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School as child care

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Differentforgirls · 07/04/2026 18:45

From another thread.

A poster said that state schools are there for helping parents to work. Therefore teachers are childminders. Teachers!

I think schools are there to educate our children and, though the staff go above and beyond these days, that is their primary function.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Whenisitmyturntorest · 08/04/2026 09:05

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:03

Education isn’t child care.

So as I said, you believe they were fine without childcare during school hours. So why did you take AL when school was closed?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

Etherealcelestialbeing · 08/04/2026 09:05

Can you define what childcare is then please OP?

Other people looking after your children.

OP posts:
Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

Whenisitmyturntorest · 08/04/2026 09:05

So as I said, you believe they were fine without childcare during school hours. So why did you take AL when school was closed?

I can’t be any clearer. Sorry you don’t understand.

OP posts:
Chigreenen · 08/04/2026 09:09

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

Other people looking after your children.

So when teachers have a formal duty of care towards children under the education act are they ‘looking after’ your children? I would say they are, but that’s part of their mandated duties as per the education act, so part of the role of a teacher.

Whenisitmyturntorest · 08/04/2026 09:09

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

I can’t be any clearer. Sorry you don’t understand.

Who cared for your children during school hours whilst you were at work?

Chigreenen · 08/04/2026 09:09

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

I can’t be any clearer. Sorry you don’t understand.

Nobody understands because you have failed to make a coherent point!

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:10

Chigreenen · 08/04/2026 09:09

Nobody understands because you have failed to make a coherent point!

You off today?

OP posts:
Chigreenen · 08/04/2026 09:11

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:10

You off today?

Have you worked out what your point is yet?

takealettermsjones · 08/04/2026 09:12

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:14

Like what? Not being snarky but which duties?

I think the 'not snarky' ship has sailed, hasn't it?

Just a hint: if you want to read more about somebody's views, maybe don't immediately dismiss them as appalling and then backtrack and try to ask for more of them.

In the spirit of reciprocation, I find your inability to meaningfully discuss this issue you've raised or properly expand on your points quite pathetic, so I won't be engaging any further.

Hope you and your high horse have an excellent day.

TheKeatingFive · 08/04/2026 09:12

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

Other people looking after your children.

But the teachers ARE looking after my children during school hours.

Who else is doing it?

Not me, I'm working across town.

Who else do you think is doing it?

Nonunifiedworkerworking · 08/04/2026 09:12

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:07

Other people looking after your children.

So teachers ..

Etherealcelestialbeing · 08/04/2026 09:13

Are you saying that someone looking after your children can’t also educate them?
Whilst I was at work, my mother in law taught my children to speak German. She also taught them to make brownies. She taught them the names of plants in her garden. She taught them about her Christian beliefs. She also read with them and sang nursery rhymes.
She educated them whilst looking after them. Which is precisely what teachers and schools do, yes?

MrsOni · 08/04/2026 09:18

Less so secondary school but primary schools absolutely provide childcare. It's not the primary purpose of a school, but there really isn't any sort of argument against that.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 09:18

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 08:26

Or by people who value teachers as Educators rather than baby sitters.

Edited

No. They’re teachers who are also responsible for children during school hours. It’s not hard to understand

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 09:20

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 08:23

You can work around school hours.

Not everyone can. My job certainly can’t be done in just school hours during term time. Neither can my husband’s

insightnumber9 · 08/04/2026 09:20

I have read the OP but that doesn’t explain why a retiree is choosing to spend such a beautiful sunny day engaged in pointless argument.

TheFaithfulWeaver · 08/04/2026 09:22

Of course schools provide childcare. The government recognises they are part of the network of childcare that allows parents to work. So do teaching unions.

This was made exceptionally clear during COVID - schools remained open to perform their childcare function to some children, while their education function was offered to all online.

Teachers didn't provide that childcare, but I did, and so did thousands of other school workers alongside me.

Similarly, when schools are shut due to teacher strikes, I'll still be there providing childcare for some particular students, even while the school isn't offering education.

Every afternoon, we have a small cohort that we are not actually able to provide a meaningful education for, but have in school and keep clean, fed, safe and supervised while providing free play activities. No learning happens or is planned, as this particular cohort are not able to learn in mainstream and have extremely complex needs. I am certain of this because I am on the rota. Their teacher's don't offer childcare; some of these students have never been inside their nominal classrooms. The school does still essentially provide childcare though, just not the teachers.

Teachers don't necessarily provide childcare, but schools do.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:24

takealettermsjones · 08/04/2026 09:12

I think the 'not snarky' ship has sailed, hasn't it?

Just a hint: if you want to read more about somebody's views, maybe don't immediately dismiss them as appalling and then backtrack and try to ask for more of them.

In the spirit of reciprocation, I find your inability to meaningfully discuss this issue you've raised or properly expand on your points quite pathetic, so I won't be engaging any further.

Hope you and your high horse have an excellent day.

Thank you!

OP posts:
Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:25

insightnumber9 · 08/04/2026 09:20

I have read the OP but that doesn’t explain why a retiree is choosing to spend such a beautiful sunny day engaged in pointless argument.

Edited

It’s raining.

OP posts:
ThejoyofNC · 08/04/2026 09:25

I don't know why people are even engaging with this. OP you are clearly just looking for an argument. Through all of your snarky responses you haven't actually elaborated on anything.

Why are you so obsessed with the word childcare that it offends you so much?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:25

Nonunifiedworkerworking · 08/04/2026 09:12

So teachers ..

That people seem to view as baby sitters.

OP posts:
EwwPeople · 08/04/2026 09:27

I don’t understand why you’re acting like you just discovered the Earth is round.
Of course , schools are there to educate children. The side effect of that is that kids are out of the house for 6/7 hours enabling parents to work. A lot might need additional, actual childcare. It’s not exactly rocket science.

How do you think all the teachers manage to go to work and teach if they have children?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:28

Etherealcelestialbeing · 08/04/2026 09:13

Are you saying that someone looking after your children can’t also educate them?
Whilst I was at work, my mother in law taught my children to speak German. She also taught them to make brownies. She taught them the names of plants in her garden. She taught them about her Christian beliefs. She also read with them and sang nursery rhymes.
She educated them whilst looking after them. Which is precisely what teachers and schools do, yes?

So you view teachers as baby sitters 👍

OP posts:
Nonunifiedworkerworking · 08/04/2026 09:28

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:25

That people seem to view as baby sitters.

They are a huge part of the amazing team of childcare providers with all their many differing titles. All of which the do a great job.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 09:28

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:25

That people seem to view as baby sitters.

No they don’t. You’re being disingenuous.
They recognise that children being at school allows them to work. This isn’t the same as viewing teachers as babysitters.