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Please help - symptoms and no answers

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MixedUp7 · 30/03/2026 20:50

Hi all, looking for some advice/ideas as we’re completely stuck.

My mum (late 50s) has been unwell since early Jan. It started with sudden severe pain (burning, stabbing, described as feeling like sunburn) on one side of her torso (band-like, wrapping round to her thigh and breast). GP initially thought internal shingles, but no rash ever appeared.

Since then it’s been a mix of:

  • Severe shifting nerve-type pain (torso → breast → now mainly left side breast - had breast examinations and no concerns)
  • Numbness in toes (now mostly gone)
  • Brief vision issue (now diagnosed as a floater)

She’s had:

  • Multiple GP reviews
  • Blood tests (lots – all normal)
  • X-ray (clear)
  • stomach ultrasound (clear)
  • CT brain scan (clear)
  • MRI brain & spine (clear)
  • 5-day hospital stay with “everything they could think of” tested

Doctors have ruled out anything serious like MS, tumours etc but have basically said they don’t know what it is.

She’s now on gabapentin (2 weeks so far, no improvement yet). The pain is still ongoing and really affecting her quality of life. She’s already tried amitrypline and pregablin.

Has anyone experienced anything similar or have any ideas what this could be? We feel a bit lost as everything serious has been ruled out but there’s still clearly something going on.

Posted in AIBU as we are desperate!

OP posts:
Monwmum · 31/03/2026 20:58

MixedUp7 · 31/03/2026 18:35

Thank you - that’s interesting because we have read about it moving sides but local GP and consultants seemed convinced. A doctor in the hospital said she would go away and read and did in fact come back and say she would be happy to diagnose it as shingles without a rash as she had read it can move sides.

were you able to be diagnosed in one appointment with a neurologist? We could afford a private consultation but unsure what this would entail and whether it would be worth it.

is there a neurologist you would recommend? We’re based in the north west of England.

Yes he diagnosed me in one appointment but then prescribed various levels of mediation which required review... obviously I was covered under insurance but I know that many consultants are very understanding if you are paying for yourself and will try and limit the number of appointments needed etc.
My neurologist was called Matthew Jackson and was brilliant but he is in Buckinghamshire...you can search online for ones in your area and even read reviews and look at costs etc.

A neurologist will be able to prescribe much higher doses of things like gabapentin which can help as well as look at Botox or nerve blocks etc. and they may even be able to transfer you over to their NHS service once they've seen you.

It really is a horrible illness with horrible side effects.

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