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AIBU to feel distressed by constant hold music while phoning services?

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ForeverTheOptomist · 09/04/2026 15:28

AIBU to feel utter distressed at the Hold Muzak that I'm being bombarded with?

It's everywhere. I have one contact that I sometimes call where I am give the option of music, bird call, or silence. The rest is crazy.

I am currently on hold to DVLA. I have been trying to call them, as they have requested by post, for a week. Each time I have been told that they are too busy and have been cut off. I am now on hold, which is progress, but so far am forced to listen to their hideous hold music for 38mins and 40secs. And yes, through a tinny iPhone.

I have no choice but to have my ears bombarded by this. It is stressing me out.

Why in Gods name do we have to endure this shit?

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ForeverTheOptomist · 03/05/2026 02:06

nochance17 · 09/04/2026 22:33

Yes the music is dreadful, the worst one is my GP surgery it’s not even relaxing music and the last thing you want to listen to when you are feeling poorly. I wonder if they do it on purpose so you hang up. Same in supermarkets, I have cut short my visit before because it’s irritating, too loud and I can’t concentrate.

Some time later ..... and I apologise that I haven't responded to posts.

Yes, dr's surgeries. I have complained to mine, but they say that it is out of their control, and provided by some NHS body.

What I find equally distressing about this (and yes, I do mean distressing) is that before you are bombarded with this crap you also have to listen to hour after hour (ok several minutes) of a womans voice telling you how to treat the staff, what to say, what not to say, etc etc etc.. I'm already well stressed before the muzak even starts. Sometimes I have to press keys to select the purpose of my call and get cut off because I cannot figure out the best number to press to get where I need to be. And no, I'm a definitely not stupid!

The choices of music that is selected, or created for the purpose, does absolutely sod all to reflect the tinny phone speaker too.

All in all it's a disaster. Perhaps I'll write some appropriate sounds and music myself.

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