This shouldn't be a zero sum game.
I do wonder if the government should do something like a thank you pack - offers for days out, other discounts for families with both parents working over 39 hours a week and earning under a certain threshold.
It wouldn’t be much but it would show their contribution is valued and they are not just seen purely as cash cows funding everyone else.
also a bit more help and recognition for people who have paid in - ie a but more support for a set period of time if they lose their jobs or become ill.
it would even things up a little and possibly stop voting for Reform