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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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ApriloNeil2026 · 03/04/2026 12:24

1000StrawberryLollies · 03/04/2026 12:21

I do feel people should know about religion. Otherwise it's virtually impossible to understand anything much about human history. I think 'Why should I bother knowing anything about that if I disagree with it?' is a pretty unwise (not to mention intellectually incurious) attitude to take towards most subjects tbh.

you can study all of human history without studying books on myths ? correction aparently you need to understand the why first

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:32

Smoggy1 · 03/04/2026 12:12

Catholic schools shouldn't exist.

Why?

Theresnorush · 03/04/2026 12:33

I think it’s quite sad that they don’t know. Just because it’s general knoledge. We are predominately a Christian country and whether you are religious or not, it is part of just general knowledge.

ApriloNeil2026 · 03/04/2026 12:33

its odd humanity built society on books of fairy tales ?

SugarPuffSandwiches · 03/04/2026 12:34

Theresnorush · 03/04/2026 12:33

I think it’s quite sad that they don’t know. Just because it’s general knoledge. We are predominately a Christian country and whether you are religious or not, it is part of just general knowledge.

Exactly, it's just knowledge. Knowing about things doesn't mean you automatically agree with it, or believe in it or whatever.
It's just being educated in general!

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 12:35

CypressGrove · 03/04/2026 07:28

I asked teen DS why today was called Good Friday and he said because it was when Jesus was born so got the Christian relationship ok but not the event. But really why is it called Good Friday? It's quite confusing for non Christians!

. Christians believe the "good" refers to the ultimate triumph over sin, death, and evil through Jesus' sacrifice.

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 12:41

Gagamama2 · 03/04/2026 11:47

I’m not sure the mocking of Christians would have happened had the OP not been sneery and mocking of non-Christians in the first place. But seeing as she threw the first punch then obviously people are going to retaliate.

I don’t see any people of any other faiths starting similar threads

re your first para

There's a lot of mocking on threads about the Christian faith
Ive seen it constantly over the years

Gagamama2 · 03/04/2026 12:46

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 12:41

re your first para

There's a lot of mocking on threads about the Christian faith
Ive seen it constantly over the years

I’ve just been browsing Christian Mumsnetters section to see what you mean. I can’t see anything derogatory on any of the posts there (skim read top 20). Any anti-Christian stuff I see on here is generally on AIBU and starts in the same vein as this thread started

itsadlibitum · 03/04/2026 12:52

1000StrawberryLollies · 03/04/2026 12:21

I do feel people should know about religion. Otherwise it's virtually impossible to understand anything much about human history. I think 'Why should I bother knowing anything about that if I disagree with it?' is a pretty unwise (not to mention intellectually incurious) attitude to take towards most subjects tbh.

They should - agree. All religions, not just Christianity. but they don’t have to be taught it’s true.

Bluebellsparklypant · 03/04/2026 12:54

its good to have an understanding of the worlds faiths & cultures even if you don’t practice or believe in them, it’s a shame the meaning of Easter isn’t widely know in a traditionally Christian country

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:57

Bluebellsparklypant · 03/04/2026 12:54

its good to have an understanding of the worlds faiths & cultures even if you don’t practice or believe in them, it’s a shame the meaning of Easter isn’t widely know in a traditionally Christian country

Except it didn’t happen. OP completely made this stuff up and fucked off.

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:59

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 12:35

. Christians believe the "good" refers to the ultimate triumph over sin, death, and evil through Jesus' sacrifice.

Not all Christians. Not all Christians call it Good Friday either.

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 12:59

Gagamama2 · 03/04/2026 12:46

I’ve just been browsing Christian Mumsnetters section to see what you mean. I can’t see anything derogatory on any of the posts there (skim read top 20). Any anti-Christian stuff I see on here is generally on AIBU and starts in the same vein as this thread started

Not generally on Christian mumsnetters
Just as people wouldn’t mock on Jewish mumsnetters

Stirabout · 03/04/2026 13:03

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:59

Not all Christians. Not all Christians call it Good Friday either.

Agree

but this is the reason why some do
and in answer to the pps question

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 13:06

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 16:29

Oh dear, some pretty negative views here it seems.

Why do you think the whole story is "ghastly" ? Or an "ugly old wives tale" ?

So does your family not take Good Friday, Easter Sunday and Easter Monday as holidays and go to work on those days? 🙂

Edited

That last part is the worst argument out of all of these threads. Firstly a huge amount of people go to work so thats pointless, secondly taking a day off because the government have said it's a bank holiday does not mean you agree with it. People like taking holidays, taking the chance to go to the beach or homemade does not a binding contract with Jesus make...

southcoastsammy · 03/04/2026 13:13

ForCyanGuide · 03/04/2026 10:44

Easter was historically about Jesus. It’s now about chocolate. Children like chocolate more than crucifixion.

Brilliant!

southcoastsammy · 03/04/2026 13:14

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:57

Except it didn’t happen. OP completely made this stuff up and fucked off.

Beginning to suspect this too…

Smoggy1 · 03/04/2026 13:23

EwwPeople · 03/04/2026 12:32

Why?

The state shouldn't be paying for religion to be taught as fact to children who lack the critical thinking skills to come to their own conclusions.

zingally · 03/04/2026 13:26

How did you find out this information? If you went and asked each kid, that's extremely weird.

That being said, I'd expect most children of that age, assuming they go to a "normal" primary school to have been taught it in RE lessons by age 9. But depending on the level of "churchiness" of the school, that could have been a couple of lessons 2 years ago, or a series of assemblies about it last week, and a school trip to the local church.
I'll assume that your kids school isn't C of E, and if it is, it's fairly "low church". Culturally Christian, rather than actively so.

I went to a fairly high church primary school, but feel that, at 9, I probably wouldn't have been especially conversant about the different days of holy week. I could have told you Easter Sunday was the day he came back from the dead, but I'm not sure I'd have had much to say about the other days.

VividPinkTraybake · 03/04/2026 13:26

RudolphRNR · 02/04/2026 17:13

I’m not Christian. But the UK does have an official state religion, and so living in the UK I believe we should make the effort to know the religious significance of national holidays, whether or not you celebrate them in a religious way.
So I agree OP, I think it’s wrong that people don’t know the religious significance of Easter as much as they know the seasonal significance of spring.
You don’t have to be part of a religion to enjoy the two days off work that we are about to have, but you should know why we are having them.

The UK does not have an official state religion. In Scotland the church is rightly disestablished

P0cketP1g · 03/04/2026 13:36

So many verses being taken out of context here and that is just as sad as not understanding that the origin of Easter is, in fact Christian, and nothing to do with a Pagan holiday. A quick internet search debunks that prevailing myth very quickly.

Turning the other cheek does not mean that Christians are supposed to, ignore, allow or condone being disrespected. It actually means the opposite.

Judge not lest ye be judged does not mean Christians shouldn't judge. It is actually Christian duty to judge righteously and correct error so that others are not led into or fall into sin.

They know not what they do is in reference, specifically, to those killing the Messiah. It has nothing to do with the general population of believers and how they are supposed to view others.

These are just some of the verses I've seen taken out of context and quoted by atheists, non believers etc as a means and ways to try to judge and correct Christians thoughts and behaviours.

The internet is our friend regarding bible verses, as far as understanding context if someone is a non believer but actually reading the Bible before quoting it would make for much more educated discussion. In addition, there is a reason that Christians have priests and pastors. Reading the bible doesn't allow context where there is bias or ignorance about history. There are phrases that are rich with context and not to be used in isolation.

Also, it's okay to reach out to a Christian for assistance who will, if you are with good intent, clarify teachings and verses and reasons for tradition etc.

Happy Easter all.

(Edited for spelling mistakes - may not have caught them all!)

Julimia · 03/04/2026 13:50

Oh my word. If you are shocked by that then you will have lots more shocks to come!!!

Reallyneedsaholiday · 03/04/2026 13:50

I’m surprised that schools haven’t taught this by the age of 9. I’m not surprised that parents, who are not Christians, have not done so. Why would they?

SooticaTheWitchesCat · 03/04/2026 13:51

I wouldn’t say I judge people but I actually shocked that children don’t know about Easter.
Even though I am not a Christian I still told mine what the Christian meaning of Easter is.
My husband was brought up in Turkey and he knows what it is too.
My children also know it is the pagan celebration.
I think it’s quite sad if people are only thinking of chocolate (as much as I love chocolate)

itsadlibitum · 03/04/2026 13:53

Reallyneedsaholiday · 03/04/2026 13:50

I’m surprised that schools haven’t taught this by the age of 9. I’m not surprised that parents, who are not Christians, have not done so. Why would they?

Me too, thought this was part of the curriculum. Sure both mine learnt it in reception or yr1z

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