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Tapestry2023 · 31/03/2026 17:56

What a pickle.

Married in an emotionally abusive relationship my husband calls my a prck, cunt, kno*bhead and is snapping sleeps in a separate room o keep saying come back and he has excuses he is being okay at the minute.

Everytime we go out he has to set a time that we leave then changes it and complains if I stay out as I’m enjoying myself I’m on pins.

I recently went away and met someone who keep asking to show me around I resisted until the last night and then met for a drink I know I shouldn’t of whilst I was away I didn’t miss home at all.

Since we have been chatting and video calls he knows the situation I was drunk over the weekend and although I didn’t sent to bad of messages replying to one of his I told him how much I liked him going on and on as I was drunk. His last message was saying how much he liked me but I haven’t heard since.

we would never be together we live across the world from each other but I was enjoying getting to know him so you think he has ghosted me?

I also don’t know what to do about the husband he is being nice at the minute since I been away but to be honest the last 3 years have been hard especially before I went away.

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Arlanymor · 31/03/2026 18:00

The answer is clear - leave your abusive husband. Whatever else you do after is your own business. But leave a horrible relationship.

MrsPinkSky · 31/03/2026 18:00

Didn't you start a thread the other week about your abusive husband?

If so, you were advised repeatedly you need to leave him.

The other guy is irrelevant and yes, probably has ghosted you which considering you need to concentrate on leaving your abusive marriage, is probably not a bad thing.

Endofyear · 31/03/2026 20:31

The other guy is just a distraction. You need to get out of your abusive marriage and that should be your priority.

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