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AIBU to think Phoebe is least central to Friends’ main storylines?

72 replies

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:06

Here is the analysis of how the character is in the show :

Phoebe The Wildcard

Portrayed by: Lisa Kudrow

Phoebe occupies a unique position within the characters as the outsider-insider so to speak.

Her characters views allows the writers to introduce unconventional storylines and various odd stories, including:

  • Surrogate motherhood for her brother
  • Musical performances like “Smelly Cat”
  • Unusual personal philosophies

However, Phoebe seems to be the least connected to the main core characters and the relationships that drive the show’s main stories .

She is good and funny but her character is the more an addation rather than essential character to the show / stories in the show ?

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EdinaMonsoonsWardrobe · 07/04/2026 15:33

She wasn't a nice person and constantly threw her friends under the bus (Phoebe, not Lisa)

Graygoose3 · 07/04/2026 15:35

FullOfFresias · 07/04/2026 15:32

Ah ok. I thought it was well known that DS played a blinder there. Who blamed LK?

I can't actually remember,I didn't take much of the article in .
I think her management team were not happy or something

purpleme12 · 07/04/2026 15:36

I think I'll stop reading this thread
I love Phoebe!

Floatlikeafeather2 · 07/04/2026 15:38

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:07

The context for the thread is apparent some people have said she's basically just the sixth character in the show ?

The context is actually that you read the title of an article that is being circulated widely today but you couldn't be bothered to read what Lisa Kudrow herself has to say. (She's perfectly happy with way things have turned out btw.)

Flatinbed · 07/04/2026 15:38

I thought phoebe was mean to her friends too. Lisa kudrow was excellent though. No-one could have played that character.

Youllnevergetabetterbitofbutteronyourknife · 07/04/2026 15:39

Phoebe, For me, IS Friends and my favourite character! She has an edge to her that the others don't have. Probably because she was on the streets at 14, after her mother killed herself, and was living in a gremlin with a man called Cindy who talked to his hand! 😂

OneCoralGoose · 07/04/2026 15:39

Morepositivemum · 07/04/2026 15:12

My only issue at all connected with Phoebe is that they acted like Paul Rudd was a main cast member towards the end, they just did it because he was famous, I don’t think he was the ultimate happy ever after for her (and I don’t know that she needed one!!)

was he? before friends all he was in was Romeo and Juliet and clueless his big stuff was all after,

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:40

Floatlikeafeather2 · 07/04/2026 15:38

The context is actually that you read the title of an article that is being circulated widely today but you couldn't be bothered to read what Lisa Kudrow herself has to say. (She's perfectly happy with way things have turned out btw.)

i didnt want to put too much context and more a debate topic

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TheLambtonWorm · 07/04/2026 15:40

What in the AI slop is this? Is this MN doing or are real people so bored they do this?

FeliciaFancybottom · 07/04/2026 15:41

I never liked Phoebe, she constantly thought she was better than everyone, mocked the others for their beliefs and shit on their relationships.

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:42

TheLambtonWorm · 07/04/2026 15:40

What in the AI slop is this? Is this MN doing or are real people so bored they do this?

Edited

actually its hand written, heaven forbid people actually engage and debate rather than oh dear its ai, do you go on every thread and go oh is this ai

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Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:43

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 07/04/2026 15:26

AI?

its a human written debate topic, do you go on everythread and go oh ai ?

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Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:44

sometimes i wish i didnt bother creating the thread if all you get is oh this must be ai, why dont people put more effort into debating if they want to comment

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ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 07/04/2026 15:47

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:42

actually its hand written, heaven forbid people actually engage and debate rather than oh dear its ai, do you go on every thread and go oh is this ai

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Press X to doubt.

tripleginandtonic · 07/04/2026 15:47

EdinaMonsoonsWardrobe · 07/04/2026 15:33

She wasn't a nice person and constantly threw her friends under the bus (Phoebe, not Lisa)

But she'd had a really hard life. The last few series they made her character really bitchy though. The episode where Ross bought her the child's bike because she's never had one was great.

Meetmeunderthemoonlight · 07/04/2026 15:48

I always felt when watching that Phoebe was more of a heavily used extra than a main friend. I didn't like the character at all, she was just far too out there.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 07/04/2026 15:49

TheOpalReader · 07/04/2026 15:19

You really needed AI to summarise that for you. The use of AI is becoming absolutely ridiculous. I'd rather read a rambling wall of text or something with terrible grammar/spelling than the robotic drivel.

But Phoebe is absolutely essential to the cast, I'd say only Rachel, Ross and Monica are the main cast. Even joey and chandler have smaller roles.

So here we've got AI, a rambling wall of text and something with terrible grammar and spelling.

FullOfFresias · 07/04/2026 15:50

Phoebe making Ross question his whole belief system was hilarious though 😂

BillieWiper · 07/04/2026 15:50

Stop using AI with it's fucking bullet points stating the bleeding obvious. While adding in as much word salad as possible. Your own words must be better. Even if you don't have an English GCSE.

Can you just say 'Lisa Kudrow recently publicly stated she was considered 'the sixth friend' and an 'afterthought'. Do you agree with this or not?'

swimsong · 07/04/2026 15:50

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 07/04/2026 15:13

Here is the analysis of how the character is in the show

Whose analysis? Is this more AI slop?

Apart from the spelling, it does read like an AI summary

Pieceofpurplesky · 07/04/2026 15:52

Can people no longer think or write for themselves?

MyLimeGuide · 07/04/2026 15:52

Monica was the best.

Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:53

swimsong · 07/04/2026 15:50

Apart from the spelling, it does read like an AI summary

i wanted it structured that way so it was easier to understand my points heaven forbid i try to do somethin nice

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Hummingbird01 · 07/04/2026 15:53

Pieceofpurplesky · 07/04/2026 15:52

Can people no longer think or write for themselves?

then why waste time making that comment, when people read it what has it achieve on the thread ?

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Iocanepowder · 07/04/2026 15:55

Love Phoebe in ‘the one where they all find out’ about Monica and Chandler.