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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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SparklyGreenTiger · 02/04/2026 18:10

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

Seeing as you are in Ireland OP, you’ll know that the vast, vast majority of schools are Catholic by default and many parents have no viable choice but to send their children to Catholic schools. So that remark is a little disingenuous. However if these children are in a Catholic school then by 9 they’ll absolutely know the story of Easter. They learn about it through the Growing in Faith curriculum from Junior Infants onwards. That age group are also Communion age or past it so they’ll have spent a lot of time on religion either this year or last year. I’m a practicing Catholic myself and will attend the various masses and ceremonies over Easter but I don’t believe that it should be forced on anyone regardless of what school they attend. Just my thoughts.

ScrollingLeaves · 02/04/2026 18:11

Yes, I am surprised.

Simonjt · 02/04/2026 18:14

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:07

If you don't like it you can always home-school and then you can tailor the course to your own requirements.

Not going to answer the question then?

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:14

OP is clearly talking bs. A Catholic school in Ireland and 9 year olds have no idea of Easter? Nevermind the curriculum and RE, no mass, no Ash Wednesday,no assemblies , no nothing at all? Come on , now!

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:15

MrMucker · 02/04/2026 17:43

It really isn't. It's lunar based and so shifts against the calendar month every year.
Sorry to ruin things with facts though.

Talking of facts are people told that at Eid al Adhar in Muslim countries, people cut animals' throats in the street ?
And some say Christianity is brutal !!

QueenOfTheSandals · 02/04/2026 18:15

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:04

If a child at 9yrs old does not know the meaning of Good Friday or why we celebrate on Easter Sumday, as Christians, it's a very sad state of affairs.

Maybe it would be better stated as: it is a shame more children do not know why Christians celebrate Easter. I’m sure you do not mean that we all celebrate the Christian festival of Easter.

Many of us enjoy this time of year as a spring festival as pre-Christians did all over Europe. I think the etymology of Easter is from an Anglo-Saxon goddess of spring (may have that a bit muddled).

SkipDiva · 02/04/2026 18:16

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 02/04/2026 16:34

Is it ok to eat hot cross buns if you’re an atheist?

We make our own and don't put the crosses on. Hot Not Cross buns.

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:16

Simonjt · 02/04/2026 18:14

Not going to answer the question then?

What question ?

ExtraOnions · 02/04/2026 18:16

Primary schools study all religion as part of the curriculum. I’m Catholic, DD went to Catholic school, they learned about all the major world religions, and their festivals.

Simonjt · 02/04/2026 18:17

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:16

What question ?

The question of mine that you replied to.

SinnerBoy · 02/04/2026 18:18

It's actually just another pagan festival, taken over by early Christians. Oestre was the Teutonic goddess of spring, fertility and rebirth. The egg was one of her symbols and the bunny is actually a Mad March Hare.

So don't worry about it!

Daffodildahlia · 02/04/2026 18:18

Simonjt · 02/04/2026 18:17

The question of mine that you replied to.

I thought you were complaining that I didn't answer it ?
You've lost me !

SkipDiva · 02/04/2026 18:18

Jesus very definitely wasn't pro judging.

Lorenzo86 · 02/04/2026 18:19

What an odd question.... I don't really think we should be "judging" other parents for anything. Unless they are putting their child in harms way. Or allowing behaviour that puts others in harms way.

ScrollingLeaves · 02/04/2026 18:19

MrsOni · 02/04/2026 17:55

I'm sure we've talked about easter with the kids.

But as an atheist family, the Jesus myth has no bearing on our lives whatsoever, so I really don't give a shit if my kids are ignorant of it or not.

Christianity is part of the cultural heritage of people in the West, whether or not people are Christian. It would be nice to have heard about it as part of a general education.

Imo it is also very important to learn about the other major religions in Primary school too because we are such a multicultural society and it helps foster mutual understanding.

(edited for typo)

Pigriver · 02/04/2026 18:20

DH was raised by Irish catholic parents. Me by very half arsed C of E parents. He had no idea about the term Maundy Thursday until this morning. He was taught by nuns fgs.
My kids generally know the key facts mainly though school.

EwwPeople · 02/04/2026 18:20

ScrollingLeaves · 02/04/2026 18:19

Christianity is part of the cultural heritage of people in the West, whether or not people are Christian. It would be nice to have heard about it as part of a general education.

Imo it is also very important to learn about the other major religions in Primary school too because we are such a multicultural society and it helps foster mutual understanding.

(edited for typo)

Edited

It os, or at least should be covered. Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Buddhism and Hinduism.

Heartbreaksally · 02/04/2026 18:22

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:22

So why enrol your child in a christian school?

I also live in Ireland - hard to find a school here that isnt religious.

tnorfotkcab · 02/04/2026 18:23

I agree that children at 9 should be aware of the Christian beliefs around Easter. Ignorance, especially in our children is not something we should be proud of.

However, I also believe they should know about the pagan aspects too and how it was co-opted by the Christians.

And they should know it is a celebration of new life/spring time - and that some people believe it's a solely Christian festival and others believe it is a merging of ancient traditions and some people think it is just a reason to rest, have chocolate and be with family etc. nobody is more right than anyone else.

General knowledge about religions, culture, customs and history is a good thing for children to have.

Thebigarsedbitch · 02/04/2026 18:23

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:04

If a child at 9yrs old does not know the meaning of Good Friday or why we celebrate on Easter Sumday, as Christians, it's a very sad state of affairs.

Why? As a country we remain blissfully untroubled by any level of God bothering, which, when you consider the wickedness that religious beliefs seem to inspire, is an excellent state of affairs.

TheWytch · 02/04/2026 18:24

We observe the original pagan festivals - even the date of Easter is calculated by the old lunar calendar.

Plenty of chocolate and bunnies (well hares but Lindt don't do them!)

The children had to learn the distressing Christian version at school. No way to shield them from it around here unfortunately.

MostArdently · 02/04/2026 18:25

If kids in a Catholic school don’t know this then that is a failing of the school!

maysayyea · 02/04/2026 18:26

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

I’m in my mid forties. I grew up in Ireland where religion ruled. It was in every single part of life. I’m very proud that Ireland is changing and starting to shake off Catholic oppression. And no I’m not anti Catholic I’m anti any sort of organised relation. Religion has no place in schools.

TheEponymousGrub · 02/04/2026 18:28

Pigriver · 02/04/2026 18:20

DH was raised by Irish catholic parents. Me by very half arsed C of E parents. He had no idea about the term Maundy Thursday until this morning. He was taught by nuns fgs.
My kids generally know the key facts mainly though school.

Ah but it isn't called Maundy Thursday in Ireland. We call it Holy Thursday, even us atheists 😉

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