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Why would this woman offer to work for free?

32 replies

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:38

And how much should I pay her?

I posted on a local job page on Fb asking for someone to do a small admin job. I need three different Cv’s making to target different establishments. I have all my info, but am just rubbish at setting it all out properly and have little time really.
A young woman messaged me and I explained what there was to do and asked for her fee. She messaged back that she would do it for free as she liked helping people. I told her not to be silly as it’s a job, albeit small and I will of course pay her.
She wrote back that she was happy to help and to decide what to pay her if I feel I should.
I sent the info to her and she has got onto it straightaway, although I said there was no rush.

Does this seem a bit odd or is she simply a nice person?

I will of course pay her.

How much would you pay for this job?

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Fernic · 12/04/2026 21:41

Decide when you see her work!

Glitchymn1 · 12/04/2026 21:44

Could be lonely, could love doing it who knows!

deserthighway · 12/04/2026 21:44

I know a lady who does similar she is on means tested benefits and if she charged for her work it would effect the benefits so she asks for a voluntary donation instead which can be labelled as a gift. Could be the lady you posted about be in the same circumstances.

pouletvous · 12/04/2026 21:46

send her some flowers?

why didn’t you run through chat gpt?

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:46

deserthighway · 12/04/2026 21:44

I know a lady who does similar she is on means tested benefits and if she charged for her work it would effect the benefits so she asks for a voluntary donation instead which can be labelled as a gift. Could be the lady you posted about be in the same circumstances.

Ahh yes possibly 🤔 maybe doesn’t want to advertise it as any sort of business or work

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Bunnyfuller1 · 12/04/2026 21:47

Use AI as a starting point. Then edit so take out the AI-ness. You can feed in your experience and the role profile…….about 3 mins later..

bananaboats · 12/04/2026 21:48

Not sure why you would pay someone to do this? Chat GPT could do it quicker than the time to type this post.

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:48

pouletvous · 12/04/2026 21:46

send her some flowers?

why didn’t you run through chat gpt?

I did do it through Chat 🤣 that’s how rubbish I am though, I struggle putting it altogether and pdf’ing and what not, i’m too tired with kids and my actual job and know this is easy for most people

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deserthighway · 12/04/2026 21:49

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:46

Ahh yes possibly 🤔 maybe doesn’t want to advertise it as any sort of business or work

Yes, and her messages will leave a clear audit trail if she is ever asked to provide bank statements to the authorities. It's quite a sensible thing really.

Now you need to google the going rate for 3 CVs.

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:49

Fernic · 12/04/2026 21:41

Decide when you see her work!

But if it’s all ok, how much would you say? £20? Or more

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INX · 12/04/2026 21:51

She'll just run it through AI to be honest.

Still weird though that she doesn't want to charge.

I'd be a bit concerned about giving her all my personal info to be honest, because something sounds a bit off.

deserthighway · 12/04/2026 21:51

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 12/04/2026 21:49

But if it’s all ok, how much would you say? £20? Or more

More like £45 if they are really good.

LaverneBakerImtheonetodoitNSOUL · 12/04/2026 22:06

deserthighway · 12/04/2026 21:51

More like £45 if they are really good.

I had one done a few years ago £126..I was clearly diddled I'm not a high flying professional more run of the mill minion.

notatinydancer · 13/04/2026 05:23

INX · 12/04/2026 21:51

She'll just run it through AI to be honest.

Still weird though that she doesn't want to charge.

I'd be a bit concerned about giving her all my personal info to be honest, because something sounds a bit off.

Agreed.

YayRain · 13/04/2026 05:39

It's possible she's lacking work experience, or has a gap, and is hoping you'll be a reference for her as a result?

sashh · 13/04/2026 05:43

Maybe she is looking for experience and s a PP implied she might be on benefits.

Maybe she is trying to build up a business.

If the work is good then offer to write her a reference.

KellyJonesLeatherTrousers · 13/04/2026 06:20

Did you ask her for an example of what she has done before or is she just randomly replying to your ad? This should take half a day, say £20 an hour so £75/80.

Mysticguru · 13/04/2026 06:38

I don't charge but expect donations to cover expenses. So pay what you feel is the correct amount for the service provided.

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 13/04/2026 08:28

So she’s done the first one, corrected a couple of mistakes, laid it out neatly, i’m pleased. She said she’s completing the other two today

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IAxolotlQuestions · 13/04/2026 08:58

So bung her some cash as a gift.

Trumpisacunt · 13/04/2026 09:18

Probably wants the work experience or for a portfolio? Theres a lovely young hairdressing student who offers free hair cuts on our local FB page as she wants the experience-personally I think thats a brilliant idea to not only get some extra practice in but to get future customers for when she's qualified.

Wantingmoreyorkshirepuds · 13/04/2026 09:35

IAxolotlQuestions · 13/04/2026 08:58

So bung her some cash as a gift.

Oh I’m definitely paying, just not sure how much 😬

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Vodka1 · 13/04/2026 13:13

Maybe to get experience behind her? Like when the local colleges do cheap cuts or I see beauty people all the time offering low price/free work if they can use the photos.

Could be that.

Ask her how long she thinks it will take?

mindutopia · 13/04/2026 13:20

So when I do editing, I charge 5p a word. A CV is very short though and requires a lot more formatting and attention to detail than normal editorial work would. If you’re happy with what she’s done and it’s taken less than a day, £50?

Meadowfinch · 13/04/2026 13:23

Minimum wage is £12.71 an hour.

Judge the quality of work, and how long it takes her and then pay accordingly.