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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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SabbatWheel · 02/04/2026 18:28

OP do you judge parents who don’t know that the festival is pagan in origin and that many people have already celebrated Ostara at the spring equinox?

The Christians are late to the party!

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:30

Simonjt · 02/04/2026 18:02

How many non-christian schools do parents have to choose from in the catchment?

I have finally found your question.

I can't answer it because I don't know which "cachment" you are referring to ?

But maybe this will help ?

www.privateschoolvillage.org/post/non-religious-private-schools-near-me

LittleMyLabyrinth · 02/04/2026 18:30

I think that's pretty good, actually. They'll have learned in RE, but surely you know if you ask any child what they learned in school today they’ll invariably say they 'don't know'. I just asked my y2 and these are his responses:
What do Christians believe happened on Good Friday?
DS: I forget. I know, but I forget.
What do Christians believe happened on Easter Sunday?
DS: Jesus came back.
You remember anything else?
DS: No.

He goes to a CofE school and is a bright pupil 🤷‍♀️

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/04/2026 18:31

Hereforthecommentz · 02/04/2026 18:09

I do want to clear up a misconception about religious schools. Unlike secular schools they have to teach RE to GCSE level and learn about other faiths. Of course they do mass and celebrate Christianity as it is a catholic school but they learn more about other religions than a secular school would. You will find that most Catholic schools are actually oversubscribed. It doesn't harm kids to learn about easter or to learn about other peoples beliefs it's better than walking around as an atheist thinking you know more than anyone else and belittling others with faith. Afterall most of us agree living by the ten commandments is a pretty good idea regardless if your a Christian. I don't judge anyones beliefs or lack of, we have freewill to make our own choices. I do get fed up with people being outright rude to Christians though, these threads always end up with insults aimed at us 'sky fairys'. Grow up. (not you another poster)

Oversubscribed just means more people applied than there were spaces - and when that could mean in some areas that the parents added them 6th of 6 preferences or as a late preference having not received an offer where they really wanted to go (or not at all once a whole bunch of offers are declined).

I'm also familiar with the content of Section 48 inspections in England, so I know exactly what's required and that it's the decision of the Diocese/Archdiocese whether everybody has to sit RE for GCSE in the case of CofE or RC schools.

Other schools can simply offer it as an option - and whilst the Archdiocese wouldn't like it, it would be perfectly possible for a non Diocesan RC school to decide to not make RE compulsory - it's usually a fairly easy shoe-in for higher grades with a greater proportion of kids from Faith Groups, especially if they are medium-higher attainment in English/Reading, Grammar, Punctuation and Spelling at KS2).

Local authorities in England also stipulate the religious curriculum for maintained schools - and it is always very broad in scope at all phases.

I don't see the point of digging at people for the fun of it, though. They believe, which is the whole point of faith. Ripping the piss out of them for it isn't going to make them suddenly think 'Oh, you're right, it's all bollocks really, isn't it?'.

Stirabout · 02/04/2026 18:32

facethemusical · 02/04/2026 17:52

It might be a surprising state of affairs but there's really nothing sad about not knowing about made up nonsense from 2 thousand years ago.

As Christianity is the world largest religion
and Easter is a time of
a school / public holiday irrespective of how long ago Jesus was killed and resurrected

It is sad that some people haven’t
in their lives just asked ‘ whats it all about ‘
Its also sad and surprising that nothing has even been mentioned in school

Curiosity is a good thing

RawBloomers · 02/04/2026 18:32

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 16:53

@RawBloomers "Worked with a Christian once who had no idea Muslims worshipped the same God she did. She was bloody ignorant and I judged her a lot."

No, I am afraid it is you who is misinformed.

Islam emphasizes strict monotheism (Tawhid) the belief in the oneness of God. There is no division or multiplicity in God’s nature. Allah is compassionate, merciful, just, and transcendent. He is beyond human comprehension and has no partners, children, or equals.

In Christianity, God is also seen as the creator and sustainer of the universe, sharing similar attributes of omnipotence, mercy, and justice. However, Christians uniquely believe in the Holy Trinity: God as three persons in one essence—God the Father, God the Son (Jesus Christ), and God the Holy Spirit.
This concept of Trinitarian monotheism distinguishes Christianity from Islam and Judaism, both of which reject the Trinity in favor of absolute monotheism.

That Christianity came up with wild ideas to try and force themselves away from Judaism and the power held by those leaders does not mean it’s a different God. Just a “true” way of viewing the same God.

Meadowfinch · 02/04/2026 18:33

I have no religious faith so I wouldn't tell ds about it as a belief.

He went to a broadly CoE primary school so he knows Easter Sunday is celebrated as the day Christ rose again. But he also knows the story of Eostre and understands that it is basically a celebration of spring, hope and new life.

I'm happy with that. If he wants to know more he can do his own research.

DancingDelli · 02/04/2026 18:34

No I don’t because it’s a story from a fictional book that I find extremely problematic.

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:35

Stirabout · 02/04/2026 18:32

As Christianity is the world largest religion
and Easter is a time of
a school / public holiday irrespective of how long ago Jesus was killed and resurrected

It is sad that some people haven’t
in their lives just asked ‘ whats it all about ‘
Its also sad and surprising that nothing has even been mentioned in school

Curiosity is a good thing

In a Catholic school in Ireland and it was never mentioned? Really?

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:36

@RawBloomers That Christianity came up with wild ideas

What "wild ideas" ?

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:36

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:36

@RawBloomers That Christianity came up with wild ideas

What "wild ideas" ?

The Trinity

Transubstantiation is not far behind either.

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 02/04/2026 18:37

Bollihobs · 02/04/2026 16:52

I know this is just a jokey post but I've actually been wondering this recently - if we're not religious - and by the posts on here so far most people aren't, then should we appropriate another's religious festival for ourselves?

Most posts on here aren't even just saying "I'm not Christian" they are actively mocking those who are. Why? Why the mind set of "I'm going to celebrate this religion based festival entirely my own way and at the same time mock the original source of it" . Why that sense of entitlement and lack of the most basic respect? I genuinely don't get it.

For the record I'm an Atheist myself.

I’m not being flippant either, I do actually think about it. I think simnel cakes are delicious but maybe I shouldn’t eat them because I’m not a Christian.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 02/04/2026 18:37

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

I'm Irish. My passport has no relationship to the Catholic belief system that I was brought up with (and long ago rejected).

It's about time all schools were secular.

Mosaic123 · 02/04/2026 18:37

There is another festival at around this time too.

Jewish people celebrate Pesach or Passover. The story of their exodus from slavery in Egypt.

BudgetBuster · 02/04/2026 18:37

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

Again.... Irish here and no I do not (and I know very few people) who "uphold" religious values. In fact... Ireland is increasingly trying to seperate the Church and State.

nevernotmaybe · 02/04/2026 18:38

There''s not one bit of Easter that I celebrate as a religious festival. I celebrate it as what it is, an ancient cultural celebration that pre-dates that story.

BloominNora · 02/04/2026 18:39

DorcasLanesOneWeakness · 02/04/2026 18:05

My pupils love RE and are very interested in all aspects of the faiths we discuss. I think it makes a huge difference that the majority come from religious homes (approximately 50% muslim, 20% hindu, 10% evangelical Christian, one child of druids) so have a context for the main themes of living with faith which helps them make sense of the belief-systems of others. The ignorant ones tend to be the children brought up in secular families -they're not that interested, as a rule.
I don't have a religious bone in my body, but love teaching RE in a way that gets children asking questions and becoming curious about other people's lives.

I can see that from some of the responses on this thread.

We are a secular household but have always brought our kids up to show an interest in religion as a way of understanding literature, history and other people's lives.

I'm an atheist but I find it a bit depressing that people dismiss learning about religion as some kind of badge of honour, just because they don't believe in it, although its not surprising in this day and age.

From a non-belief perspective, its really no different to learning about other cultures and it is odd that so many people seem to find some kind of weird pride in keeping their children wilfully ignorant of other cultures!

Potaytocrisps · 02/04/2026 18:39

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

There are plenty of non Christians in Ireland.
I've had my Irish passport since birth and am embarrassed for you that you think it has anything to do with religion.

Celebrate as you wish but don't impose your views. My DC can choose what to believe, no indoctrination here thanks.

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:40

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:36

The Trinity

Transubstantiation is not far behind either.

Edited

Why is that, IYO, a "wild idea" ?

BeanQuisine · 02/04/2026 18:40

OP says: I find this so disrespectful. Fine if you do not believe but please do not call my beliefs an old wives tale.

Atheists (like me) believe that religion is not true, so it's not surprising that most of us find it unworthy of the respect that religious believers accord it.

And obviously we're going to view the decline of religious belief as a good thing that should be encouraged.

PistachioTiramisu · 02/04/2026 18:42

I'm not really religious, but I still think it's sad that most children don't seem to know about the Easter story, instead all they think about is chocolate and Easter 'bunnies' (what happened to the word 'rabbit'?). We are still (just) described as a Christian country and I think kids should know the story. Don't they read the Bible in school any more?

Dumbledore167 · 02/04/2026 18:42

I think more and more people are waking up to the fact religion in general is something to avoid, given a) it’s fictitious and b) does more bad than good in the world.

NeverCouldGetTheHangOfThursdays · 02/04/2026 18:42

Tigerbalmshark · 02/04/2026 16:05

Mine knows the whole story. How the Easter Bunny crucified Jesus who then rose from the dead and handed out Easter eggs, whilst lambs gambolled in the fields of Jerusalem, while being fanned by palm leaves held by little donkeys. Have I missed anything?

This is what the laugh react was for! Best explanation ever 😂😂😂

Don't Easter bonnets and Simnel cake and hot cross buns come into it somewhere?

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:44

PistachioTiramisu · 02/04/2026 18:42

I'm not really religious, but I still think it's sad that most children don't seem to know about the Easter story, instead all they think about is chocolate and Easter 'bunnies' (what happened to the word 'rabbit'?). We are still (just) described as a Christian country and I think kids should know the story. Don't they read the Bible in school any more?

What are you basing your statement of “most” on?

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