pay, no pension. Some of them are brilliant and worth every penny, and some are blagging shysters who are really crap. I thought that for a lot of contractors, for the employer, it's not a huge difference from paying a permit, as the higher rate isn't so different from paying salary plus pension, tax, NI, etc. They don't usually have annual goals etc, but there is mostly a line manager to coordinate tasks/whatever they're meant to achieve, because they're almost never working in isolation, but as part of a team, on a project.

TBH, I've never usually known who is a contractor or not until they're the first to be let go (no redundancy- and one who was sacked didn't have to go through the full HR process.)

Fixed term contracts aren't the same.

If I were working as maternity cover, I'd probably want yo let people know, maybe "maternity cover for Jo Smith" on my email signature, which explains why I'm there, why it's temporary, but days nothing about whether I've been seconded from another department, a temp from an agency, a fixed term contract employee, or contractor on ££££.

PinkFrogss · 13/04/2026 20:05

Are you telling colleagues you are a contractor in your current role?

If so I think your manager was unfair to simply tell you to stop talking about it, rather than explain to you that you are not employed as a contractor with them.

whattheysay · 13/04/2026 21:12

If you’re a contractor/consultant you don’t have a boss. They are your clients you are not employed by them.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 13/04/2026 22:54

Do you think the manager has picked up on the attitude you displayed in your first post? Someone has obviously complained.

Bubblebathbefore8 · 14/04/2026 09:56

Just take your managers lead/advice, you don’t need to continuously be talking about your other contracts. Enjoy the role

Howmanycatsistoomany · 14/04/2026 10:09

Honestly OP I couldn't get worked up about this. Surely everyone knows you're a contractor so why the need to keep mentioning it?

rwalker · 14/04/2026 10:16

He’s being tactful you’ve obviously been pissing people off

NormallyAwkward · 14/04/2026 17:04

Wherever I've worked, contractors are paid a ridiculous sum of money, far more than us plebs could even think of! It may not be the case with you but others may not know that.

Firesidechatter · 14/04/2026 17:07

Oh not where I work, the agency gets a bigger number and contractors get a low rate of pay, there is also a difference often due to tax and no holiday or sick pay also.

Leavesandthings · 14/04/2026 17:42

I'm confused - you talk about being an expert contractor but you are actually doing a fixed term maternity cover job on PAYE?

MrsJeanLuc · 14/04/2026 18:40

My new boss commented “don’t talk about being a contractor as it can be quite de-motivating” to junior staff on temporary contracts

Hmm, is this code for "don't tell my juniors what you are on in case they get ideas above their station "?

@crazystar I wouldn't bring it up tbh, just keep your head down and do your job.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 14/04/2026 18:47

MrsJeanLuc · 14/04/2026 18:40

My new boss commented “don’t talk about being a contractor as it can be quite de-motivating” to junior staff on temporary contracts

Hmm, is this code for "don't tell my juniors what you are on in case they get ideas above their station "?

@crazystar I wouldn't bring it up tbh, just keep your head down and do your job.

I think it is code for ‘please stop wanging on about what an expert contractor you are because you are irritating everyone’

TheCraftySquid · 14/04/2026 19:01

You aren’t a contractor in this instance. You’re an employee on a fixed term contract. As a manger, I find it a bit odd if my mat hires we’re going round saying they were a contractor. It sets a different tone in a business and unsettles employees, as they may have the perception that the company is investing in expensive contractors to cover maternity. I’d be having a quiet word too, especially in this financial climate. Perhaps your boss could have provided more context but I agree with them.

StillSpartacus · 14/04/2026 19:02

If you are mat cover on a fixed term contract, that would usually mean you are an employee. Your boss probably wants you to stop wanging on about being a contractor, because it might give people ideas.

topcat2014 · 14/04/2026 19:11

If you have a "manager" and one to ones then you are just a temp. Senior contractors are employed as specialists for a specific function and work in collaboration with mngt

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 14/04/2026 19:25

StillSpartacus · 14/04/2026 19:02

If you are mat cover on a fixed term contract, that would usually mean you are an employee. Your boss probably wants you to stop wanging on about being a contractor, because it might give people ideas.

And an expert one too apparently 🙄

WhisperingShadowsStoptheworldiwannagetoffNSOUl · 14/04/2026 19:28

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 13/04/2026 11:43

Could you get a badge made that says "I'm a contractor" to let everyone know that way?

Inbetweeners vibe first day of school with the name badge.