Sunday night dread getting worse lately so much so it started this morning. Had a horrible week last week at work. I generally get on well with my manager. I’d say the line is blurred between manager/employee and friend in that we buy eachother birthday presents, sometimes text outside of work. Anyway, last week she was very stressed with too much work on, regularly been doing more hours than she should. We were on a Teams call and I asked a question that clearly annoyed her - she shared her screen and was typing furiously saying she’d already told me this and then said that she hates to tell me this but I have no common sense. I was taken back by this, didn’t know what to say so kept quiet. It really upset me. After the call ended I burst into tears. I’ve worked with her for a number of years now and she’s never been so rude before. I heard from a colleague that she knew she’d upset me- she had told my colleague what she’d said to me. She hasn’t mentioned it since and she sent a text over the weekend as if nothing had happened. I replied as normal too and then wished I hadn’t. I felt utterly useless and still do really. Thing is she’s always doing U turns and it’s hard to know what I’m doing a lot of time so I like to clarify. Even if she had already told me the information, I still don’t think I deserved that reaction. I know I either need to let it go or try and find another job.