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Irritated that families on UC get heavily discounted entry

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happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 17:54

feel very aggrieved this afternoon to find out that people on UC get heavily discounted entry to popular attractions:

London Zoo
London transport museum
science museum wonderlab
Cutty Sark
kew Gardens
St Paul’s cathedral

As a mum with a professional career, with both husband and I working full time, paying a mortgage, paying a fortune in childcare for 2 under 4’s I seriously despair! From experience of people I see around me, families on UC seem to have more disposable income than us as their rent is paid, have no childcare costs and all their costs subsidised on social tariffs etc.

why is the government getting away with this and why are more middle class/income people not up in arms about it! At the moment I can’t see how us working hard and being self sufficient has benefited us as a family.

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happydappy2 · 09/04/2026 20:07

JacquesHarlow · 09/04/2026 17:58

Can’t you just feel fortunate @happybug1234 that you’re able to make choices? To have a paid off “forever” home at the end of your life?

can you not be happy without having to think of what others might be getting , and seeing that as a perceived advantage when you’re actually doing a lot better off than most?

But she won't be able to pass that 'forever home' to her kids as the taxman will automatically take 40% when she dies.....even if you work all yr life and pay off the mortgage, you only really own 60% of yr house....

anniegun · 09/04/2026 20:08

Just looked at the first attraction on the list and its London Zoo which is receives no state funding. So you clearly are being unreasonable when you demand the government bans them from offering discounts to groups they want to encourage

Frenchtoastie · 09/04/2026 20:08

ohyesido · 09/04/2026 17:58

I’m not sure that life on UC is quite the subsidised bed of roses implied here. Yes the rent is paid but once the kids are clothed and fed, bills paid and other sundry costs covered there isn’t much left.

Yes but why should there be? Money.for.free

youalright · 09/04/2026 20:08

Tableforjoan · 09/04/2026 20:07

That sucks, tbf I don’t think there would be anything in my area either.

Maybe if you happen to have a haven holiday somewhere there might be stuff close by.

We can't really go on holidays but thankyou maybe one day

Another2Cats · 09/04/2026 20:08

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 18:05

It’s not really fair at all. The middle are squeezed as always while hand outs are given out Willy nilly

"The middle are squeezed as always"

Just out of interest, what is your understanding of who "the middle" are, exactly?

Tacohill · 09/04/2026 20:08

ThisMellowCat · 09/04/2026 19:43

As someone who sees people on benefits who do not work, and bringing in over £4000, yes four thousand and more a month, when others work full time bringing in far less and struggle, I get where you’re coming from.
Even the school has admitted that the only parents struggling to pay for school trips, and late paying lunch fees are the working parents.

If you’re seeing families who do not work bringing in over £4000 a month then that is because they’re on disability benefits.

You’re saying you’re jealous of parents with disabled children.

You do realise that most people who claim UC are the ones working FT.
So the argument that only those that are working without claiming UC are struggling is BS because UC is there to top up low wages - so they’re either getting UC top ups or earn too much to qualify.

cadburyegg · 09/04/2026 20:09

DannyDeever · 09/04/2026 20:05

I bet your total income is above the national average salary and you chose you have three children with a feckless guy. Your choice, your responsibility.

Few people who don't get benefits can afford three children. I'd love to have three children but I can't afford to. (Yet I'm helping to pay for your children and your bad choices. 😡)

Aim your vitriol at the deadbeat dad.

There’s a lot of misogyny at the heart of these posts. Sad

Kirbert2 · 09/04/2026 20:09

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 20:07

£33.60 for a standard weekend adult ticket… what’s your point?

The point is clearly that they aren't free.

CharlieEffie · 09/04/2026 20:09

I have 2 kids under 4, i work and get top up UC. I dont have my rent paid and i most definitely dont get free childcare. Why should kids miss out on days out because you dont like the fact their parents are on benefits

dizzydizzydizzy · 09/04/2026 20:09

You know what, OP, life is hard for eveyone but is it definitely harder on benefits. Also you don’t necessarily get your rent paid. Where I live, the rent payment ceiling for a single adult is just over £1000 but the rent for a one bedroom flat is arround £1500.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 09/04/2026 20:10

Kitte321 · 09/04/2026 19:19

The reality is OP has a point.
Wage stagnation, the freeze on the income tax thresholds and COL increases have all created a huge issue.
Posters cite companies paying low salaries/not offering pay rises as the issue but businesses are also having to tackle increasing costs (transportation, raw materials, utilities) whilst also dealing with increasing NMW and ENI. Many businesses are grappling with massive challenges.
Add in a spiralling benefits bill, soaring levels of unemployment and we are in a loop that means none of the above issues can be tackled to put more money in the average workers pocket.
Those working are becoming poorer and poorer, at a time when those on benefits are receiving more, that will understandably cause resentment.
I want those on UC to take their kids to enriching activities, but those working should surely be able to as well.

This 100%.

dizzydizzydizzy · 09/04/2026 20:11

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 20:07

£33.60 for a standard weekend adult ticket… what’s your point?

The PP seemsd to think it was free.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 09/04/2026 20:11

hoarahloux · 09/04/2026 17:56

You're right OP, people on benefits should stay inside out of sight and never have any fun. They should know their place. It's a travesty that underprivileged children are given the chance to experience fun days out, they don't deserve it at all.

🙄

No one says they should stay inside.

They can go anywhere they like but they can pay fur themselves, like the dwindling number of us who are paying for everything.

Papyrophile · 09/04/2026 20:11

Burritoplease · 09/04/2026 18:01

It’s a privilege to have a mortgage, to earn a middle income and to be middle class. Sounds like you can’t recognise this. But I hope that children from underprivileged backgrounds are kept from having fun so that you can feel better about your life.

I don't agree with you that it is a privilege. If you have done the study and the work to earn more than shelf-stacking wages while becoming a professional, then I applaud your ambition and drive. Frankly, we need more of you.

JustAnotherWhinger · 09/04/2026 20:11

previouslyknownas · 09/04/2026 18:25

Don’t forget historical palaces inc the Tower of London
up to 6 people can get in for 1 each if you get UC
and if your lucky enough to be disabled and get PIP / then you can get your carer in free to a lot of places like the London Eye longleat and discounts on traveling by rail

Also with Tower of London if you get in on the discounted membership you get 50% off in the cafe. If the kids eat free deal is running (which it does most of the time there) they actually do 50% of adult meals and kids eat free in combo.

GardeningMummy · 09/04/2026 20:12

Bemyclementine · 09/04/2026 17:58

Well, at least get your facts right before posting.

I will admit to being surprised when I discovered that these discounts existed.

That said, I am a single parent, 2 children, I work, and I recieve Universal Credit. I have childcare costs (because you know, I work....) I pay my mortgage, and I dont know what you mean by "social tariffs".

Sooo. Yes. Yabu.

A social tariff is things like how BT do cheaper broadband for those on UC

youalright · 09/04/2026 20:13

Papyrophile · 09/04/2026 20:11

I don't agree with you that it is a privilege. If you have done the study and the work to earn more than shelf-stacking wages while becoming a professional, then I applaud your ambition and drive. Frankly, we need more of you.

Its a privilege to have an education remember that

CornishTiger · 09/04/2026 20:14

@happybug1234 free school meals for all children in households who receive UC from Sept 2026 too just in case you want to be annoyed about something else.

DoosDoos · 09/04/2026 20:15

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 19:56

So lower paid roles are only reserved for the young, the old and the mums.

WTF 😂

I mean why would you want to make such a job your entire life? Not just a period of your life, but make it the entirety of it.

DannyDeever · 09/04/2026 20:15

Inequality is a pernicious evil that disadvantages everybody.

You only need to look at Soviet East Germany to see where equality leads. Pay grafters and non grafters the same and the grafters either become non grafters or leave and that's exactly where we are. Dwindling numbers of tax payers funding more and more unproductive people and that spiral is difficult or impossible to undo. I'd say we're past the point of no return in the UK. Voters on the take outnumber voters paying in and that means no government will ever get elected to fix it. The only options for people willing to support themselves are quit work with anxiety and join in or leave the UK.

C152 · 09/04/2026 20:15

For a large portion of my career, I worked in reward. In 20 years, only 1 employee declined to participate in salary sacrifice because they felt taxation was used for the good of society and so denying the government the full tax on their salary was morally wrong. Are you as moral as that person OP, or do you take advantage of the benefits you're entitled to?

  • Did you receive SMP? (If you were lucky enough to be working for an employer long enough for the employer to pay you maternity pay, do you resent others getting paid Maternity Allowance by the State?)
  • Did you take advantage of free dental care and prescriptions when you were pregnant?
  • Do you take your children for free dental and eye checkups? Do you visit the GP or use the NHS in any way?
  • Do you claim child benefit? Should people who choose not to have children be angry that some people get this free monthly handout just because they chose to have kids, yet others don't?

If one of your children was diagnosed with a devastating disease and you subseqently lost your job because you needed to care for them full time, would you just think, oh well, life's dealt me a shit hand, I guess I'll lose my home and pop down to the food bank in between hospital visits, or would you claim benefits? If you/your husband/your children became disabled, would you claim DLA or PIP, or would you just solider on?

Is it just low paid and unemployed parents you object to, or you do you detest those pesky front line workers getting blue light card discounts as well? What about employers who subsidise rent deposits for their lowest paid employees? Is that terrible too, as not everyone works for an employer who does that?

As others have said, (a) some private organisations choose to offer discounts to specific groups - this has nothing to do with the Government (btw, everyone who lives in my borough gets £1 access to at least one big central London attraction - should that be stopped too, or is it ok, because it's location rather than poverty related?); (b) we should be seeking to raise standards for everyone, not knocking each other down.

Lordofthebantams · 09/04/2026 20:15

youalright · 09/04/2026 20:13

Its a privilege to have an education remember that

Fortunately we live in a country where education is free to access

Jamontoastandtea · 09/04/2026 20:16

Anyahyacinth · 09/04/2026 20:03

I think it’s bad that people get weekends, annual leave, sick leave and other entitlements..there is bound to be someone missing out so let’s junk the whole idea and live in Victorian times again …it just mustn’t be the case that anyone has something another doesn’t..let’s all have FAR less 🤦‍♀️

So it’s ok to be able to choose how many hours you work so you can get UC and all the benefits that come with it rather than working full time to get the annual leave, sick pay, weekends etc…?

If it’s that easy to claim UC then what incentive is there to go back to full time work?!!

bafta16 · 09/04/2026 20:16

hoarahloux · 09/04/2026 17:56

You're right OP, people on benefits should stay inside out of sight and never have any fun. They should know their place. It's a travesty that underprivileged children are given the chance to experience fun days out, they don't deserve it at all.

🙄

I know somebody who is massively, massively taking the piss. This is a turnaround for me as I believe in Socialist ideas.

She doesn't work, has never worked, will not work. She has 4 kids by 4 fathers. Every thing is paid for. They have autism (?) but get to the head of the queue at theme parks, onto a plane first, into a museum free. It's madness.

JustAnotherWhinger · 09/04/2026 20:16

youalright · 09/04/2026 19:55

I looked there is absolutely nothing anywhere near where I live

It’s worth checking periodically as different places add their discounts at different times.

Generally they are on at the quietest periods for the places (as they’re not actually doing the discounts out the goodness of their hearts - they’re to attract in people who wouldn’t otherwise go and tick some boxes for their charitable status) outwith London.

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