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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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Upsetbetty · 02/04/2026 16:22

ItTook9Years · 02/04/2026 16:18

But you’ve reminded me it’s time to sing this lovely ditty whilst sitting in a bath of mini eggs!

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🤣🤣🤣🤣love it!!

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

Needmorelego · 02/04/2026 16:19

Well presumably they aren't Christian families?

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

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taxcon · 02/04/2026 16:22

I'm not a Christian - I also tend to follow the pagan festivals, surely I could argue it's a sad state of affairs if children don't know the pagan meaning behind Easter 🤷

5128gap · 02/04/2026 16:22

In a non religious household why would it come up? Small children make bonnets and fluffy chicks and look forward to the Easter bunny bringing chocolate.
Its not a natural thing to say "You do realise that Easter is actually a festival celebrating the resurrection from the dead of Christ after he died for our sins so we might all have everlasting life", is it?
I mean its not like the baby Jesus, donkey, manger story thats easy to tell and understand. I assume school would cover it as part of education on religion in general, but its not one I'd be dropping into conversation.

dogcatfish · 02/04/2026 16:23

We should do away with easter, this is no longer a christian country so it's absolutely pointless.

Instead call it spring holidays. get rid of Good Friday and add a bank holiday maybe sometime in October.

Ved · 02/04/2026 16:23

@Tuliptana

YANBU, but many posters on here won't agree with you, because there tends to be an anti-Christian vibe on here from some ......

And yes, it is a sad state of affairs.

Needmorelego · 02/04/2026 16:24

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

You never said it was a Christian school.
I'm suprised it hadn't been taught then.
Assemblies and in RS lessons.
Blame it on poor teaching from the school if that's the case.

Upsetbetty · 02/04/2026 16:24

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

Are you in Ireland or the uk? Sometimes people have little choice in the school they enroll their children in. And believe it or not sometimes people choose to enroll their children in a school because they have a good reputation not because of their religious ethos… in many schools, including Irish catholic schools they now accept children of any faith and will accept that they will not partake in religious activities. Do you know why?…because the schools can’t afford to be that choosy. Lots of people immigrate from other countries and other cultures for a myriad of reasons, so the chances are in a class of 24 there may well be somewhere between 6-10 children of different faith. And I say that as a born and bred Roman catholic.

Swiftie1878 · 02/04/2026 16:25

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:13

I find this so disrespectful. Fine if you do not believe but please do not call my beliefs an old wives tale.

A lot of the population are non-believers, so for them Easter is about chocolate and time with family. Why you would make a judgement about that, but then ask people not to judge your beliefs is beyond me.
Each to their own, live and let live.

As an aside, even families who do believe often find the story of the crucifixion a difficult one to talk to children about without scaring them.

Needmorelego · 02/04/2026 16:25

dogcatfish · 02/04/2026 16:23

We should do away with easter, this is no longer a christian country so it's absolutely pointless.

Instead call it spring holidays. get rid of Good Friday and add a bank holiday maybe sometime in October.

Why would people want an extra day off in boring October?

whoopsnomore · 02/04/2026 16:26

Snorlaxo · 02/04/2026 16:09

How many adults would know? It’s clearly much lower than you think.

I think that rather proves the OP's point. Whether you are religious or not, I think knowing the origins and significance of Easter, Christmas, Lent etc (as well as those of other world religions) is an important part of both general knowledge and the background to UK, Scottish, European whatever culture. All totally at remove from what you personally believe. Literature, history, history of Art, politics...all linked.

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 16:26

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:04

If a child at 9yrs old does not know the meaning of Good Friday or why we celebrate on Easter Sumday, as Christians, it's a very sad state of affairs.

Well its just emblematic of the declining trend in religiosity including Christianity. Long may it continue.

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:26

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 02/04/2026 16:17

It’s disrespectful to tell children these stories. A poster above just said her child took this a fact.

Believe what you like but don’t pretend this stuff belongs in schools. It does not.

In a Catholic school is most certainly does

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Newsenmum · 02/04/2026 16:26

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

Because it’s a good school

BudgetBuster · 02/04/2026 16:27

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

You've said you are in Ireland.
Do you know how little Non Denomination schools or Educate Together schools there are? I would need to drive an hour to get my kids to a Non Denom school... and that has only just switched to Non Denom in 2025. Prior to that it was a Catholic School.

When my stepson started primary there were none on our county / within an hours drive. He went to the local national school and didn't do Religion. Out of 17 in his class... 5 didn't sit Religion.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 02/04/2026 16:28

Why is it a sad state of affairs? Would it be equally sad if kids didn't know about Diwali or Eid etc? Imo, parents should teach their children to respect the fact that people have different beliefs etc, but I don't think they need to teach them about religious myths that they don't believe in.

Children from practising Christian families will know, because the religious holiday will obviously have particular meaning or significance for them.

For children growing up in families which are of a different religion or no religion, it isn't really very important. I mean, obviously it would be good for them from a general knowledge perspective to have a basic understanding of the history of Easter, including its origins in pagan and Jewish traditions as well as the Christian stories/beliefs etc, but surely all children attending mainstream schools will get a basic grounding in each of the major world religions in any case?

ErrolTheDragon · 02/04/2026 16:28

TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 16:15

We don't close all large shops on Easter Sunday because of the Easter Bunny do we?
You don't need to tell children to believe if you don't but surely it is fair enough to say 'Christians believe that Jesus was crucified on Good Friday and resurrected on Easter Sunday. For Christians this is the most holy time, and as church and state are heavily linked in this country Good Friday is a public holiday and shops close on Easter Sunday'
You can go on to say the background of why we have Easter eggs too, linking back to pagan festivals etc.

Well yes…

High time the Easter closing rule was revisited. There’s probably a sizeable proportion of the population who would like to celebrate Spring with a trip to a nursery and then the remainder of the day gardening - because of their anomalously large size even small local nurseries can’t open.

dogcatfish · 02/04/2026 16:29

Down with Easter!!!

Alicorn1707 · 02/04/2026 16:29

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

availability, academic outcome, increase of parental choice?

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 16:29

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 02/04/2026 16:11

Why would they tell them?

The whole story is ghastly. Seriously ghastly. It’s like judging parents for not reading Stephen King as a bedtime story.

Also, the story doesn’t correlate with chocolate eggs and bunnies so to a child it would make very little sense.

Parents are allowed to separate ugly old wives’ tales from their children.

Oh dear, some pretty negative views here it seems.

Why do you think the whole story is "ghastly" ? Or an "ugly old wives tale" ?

So does your family not take Good Friday, Easter Sunday and Easter Monday as holidays and go to work on those days? 🙂

User3857377 · 02/04/2026 16:30

Easter comes from Ostara, the pagan spring festival. We teach our children about the equinoxes and how they link to Christmas/Yule/winter festival and Easter/Ostara/spring festival. At autumn they know when the equinox is, they know about Ohigan, Mabon, day of the dead and Samhain, that there is spiritual significance at each of the season changes. Specifically at Easter we explain that eggs and bunnies represent new life that comes in spring and predates the Christian version of Easter, but that some people believe that the Christian celebration is the original and only thing to celebrate. Personally I find it unreasonable that schools don't teach the pre-christian seasonal festivals.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 02/04/2026 16:30

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:26

In a Catholic school is most certainly does

Well, yes, it would be surprising in a Catholic school if the school had failed to impart even the most basic understanding of Catholic beliefs, but then, why blame the parents? Some of them are probably sending their kids to a Catholic school in the hope that the schools will teach them all of that. Then again, some of them may have chosen a Catholic school for entirely non-religious reasons.

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 16:30

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

If they’re in a Christian school, then surely the school would’ve done its part, particularly by y4. Do you judge the school too? Or maybe kids are doing that thing kids do and forget stuff that isn’t relevant (in their opinion)?

Boomer55 · 02/04/2026 16:32

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

I’m not religious, but I (and their school) did tell my kids what Easter represented to some.

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 16:32

Newsenmum · 02/04/2026 16:26

Because it’s a good school

How can it be a "good school" IYO, if it's teaching them stuff you don't like/want them to know about ?