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Irritated that families on UC get heavily discounted entry

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happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 17:54

feel very aggrieved this afternoon to find out that people on UC get heavily discounted entry to popular attractions:

London Zoo
London transport museum
science museum wonderlab
Cutty Sark
kew Gardens
St Paul’s cathedral

As a mum with a professional career, with both husband and I working full time, paying a mortgage, paying a fortune in childcare for 2 under 4’s I seriously despair! From experience of people I see around me, families on UC seem to have more disposable income than us as their rent is paid, have no childcare costs and all their costs subsidised on social tariffs etc.

why is the government getting away with this and why are more middle class/income people not up in arms about it! At the moment I can’t see how us working hard and being self sufficient has benefited us as a family.

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SpryTaupeTurtle · 09/04/2026 20:58

Yes. We just replace everyone with "workers". Simple as that.

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 20:58

Thechaseison71 · 09/04/2026 20:56

What about those on low income but not receiving UC. Don't their kids also " deserve" to go?

Where do you think the cut off should be?

playthegame · 09/04/2026 20:58

I think it’s great!
I’m a single mum (not through choice)!
I work, I pay rent, I pay full council tax and all other bills/food etc. I also receive a small amount of UC a month.
I have 1 dependent child and 2 older teens. These discounted schemes actually allow us to have a day out that I would otherwise not be able to afford!

Lavender14 · 09/04/2026 20:58

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:55

I said adults should take responsibility. Is it responsible to have 4 children by choice and no partner and no intention of working?

All my life I have been a champion of those struggling, but this is just ridiculous.

No partner by choice or let down by shit men who are somehow avoiding your radar?

LarsenBiceshelf · 09/04/2026 20:59

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 20:56

Are you hoping or wanting that to be free / subsidised as well?

Don't clutch your pearls too tightly, but it already is - you can get 50% off travel in London, though only if you're actively looking for work. So I guess it's tough titties for the single mum who's had to leave work to care for her disabled / sick child, eh.

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:59

Forthesteps · 09/04/2026 20:56

Why should you expect respect for your ignorant and jealous comments?
We as a decent society should support each other. You know that terrible thing called community.
We are, as has been pointed out, only a few adverse events away from disaster. It's called spreading risk.

I'm not ignorant and I'm not jealous. We absolutely should offer support and a helping hand. Should be paying for everything for a family? Isn't work, a job of intrinsic value?

AllaMova · 09/04/2026 20:59

YABVU. Underprivileged people should be able to access cultural enrichment alongside the people with more disposable income. What harm can it possibly do?

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:59

Lavender14 · 09/04/2026 20:58

No partner by choice or let down by shit men who are somehow avoiding your radar?

Choice.

ClearFruit · 09/04/2026 20:59

ChocolateAddictAlways · 09/04/2026 20:54

This thread is really grim. Eurgh.

Agreed.

jellyfish798 · 09/04/2026 21:00

I'm always baffled by ppl who think good tech should only be for ppl who are on a good wage. Haven't you heard of klarna/catalogues/credit cards? I don't see how society is any better off just because Mr Smith in council flat 6 doesn't have a flatscreen TV...WHO CARES WHAT TV OTHER PPL HAVE GOT! Mind your business.

The media and government spread nonsensical lies that our economy is ruined due to ppl on benefits buying themselves a PlayStation on klarna... ridiculous. They just tell us this so we fight with each other and hopefully don't notice it's the politicians themselves who tank the economy.

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 21:00

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:59

Choice.

So, she used a donor?
and had single babies each time?

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 21:00

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 21:00

So, she used a donor?
and had single babies each time?

Yes.

Lancrelady80 · 09/04/2026 21:00

I don't think anyone is actually cross with people taking advantage of the opportunities offered to them. It's more symptomatic of the massive problem the country and economy is in. We've somehow (Brexit, Covid, Ukraine, Iran, consecutive governments who have been either inept, corrupt or simply not fussed) got to a position where the cost of living for everyone has become so appalling that the number of people / families earning only slightly over UC eligibility has massively increased. Theresa (spelling?) May spoke about the "squeezed middle" and the "Just About Managing" a decade ago and things have only got worse. The proportion of people close to the UC line but eligible for nothing is now much larger. Those on benefits have, quite rightly, been protected a bit, but it's galling to then see more and more going to them when things are really tight to many, many people with no help at all. Those cheap tickets (and I know these are business decisions by companies, not the government) are being subsidised by more expensive tickets for everyone else, pushing more and more people out, like the pp mentioning an exhibition she and her dd can't afford to go to. A pp mentioned even giving out tickets to go bowling in the holidays...guess what we haven't done for the last 8 years due to £££! We've had to prioritise other things.

We seem to always be using the crude marker of UC eligibilty for everything, and everyone else gets nothing.

The support over oil prices is a great example - yes, UC claimants etc should not have to go without heating. They should get support. But we are all struggling, all in need of support to cope with excessive price rises, especially in rural areas where driving and oil heating are the only options. And profiteering is absolutely happening!!! Not only will we get zero help, we will be paying more to support others, even when skint ourselves. I read about an alternative way support is being rolled out in other countries, which seemed much fairer. Or HMRC could easily produce a list of households with income over eg £x thousand, which could be used to target support more fairly. Or companies could give the government a list of customers on oil and the government could chuck them a certain amount to deduct from those bills, with whatever limits.

Noone really minds the tickets, it's that all help only seems to go in one direction when we're all struggling, and that help is funded by us despite our own struggles. It's the perceived unfairness.Add it all together and it's no wonder there's a lot of resentment over £1 tickets etc.

I don't know what the answer is other than to somehow sort out the economy, get employers paying sensible wages and to get companies earning ££££££££ of profit to absorb some of the additional costs and be willing to only earn £££££ of profit for a while!

Nimonion · 09/04/2026 21:01

playthegame · 09/04/2026 20:58

I think it’s great!
I’m a single mum (not through choice)!
I work, I pay rent, I pay full council tax and all other bills/food etc. I also receive a small amount of UC a month.
I have 1 dependent child and 2 older teens. These discounted schemes actually allow us to have a day out that I would otherwise not be able to afford!

But most of the country can’t afford to go at full price. Do you think you deserve to go MORE than them? I can’t see a solution to this I must say, it’s just a shame only those on UC can easily access these places.

BlueRedCat · 09/04/2026 21:01

LarsenBiceshelf · 09/04/2026 20:48

This exactly. Living on benefits is awful - I used to be on Working Tax Credits (as UC was then known) 20 years ago. Now I'm an additional rate taxpayer. But I certainly don't mind my taxes helping those who haven't had the lucky breaks I did - and particularly their children - because I'm not a total bastard.

Who denies a child a nice day out? And I'm sure their parents would rather not be taking handouts, but we can't all have two professional jobs in the family and the luxury of choosing a naice nursery (not all take UC). I'm pretty sure most people also know the value of work, too. But if you can't make it into the dwindling pool of professions, then it's easy to become depressed and ill and then... ah.

But what about the children whose parents both work full time and don’t qualify for Uc and take home the exact same amount of net pay as a lower income family who are topped up by UC. Do their children not deserve a day out too?

Mlddleoftheroad · 09/04/2026 21:01

I remember when my dc were small, both dh and I worked in low paid jobs (thanks employers for prioritising profits over people) and so got tax credits.

We used our club card vouchers to pay for things like zoo visits so our dc could have some enjoyment (or is that just for the rich?).

Ds1 is now a vet so giving back. Perhaps we should have starved him of all culture and lived a dreary dull uninspiring childhood in keeping with your expectations..

You need to open your mind to the possibilities that these types of experiences will open for those dc rather than begrudge that those with very little in life are receiving an opportunity they would otherwise miss out on.

SpryTaupeTurtle · 09/04/2026 21:01

I don't live in London. So the discounts I get for being on UC are completely minimal. I get more for being a student than being on benefits

Coffeeandbooks88 · 09/04/2026 21:01

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 20:56

Are you hoping or wanting that to be free / subsidised as well?

No. Just saying it might be too expensive for many to get to these cheap places.

ChefsKisser · 09/04/2026 21:01

I agree OP. Most of those things you listed would be a once a year big treat and saved for. The fact that people on UC can attend for a few pounds is really depressing. We are relocating abroad partly because we are sick of subsidising what feels like everyone while struggling ourselves. Another high earner and NHS worker out of the system, I’m glad I won’t be there when it all implodes.

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 21:02

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 21:00

Yes.

Then I think your example is extremity niche and does not represent the larger demographics of those claiming UC…or do you expect the government to means test every claim individually?

Sillycake · 09/04/2026 21:02

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:42

Is a reasonable adjustment a foreign holiday?

what about tax breaks for the rich ? how does that help the economy

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 21:04

BlueRedCat · 09/04/2026 21:01

But what about the children whose parents both work full time and don’t qualify for Uc and take home the exact same amount of net pay as a lower income family who are topped up by UC. Do their children not deserve a day out too?

Yes, they do but where does is end and who is responsible for means testing who gets a free day at the zoo?

SpryTaupeTurtle · 09/04/2026 21:04

BlueRedCat · 09/04/2026 21:01

But what about the children whose parents both work full time and don’t qualify for Uc and take home the exact same amount of net pay as a lower income family who are topped up by UC. Do their children not deserve a day out too?

Very unlikely they will have the exact amount of a family topped up by UC. Like how dare people on benefits get a discount on anything? If someone's income is low - there are discounts they can get without being on UC

Jamontoastandtea · 09/04/2026 21:04

Anyahyacinth · 09/04/2026 20:23

Things like affordable childcare I guess, I’ve always worked FT but I don’t assert some ridiculous superiority over others who have different needs

What?! The person I have been referring to is a Teacher so obviously works term time with family support and has no childcare issues yet chooses to work part time.
I am a TA and have chosen this to work around family life and not worry about childcare as I have it covered. Maybe I should drop my hours and see if I can claim anything?!

Coffeeandbooks88 · 09/04/2026 21:04

Coffeeandbooks88 · 09/04/2026 21:01

No. Just saying it might be too expensive for many to get to these cheap places.

Mind you pensioners get free bus passes so why not?

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