Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Irritated that families on UC get heavily discounted entry

1000 replies

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 17:54

feel very aggrieved this afternoon to find out that people on UC get heavily discounted entry to popular attractions:

London Zoo
London transport museum
science museum wonderlab
Cutty Sark
kew Gardens
St Paul’s cathedral

As a mum with a professional career, with both husband and I working full time, paying a mortgage, paying a fortune in childcare for 2 under 4’s I seriously despair! From experience of people I see around me, families on UC seem to have more disposable income than us as their rent is paid, have no childcare costs and all their costs subsidised on social tariffs etc.

why is the government getting away with this and why are more middle class/income people not up in arms about it! At the moment I can’t see how us working hard and being self sufficient has benefited us as a family.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
11
RockLobsterRockLobster · 09/04/2026 19:12

Majesticalling · 09/04/2026 19:06

OP. I would encourage you to look at who is actually taking YOUR money and why you feel so stretched (and therefore agrieved about discounts for families on lower incomes).
Private equity firms own a huge amount of our nurseries and care homes etc. With no accountability and interest in anything other than profit they are absolutely fleecing us all!!!

Be cross at these guys, they are the bad guys - not institutions making experiences accessible for everyone or families enriching their kids lives.

Exactly this. This is a great response.

This is a classic Reform tactic. Look at the poor, stealing from you. When in fact, it should be the previous Government and their failures that we should be criticising. There are many reasons why working families are stretched to the limit at the moment. The poorest families in society being able to take their children on a day out at a discounted rate at local attractions isn’t one of them. Unbelievable that as a society, some begrudge children from poorer families being able to experience such attractions.

Firstbornunicorn · 09/04/2026 19:12

cadburyegg · 09/04/2026 19:08

Please tell me how much you think I get then. Feel free to ask questions about my circumstances.

I get about £20 some months, depending on childcare! Living a life of absolute luxury, me. And I also have a mortgage and a 14 year old car that I bought at a Cat N auction and pulled the dents out with a pan of hot water and a hammer. The luxury 💆🏻‍♀️

Allisnotlost1 · 09/04/2026 19:12

Sonato · 09/04/2026 19:02

No one is begrudging a child a day at the zoo. That is a strawman argument.

What people begrudge is that two sets of parents can be in the same financial situation at the emd of the month, one on UC, one not - yet only one of those sets receives state help and subsidised prices at said zoo.

The other receives fuck all.

Thats what people begrudge.

This is a fair point, but the answer isn’t begrudging private businesses or charities offering discounts, is it? It’s a rise in wages, or a widening of eligibility for top up benefits. (I’d prefer the former). Why is it, for example, that consumers are bearing the cost of a distant war through inflation, rather than massive corporations taking a reduction in profit?

Forty85 · 09/04/2026 19:12

I absolutely don't begrudge it at all. All children should be able to have nice experiences regardless of their parents situation, especially if they are educational.

Northernlights19 · 09/04/2026 19:13

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 18:06

Yes they can afford holidays. I know lots of families on universal credit that go on more and better quality holidays than us!

Sure you do 😂😂😂😂

thewonderfulmrswatson · 09/04/2026 19:13

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 18:01

Those in benefits will get pension credit to top them up and also my property will be used for care fees where as someone with no home will get theirs paid for. So at the end of the day no better off….

Then give it all up and be a big bum dosser on UC instead then. Discounts, free care when you're elderly, free rent. No brainer!

Monty36 · 09/04/2026 19:13

I think the perception of unfairness is only going to increase.
Especially amongst those who qualify for absolutely nothing but finances are fairly tight. Who see people who once they qualify for a ‘gateway benefit’ qualify for quite a bit across the board without having to apply for it from dental costs to reduced entry.

DoosDoos · 09/04/2026 19:14

Another thing someone else can pay for. Typical

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 19:14

Sonato · 09/04/2026 19:02

No one is begrudging a child a day at the zoo. That is a strawman argument.

What people begrudge is that two sets of parents can be in the same financial situation at the emd of the month, one on UC, one not - yet only one of those sets receives state help and subsidised prices at said zoo.

The other receives fuck all.

Thats what people begrudge.

This…

Bryonyberries · 09/04/2026 19:14

If you are working full time and don’t need UC top then be grateful that your employer values you enough to pay a proper wage. Many of us don’t have employers paying a living wage so need a top up just to live. The entry fee discounts aren’t widely advertised and I only stumbled across them by chance. They are usually discounts for historical sites and UK heritage.

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 19:14

Monty36 · 09/04/2026 19:13

I think the perception of unfairness is only going to increase.
Especially amongst those who qualify for absolutely nothing but finances are fairly tight. Who see people who once they qualify for a ‘gateway benefit’ qualify for quite a bit across the board without having to apply for it from dental costs to reduced entry.

And this

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 19:14

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 18:01

Those in benefits will get pension credit to top them up and also my property will be used for care fees where as someone with no home will get theirs paid for. So at the end of the day no better off….

But you will have a larger pension and the choice of (a likely nicer) care home.

All of the things you’ve listed are for the children only those on UC, the children don’t get a choice…plus it’s giving children from, potentially, deprived areas/families a chance to see things they might not otherwise, encouraging education and, possibly, breaking cycles at home in terms of attitudes to education, etc.

I work in a school and we hand out vouchers for kids to even go bowling in the holidays. Some children are truly growing up in really sad circumstances.

Northernlights19 · 09/04/2026 19:14

I think anyone who has a problem with CHILDREN benefitting from something is absolutely pathetic tbh.

Ochtawa · 09/04/2026 19:15

HotRootsAndNaughtyToots · 09/04/2026 19:04

Imagine the horror when people on this thread realise that the rich get lots of things for free, just because they're rich

I heard about this guy in London, kiddie fiddler who's never worked a day in his life, spent literally decades going on all sorts of holidays, private islands, private jets, lives in a fucking state funded mansion, doesn't pay council tax. He's got loads of tellies and a bunch of horses too, plus pizza on tap, that other people pay for. Makes you wonder what the point of it all is.

PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 19:15

Northernlights19 · 09/04/2026 19:14

I think anyone who has a problem with CHILDREN benefitting from something is absolutely pathetic tbh.

It’s not just for children though.

PuzzledObserver · 09/04/2026 19:15

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 18:34

Do you realise how big of a pension pot you need to take home £240 per week in retirement?!

Except if you have saved a pension pot, you will also have paid NI. So you will have your state pension, on top of whatever you get from your private pension.

Whereas pension credit is set at a few quid a week below the level of the state pension….. and that will be ALL of their income.

BlueRedCat · 09/04/2026 19:15

The issue surely is, if you have a relatively decent income and have only 2 children you probably aren’t that bothered by this and are likely to be the people slating the OP.

but, clearly there are a group of people who earn just above the line of UC, but not much more and could only afford a couple of children but would have wanted more. They look at the numbers and can’t afford these trips for their 2 kids, but look at a family who maybe has 3 or more children (and this family might be working themselves but earning less) who end up taking home more than they do. Then on top of that that family get to have subsided trips (so not to punish the children) whilst their 2 children miss out. I absolutely do have sympathy for that situation.

I don’t know what the solution is though. I do think if it is a culturally enriching experience it should be equal to everyone no matter their background. Culture is a great leveller.

sickofthissick · 09/04/2026 19:15

Sirzy · 09/04/2026 19:11

I hope something there is useful.

are med students entitled to a blue light card? If so they also often have deals on access to places so worth her checking

Yes, she uses that as often as she can. She's always taking them out and about but really has to think about where and when so this will be soo useful.

WimbyAce · 09/04/2026 19:16

user1471538283 · 09/04/2026 18:45

In my experience when we were on benefits I couldn't have afforded to visit attractions anyway. We didn't live that far from one but it would be the cost of the bus fare and possibly a drink whilst there as well as the entrance fee.

But by cutting off these reduced rates it will only affect the children. I want to be in a society that treats all children as equal.

"I want to be in a society that treats all children as equal".

Amen to that, but currently it most definitely does not. I often feel that my children are penalised by growing up in a "normal home" eg 2 parents, no benefits, no SEN.

JoiseeeEileennnn · 09/04/2026 19:16

Alternatively, OP, you are welcome to quit your job and give up all your assets. Then you can have free entry too 🙌🏻

FavouriteBiggle · 09/04/2026 19:17

hoarahloux · 09/04/2026 17:56

You're right OP, people on benefits should stay inside out of sight and never have any fun. They should know their place. It's a travesty that underprivileged children are given the chance to experience fun days out, they don't deserve it at all.

🙄

Yeah, that's exactly what she said.
🥱

Lougle · 09/04/2026 19:17

mydogisthebest · 09/04/2026 18:39

I think they should get some sort of discount but in a lot of places the discount is ridiculous. Me and DH went somewhere and it cost us £30 each (no discount for pensioners) but anyone on benefits got in for £1. It's a joke.

Also why do people on universal credit not have to pay tax on it? I get the state pension at a very slightly higher rate because I never opted out of serps and have to pay tax on it. My neighour gets more in uc and doesn't pay a penny in tax.

People on UC don't have to pay tax on it because those that don't work have been given the minimum level of benefits that the Government has decided they need. Those who get UC and work have already been taxed on their income from wages, plus they get 55p out of every £1 remaining deducted from their UC (except for their work allowance).

Northernlights19 · 09/04/2026 19:17

WimbyAce · 09/04/2026 19:16

"I want to be in a society that treats all children as equal".

Amen to that, but currently it most definitely does not. I often feel that my children are penalised by growing up in a "normal home" eg 2 parents, no benefits, no SEN.

You think your children are penalised for not having SEN? I've heard it all now.

SugarPuffSandwiches · 09/04/2026 19:18

JacquesHarlow · 09/04/2026 17:58

Can’t you just feel fortunate @happybug1234 that you’re able to make choices? To have a paid off “forever” home at the end of your life?

can you not be happy without having to think of what others might be getting , and seeing that as a perceived advantage when you’re actually doing a lot better off than most?

This
Seriously, it must be a miserable life to be so resentful/jealous of other people.
I'm on minimum wage, could not care less if others get stuff on benefits or not.
I figure I'd rather be able to work, to make my own choices, than have to stay at home due to health problems/ be stuck in benefits because it's too expensive to get out of them or whatever.

ChillingWithMySnowmies · 09/04/2026 19:18

happybug1234 · 09/04/2026 18:04

It doesn’t make them accessible for everyone as I can seldom afford these attractions full price. Where is the discount for my children to enjoy this experience?

You need to take that up with those PRIVATELY OWNED companies. Not blame the people getting the discounts.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.
Swipe left for the next trending thread