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That councils should help people install driveways

123 replies

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 15:46

I'm probably being unreasonable.

I've lived at current address for 9 years and the last year parking has been not just difficult, but nigh on impossible. I often have to park 1 or 2 streets away. I use a lot of equipment for work so my choices are park on pavement to unload (so wheelchairs and prams have to cross over or go in the road) or make several trips lugging heavy electrical equipment. My front garden is up a slope so I have to carry stuff up the stairs which makes it slower and limits how much I can carry.

I guess the obvious solution is for more people to install driveways but they are so expensive and even if you can afford it, the council may not approve a dropped kerb. Aibu that local councils should help people to install driveways? Either financially or by making it easier to get permission.

Also I'm talking about a drive big enough for 1 car not paving over the entire front garden as that would be horrible for wildlife.

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plinkityplink · 07/04/2026 16:15

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 15:51

No, housing association tenant.

I meant more as a general solution to so many cars fighting for space in dense areas. I'd bloody love a drive but even with help I couldn't afford it.

But dropped kerb removes a space for a car because you can’t block it so unless you have it for 2 or more cars you gain nothing?

thinktoomuchtoooften · 07/04/2026 16:16

So you want cheaper housing, cheaper driveways and cheaper handymen.

WormHoleInSpace · 07/04/2026 16:16

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:01

So my housing association used to offer a handyman service where you could get someone to cut grass, install fences, outside taps, extraction fans, etc. The service was often cheaper than private companies and you could pay it off monthly. I was thinking something along those lines.

Mine did the same many years ago , now they only maintain shared spaces like halls and stairs in flats . I live in a house so font use this but my nighbours say the fee has rocketed over the past few years.

I wouldn't expect the council to pay for it , it's not there house but they could make it a bit more straightforward to get a dropped kerb.

Have you asked the HA if they could help towards the payment or back a grant ?

Coconutter24 · 07/04/2026 16:17

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:13

Glad you're alright 👍

Well yes I am, along with plenty of others. It’s a silly suggestion that councils should finance this

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:17

thinktoomuchtoooften · 07/04/2026 16:16

So you want cheaper housing, cheaper driveways and cheaper handymen.

And cheaper fuel and groceries.

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MrsMabelThorpe · 07/04/2026 16:17

The way to deal with too many cars in an area is not to provide individual parking. Councils with money to splash can spend it on public services, bike lanes and storage and supporting car clubs if they really don't think elderly care, SEN etc are worth it.

Usernamenotfound1 · 07/04/2026 16:20

Everyone paving over driveways, even “just 1 car” has been shown to be terrible for the environment.

it also increases flood risk as the water cannot be absorbed into the ground and water table so it runs off.

we need to decrease paving, not add more.

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 07/04/2026 16:23

Also I'm talking about a drive big enough for 1 car not paving over the entire front garden as that would be horrible for wildlife.

There are hundreds of thousands of streets where you would have to pave over the entire front garden just to park one car.

DeafLeppard · 07/04/2026 16:24

Not happy with making driving easier, thanks very much. Car centric places are not the future. Most cities in Europe seem to have figured this out and can manage just fine without prioritising cars and drivers.

Loopylalalou · 07/04/2026 16:24

There are aspects to gaining planning consent for a dropped kerb (I suggest that’s what you mean) that are often overlooked such as view onto road to pull out (NOT reverse out, that’s not encouraged), view into proposed driveway, footfall along pathway, traffic speed along the roadway etc. So is it not better that an independent review of all those aspects takes place?

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2026 16:27

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:01

So my housing association used to offer a handyman service where you could get someone to cut grass, install fences, outside taps, extraction fans, etc. The service was often cheaper than private companies and you could pay it off monthly. I was thinking something along those lines.

No.

It's expensive to own a house. If you want all the benefits of a perfect house, buy one or pay for improvements yourself. That could include swapping your current house for one more suitable for you within your HA, possibly with a higher rent.

You already get lots of services at a much more reasonable price. Why should everyone else pay for your home improvements on top of their own?

House owners pay extra to have driveways. If you are HA you can sometimes make agreements to make improvements to your property at your own cost. Look into this and fund it yourself.

This idea of getting things funded 'for free' and this lack of understanding that someone else pays is really problematic.

If you aren't paying for it, who is? There isn't really much of a justifiable benefit to others from you being able to park on a driveway for the cost of installing a driveway.

Abitofalark · 07/04/2026 16:28

Nothing seems to solve the problem. People around here who have their own drives park in the road, unless they are prohibited from doing so - for example if they were given planning permission to extend their house on condition that they park on their own property, rather than the street.

Most of those here who choose not to park on their private drives do so either because they want to use the drive for children playing, or to make room to take out the bins or get to the garden, or to stop commuters or others from parking in the street.

Boomer55 · 07/04/2026 16:29

Why should local residents, via council tax, pay for your drive? 🙄. No.

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2026 16:30

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:17

And cheaper fuel and groceries.

Would you like one moon on a stick with that, or two?

ArtAngel · 07/04/2026 16:34

All driveways (with dropped kerbs) do is remove a parking space on the public road to allow a homeowner access to their own parking.

I think homeowners should pay for the impact of removal of a section of road for public parking - a surcharge which goes towards a public car park, for example. Or homes with a dropped kerb should be subject to a CT surcharge and the money used in the same way.

rwalker · 07/04/2026 16:37

cant stop laughing what a ridiculous suggestion

Tryagain26 · 07/04/2026 16:40

Local Authorities are extremely strapped for money. They struggle to fulfil their legal commitments. If by some chance they have any spare there are plenty more worthy causes than making homeowners life's a little easier and adding value to their houses.

HelpMeGetThrough · 07/04/2026 16:45

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2026 16:30

Would you like one moon on a stick with that, or two?

And the expense coming out of someone else’s pocket as well.

MsGreying · 07/04/2026 16:47

Wingedharpy · 07/04/2026 15:53

If people with garages parked their cars in them, that would help relieve the street parking issue somewhat.

But dropped kerbs remove on street parking.

Tryagain26 · 07/04/2026 16:51

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:13

I suppose it depends where you live if it would benefit the street as a whole. I live on a slope with parking only one 1 side of the street. Mostly flats here so lots of cars for only a little bit of road. Even if I lived on the other side of the street (where the gardens slope down) I would still prefer the houses opposite to have drives as it would free up more of the street.

Don't driveways mean there is less space on the road to park because you can't block them?

Soontobeorange · 07/04/2026 16:53

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2026 16:30

Would you like one moon on a stick with that, or two?

Stick? Silver platter please.

I agree that there are far too many cars, but I live in Devon and the public transport is awful so not having a car isn't a viable option unfortunately.

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ArtAngel · 07/04/2026 16:54

MsGreying · 07/04/2026 16:47

But dropped kerbs remove on street parking.

I suppose the PP meant people with garages are parking on the road - thus taking up an on street space AND taking up a space with their garage access

Credittocress · 07/04/2026 16:55

I think people should be allowed to drop the curb if they want one, but it should completely be up to them to pay for the costs and any administrative burden.

Tableforjoan · 07/04/2026 16:57

Tryagain26 · 07/04/2026 16:51

Don't driveways mean there is less space on the road to park because you can't block them?

Yup so drives only make sense when it means you can remove multiple cars off the road.

If you are doing it for the greater good rather than to just guaranteed your own space.

Our front would fit three or four cars if you removed the whole front garden. A couple of streets away you could barely fit a corsa on their gardens so wouldn’t free up road space.

Spaghettea · 07/04/2026 16:58

Most new homes aren't being built with a driveway and small front garden. They have a communal parking area nearby.

A total fuck up when you consider people are meant to be changing to EV's in a few years.

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