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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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LiteraryBambi · 03/04/2026 13:57

Tigerbalmshark · 02/04/2026 16:05

Mine knows the whole story. How the Easter Bunny crucified Jesus who then rose from the dead and handed out Easter eggs, whilst lambs gambolled in the fields of Jerusalem, while being fanned by palm leaves held by little donkeys. Have I missed anything?

How idiotic. Why wouldn't you just be honest about what Christians actually believe? Instead you're raising your children to be ignorant about other people's religion.

Daffodildahlia · 03/04/2026 14:05

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 13:26

The UK does not have an official state religion. In Scotland the church is rightly disestablished

That is incorrect.

The Anglican Church of England is the state church of England, whilst the Presbyterian Church of Scotland is the national church of Scotland.

The Monarch of the United Kingdom is the supreme governor of the Church of England.

Both Northern Ireland and Wales have no state religion since the Irish Church Act 1869 and the Welsh Church Act 1914, respectively

SugarPuffSandwiches · 03/04/2026 14:06

Bluebellsparklypant · 03/04/2026 12:54

its good to have an understanding of the worlds faiths & cultures even if you don’t practice or believe in them, it’s a shame the meaning of Easter isn’t widely know in a traditionally Christian country

Agree, and I like to learn all about Eid, Ramadan, Diwali etc.
Doesn't mean I'm going to become a Muslim, or Hindu 😕

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 14:25

LiteraryBambi · 03/04/2026 13:57

How idiotic. Why wouldn't you just be honest about what Christians actually believe? Instead you're raising your children to be ignorant about other people's religion.

The poster was being sarcastic.

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 14:28

P0cketP1g · 03/04/2026 13:36

So many verses being taken out of context here and that is just as sad as not understanding that the origin of Easter is, in fact Christian, and nothing to do with a Pagan holiday. A quick internet search debunks that prevailing myth very quickly.

Turning the other cheek does not mean that Christians are supposed to, ignore, allow or condone being disrespected. It actually means the opposite.

Judge not lest ye be judged does not mean Christians shouldn't judge. It is actually Christian duty to judge righteously and correct error so that others are not led into or fall into sin.

They know not what they do is in reference, specifically, to those killing the Messiah. It has nothing to do with the general population of believers and how they are supposed to view others.

These are just some of the verses I've seen taken out of context and quoted by atheists, non believers etc as a means and ways to try to judge and correct Christians thoughts and behaviours.

The internet is our friend regarding bible verses, as far as understanding context if someone is a non believer but actually reading the Bible before quoting it would make for much more educated discussion. In addition, there is a reason that Christians have priests and pastors. Reading the bible doesn't allow context where there is bias or ignorance about history. There are phrases that are rich with context and not to be used in isolation.

Also, it's okay to reach out to a Christian for assistance who will, if you are with good intent, clarify teachings and verses and reasons for tradition etc.

Happy Easter all.

(Edited for spelling mistakes - may not have caught them all!)

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Yes , because priests and pastors don’t have any bias or ignorance themselves or aren’t just as fallible as any other human.

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 14:30

zingally · 03/04/2026 13:26

How did you find out this information? If you went and asked each kid, that's extremely weird.

That being said, I'd expect most children of that age, assuming they go to a "normal" primary school to have been taught it in RE lessons by age 9. But depending on the level of "churchiness" of the school, that could have been a couple of lessons 2 years ago, or a series of assemblies about it last week, and a school trip to the local church.
I'll assume that your kids school isn't C of E, and if it is, it's fairly "low church". Culturally Christian, rather than actively so.

I went to a fairly high church primary school, but feel that, at 9, I probably wouldn't have been especially conversant about the different days of holy week. I could have told you Easter Sunday was the day he came back from the dead, but I'm not sure I'd have had much to say about the other days.

A Catholic school in Ireland no less. 🙄

P0cketP1g · 03/04/2026 14:30

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 14:28

Yes , because priests and pastors don’t have any bias or ignorance themselves or aren’t just as fallible as any other human.

They're educated about the historical contexts and individuals to which the Bible refer. They go to university for this information and have access to ancient texts etc.

You can visit Tyndale House for more information or seminaries who will also assist.

Hope this helps!

Edited to say: I am not going to engage in defence or persuasion, but education only, and only for those who are genuinely and respectfully interested.

Have a great weekend!

Catmother18520 · 03/04/2026 14:40

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:04

If a child at 9yrs old does not know the meaning of Good Friday or why we celebrate on Easter Sumday, as Christians, it's a very sad state of affairs.

Why do you assume they are christians?

Donttellhim · 03/04/2026 14:45

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EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 14:49

P0cketP1g · 03/04/2026 14:30

They're educated about the historical contexts and individuals to which the Bible refer. They go to university for this information and have access to ancient texts etc.

You can visit Tyndale House for more information or seminaries who will also assist.

Hope this helps!

Edited to say: I am not going to engage in defence or persuasion, but education only, and only for those who are genuinely and respectfully interested.

Have a great weekend!

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And yet not all Christian branches (even just the main ones) believe the exact same thing , observe the same customs, in the same way and interpret the Bible in the same way. Is one more right than the other? Some priests less educated than others?

Or the simple fact that Bible interpretation is highly reliant on humans ( human translation, interpretation and interests) and as such , fallible?

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 14:56

scalt · 02/04/2026 22:28

Given the amount of not only mocking but derision of Christians and Christianity on this thread, which is one of the things about which MN is sometimes absurdly polarised (AIBU about MIL indoctrinating my DC with a toy Noah’s Ark?), why are there never any threads critical of other faiths, purely in the interest of balance? If such threads were started, were they zapped by Mumsnet before their feet even touched the ground? I can think of lots of threads with a similar question to the OP, about other faiths, which would probably be zapped instantly: I dare not even quote them. Is there something about Christianity that makes it fair game for criticism, and trial by Mumsnet? Genuine question.

Are you joking? I have seen multiple posts criticising Islam. Just Google if you don't want to bear false witness..sorry "ask a genuine question..."

To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival
To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival
To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival
To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival
VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 14:59

Humma · 03/04/2026 01:09

They weren’t fighting about religion in NI you know.

Depends how far back you want to put the root cause. The denial of civil rights that was the catalyst was along religious lines.

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 15:03

Oreo07 · 03/04/2026 07:18

Completely agree. People think it's ok to mock Christianity far more than other religions.

The point people miss is I was raised Christian, as people are so keen to point out we have still an undercurrant of Christian tradition, which means that we can mock it, we have the basis to do so in a way we don't have with other religions. But the good news is people who grew up in the other traditions are mocking there own touch points so between us all we have all the basis covered.

And by the way, this thread was started by someone "judging people" who didn't tell the story of easter to their kids which is why people are responding to it.

I think it should be taught by the way but the same way every religion should be taught, without saying it is true.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 03/04/2026 15:07

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

It is an absolute TRAVESTY that more children aren’t taught about Eostre, the Anglo-Saxon goddess of spring, from whom we get many of our pagan “Easter” traditions like rabbits and eggs. I would have enjoyed learning about that a lot more than being extremely confused, which I was, by what chocolate eggs and bunnies have to do with some miraculous resurrection.

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 15:19

Daffodildahlia · 03/04/2026 14:05

That is incorrect.

The Anglican Church of England is the state church of England, whilst the Presbyterian Church of Scotland is the national church of Scotland.

The Monarch of the United Kingdom is the supreme governor of the Church of England.

Both Northern Ireland and Wales have no state religion since the Irish Church Act 1869 and the Welsh Church Act 1914, respectively

You specifically said official. It may be the national church but it is not official. Here the kirk is "largely distinct from the state." It doesn't matter what the king is up to down south here he is merely a member so he is of no relevance to whether it is a state religion here.
(All this from the House of commons report on the relationship between church and state)

All of this is just needles dancing on the head of pins though. This is a secular country it doesn't matter what antiquated laws there are that says otherwise.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/04/2026 15:49

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 14:59

Depends how far back you want to put the root cause. The denial of civil rights that was the catalyst was along religious lines.

The discrimination and abuses were about maintaining unionist control of NI rather than about religion per se. There is a correlation between religion and nationality in NI. Those discriminated against happened to be catholic in the main.

Daffodildahlia · 03/04/2026 16:07

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/04/2026 15:49

The discrimination and abuses were about maintaining unionist control of NI rather than about religion per se. There is a correlation between religion and nationality in NI. Those discriminated against happened to be catholic in the main.

I agree.
It was a secular issue but it was "fought" along religious lines.

Daffodildahlia · 03/04/2026 16:09

@VividPinkTraybake It may be the national church but it is not official.

What does that mean ?🤔

In England, there is a constitutional link between Church and state. The official Church of the state is the Church of England (called the Anglican Church in other countries and the Episcopal Church in Scotland and the United States). It is a Protestant Church and has existed since the Reformation in the 1530s.

Runnersandtoms · 03/04/2026 16:10

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 16:56

@Whathappensinthissituation Oh my kids know the fairy story about it because school pushed the narrative of some random guy being so super special he died and came back to life shortly after their sister died, and they were convinced she was special enough to come back to life too.

What are you talking about ? 🤔

I'm assuming this poster is saying her child died and her other children thought she could come back to life because she was just as special as Jesus and school told them Jesus was special so came back to life. Can't believe people are responding in a callous or jokey way to this.

Daffodildahlia · 03/04/2026 16:13

Runnersandtoms · 03/04/2026 16:10

I'm assuming this poster is saying her child died and her other children thought she could come back to life because she was just as special as Jesus and school told them Jesus was special so came back to life. Can't believe people are responding in a callous or jokey way to this.

Well, it's not very clear what was meant.

1000StrawberryLollies · 03/04/2026 16:18

itsadlibitum · 03/04/2026 12:52

They should - agree. All religions, not just Christianity. but they don’t have to be taught it’s true.

No, of course not. Imo the more you learn about the various different religions, the more glaringly obvious it becomes that none of it's true!

Blueyrocks · 03/04/2026 16:22

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Sorry, I must be misunderstanding this: "we're not all slaves to religion like many of the Irish".

You can't have meant what that sounds like? Because it sounds like anti-Irish bigotry. Would you mind just clarifying what you meant? Or should I report the post?

Runnersandtoms · 03/04/2026 16:52

Whathappensinthissituation · 02/04/2026 16:50

Oh my kids know the fairy story about it because school pushed the narrative of some random guy being so super special he died and came back to life shortly after their sister died, and they were convinced she was special enough to come back to life too.

I've made damned sure they know the bible is as fictional as the wizard of oz.

The sooner the Bible start being taught as a book of stories rather than fact the better.

Sorry to hear about your daughter, it must have been very hard to explain to your other children she couldn't come back to

TheIceBear · 03/04/2026 16:57

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

I live in Ireland too and in case you weren’t aware most people in Ireland have zero choice but to send their child to a Catholic school . I’m paying the same taxes as everyone else so why should I have to drive for an hour to go to one of the few educate together schools. My child is opted out and sits in the corner colouring with another child when they are teaching religion. What I find much worse than non Christians not teaching their kids about Easter is the hypocrite Catholics who get their child’s communion and a big party and bouncy castle and yet never ever go to mass . I was raised catholic and I don’t practice anymore but at least my mother made the effort to bring me to mass back in the day before I made my communion. They seriously need to remove religion from schools in Ireland . Let the parents who want communion go to Sunday school or something instead. I’d wager a vast majority wouldn’t be bothered with the sacraments then.

InOverMyHead84 · 03/04/2026 17:00

As someone who despises religion in all its forms, let the children have their Eostre (Saxon godess of Spring and the dawn) based fun.

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