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AIBU to hope the £100k cliff edge for funded nursery hours is removed?

454 replies

horchatatresleches · 30/03/2026 10:03

News is that the education secretary is looking at nursery funding but it’s unclear if it’s to reduce or increase the support available at either the upper or lower thresholds. AIBU to hope that the harsh cliff edge which stops all nursery funding at £100k is removed or least replaced with something tapered so that people aren’t losing money for being marginally above the threshold?

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rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 08:56

Peonies12 · 30/03/2026 10:05

Tapered fine, but not removed. £100k is an insane salary to me and no-one earning that should get any state help.

Well aren’t you lovely!

people earning that amount are the people paying for others to have benefits.

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 08:58

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 08:56

Well aren’t you lovely!

people earning that amount are the people paying for others to have benefits.

They wouldn’t be if they got the tax they pay back to pay for childcare.

Araminta1003 · 31/03/2026 09:00

The childcare should at least be tax deductible! How can they be charging people out of post tax income. So that would be a compromise. You use your top slice income on the childcare and then get taxed after that.

Tsundokuer · 31/03/2026 09:00

CurlewKate · 31/03/2026 08:26

Won’t somebody think of the poor £100,000 earners…..

Won’t somebody actually think of the best way to get people earning high incomes to keep going and pay more taxes rather than reducing their income to get below arbitrary thresholds. But then I suppose we don’t need more doctors or dentist appointments, or growth…

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 09:01

Allygat · 30/03/2026 10:52

Anyone who disagrees with you and supports the 100k cap is a shortsighted fool. We need people working.

This is what people don’t understand.

why should people work and not get the benefits of their work but pay for others to get their benefits and support. The working people at this rate pay for the country to run.

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 09:04

The working people at this rate pay for the country to run.

You keep saying this but they wouldn’t if they got free childcare, they’d be costing the country money.

Bundleflower · 31/03/2026 09:04

Peonies12 · 30/03/2026 10:05

Tapered fine, but not removed. £100k is an insane salary to me and no-one earning that should get any state help.

But what if we live in an expensive part of the country? With a few children in certain areas and the tax paid, 100k is more like 30-40k in other areas once you account for the fact you get no help with nursery etc.
I’d welcome it. I’d actually welcome free childcare for all working parents. It’s the best route for the economy.

Treadcarefully11 · 31/03/2026 09:07

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 08:38

I don’t think you understand. In that scenario she’d be getting her tax payment back in childcare so the benefit to society would be zero.

If she gives up work while her children are in nursery she is unlikely to be able to walk straight back into a similar role 5 years later.

The impact on lifetime tax paid will be huge.

Also based on your reasoning, we might as well remove benefits from almost all lower earners and just insist they work more instead as currently by your definition they offer no benefit to society.

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 09:10

Treadcarefully11 · 31/03/2026 09:07

If she gives up work while her children are in nursery she is unlikely to be able to walk straight back into a similar role 5 years later.

The impact on lifetime tax paid will be huge.

Also based on your reasoning, we might as well remove benefits from almost all lower earners and just insist they work more instead as currently by your definition they offer no benefit to society.

I don’t think anyone should be paid so little that they need benefits. I object strongly to employers being subsidised in this way.

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 09:14

wobblychristmastree · 31/03/2026 08:24

The rest of us?

no - the people earning 100k are paying for these services through the huge amounts of tax they pay. Paying for services they don’t get to use.

These threads always go the same way sadly.

Just ends up an argument between high earners (who aren’t rich FFS) and low income families who rely on the benefits being paid for by the high earners. Without the high earners, the benefits wouldn’t exist.

it’s only the super rich who we can actually call rich.

Everybodys · 31/03/2026 09:15

Hoohahaha · 30/03/2026 23:32

Agree. Husband is a consultant surgeon. Obviously pays well, but would he would need to earn an extra 55k to break even from loss of funded childcare after 99.9k. NHS wants him to work more, but we can’t afford the hit (I’m not a high earner).

This is exactly the sort of case that needs to be at the forefront of the discussion. It is utterly outrageous that this situation has come into being.

Maybe the solution is for those of us who want the cliff edge abolished to be given priority for NHS appointments. And those who want the policy to continue can be sent to the back of the queue, so it's them who are paying the price of their stupidity.

horchatatresleches · 31/03/2026 09:21

Ilovelurchers · 31/03/2026 08:28

What I find notable about this thread (not surprising, as it's such a right wing site) is that on Mumsnet there is a LOT of criticism for anyone who admits to relying on benefits - the message being that you should do all you can to get off benefits as soon as possible - yet it is deemed completely acceptable for already rich people, to demand more benefits from the state.

There is also a lot of disapproval expressed of anyone poor who admits to looking for any kind of loophole strategy to retain or increase their benefits - yet rich people can come on here and cheerfully admit to this!

While children are growing up in poverty and education and the NHS are horrifically under funded, the rich being denied free childcare is not an issue I find it possible to get exercised about....

I haven’t criticised anyone relying on benefits and the only other change I’ve suggested to policy other than 100k cliff edge is to say that I think the nursery education should also be available to those children who’s parents don’t meet the lower end of the earning threshold so all pre-school age children have access to nursery education. I’m not right wing at all. The counties I look up to most politically are the Scandinavian nations, where nursery is capped for all families and that’s my suggestion here.

I also resent being described as rich. We are a couple who have zero family money or help, and have had one year where my husband’s salary has slightly tipped over the £100k threshold, which is the year I’ve been mostly earning very little on SMP until that ran out too. I care about NHS and education funding too, but I wonder if you’ve read the posts from the perspective of doctors who this policy affects. No GP with young children works more than three days a week at my surgery. Another poster was a surgeon who would pick up extra hours but can’t afford to be worse off from losing the childcare hours that would cause so doesn’t. The loss of productivity, and people salary sacrificing tax free into pensions, reducing hours and not going for promotions affects tax take, which means there’s less money the treasury can collect from higher earners.

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rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 09:22

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 09:04

The working people at this rate pay for the country to run.

You keep saying this but they wouldn’t if they got free childcare, they’d be costing the country money.

If that’s to me (?) then it would only be a bit more as it would be tapered. If they worked and kept working, tax back to the economy would be more and worth it. Currently high earners (but not rich) are keeping under the threshold deliberately to ensure they get access to the childcare. So it’s worse at the moment.

people earning 100k should be able to access some support that they are working for!

someone up thread said that it’s not fair loopholes can be flouted for high earners to get benefits, but not for lower earners. But I think the argument is true that it’s unfair higher earners can’t access the same support - what’s the point in working/studying etc to get good jobs. Often it takes years of study and other sacrifices to get to that point.

I think everyone should be entitled to state support but on household income and then a tapered approach rather than all or nothing. Otherwise people just won’t work!! Which is what happens unfortunately and then there’s not enough money to go around.

Boohoo76 · 31/03/2026 09:24

BIossomtoes · 31/03/2026 08:58

They wouldn’t be if they got the tax they pay back to pay for childcare.

Actually, they most likely would be. Someone on 100k pays approx £30k in tax and NI. If we “give” them back £10k’s worth of childcare support, they are still contributing far more than most people. And once you go above £100k, the tax take rises quickly. So someone on £120k, pays over £40k in tax and NI.

Everybodys · 31/03/2026 09:25

Someone up thread said that it’s not fair loopholes can be flouted for high earners to get benefits, but not for lower earners.

I didn't see the post, but lower earners absolutely can and do engage in activity to make sure they stay below thresholds. UC is calculated based on net rather than gross earnings, for example, so the option of paying more into one's pension is there just the same as it is for someone wanting to avoid the 100k cliff edge.

Flushitdown · 31/03/2026 09:27

Bundleflower · 31/03/2026 09:04

But what if we live in an expensive part of the country? With a few children in certain areas and the tax paid, 100k is more like 30-40k in other areas once you account for the fact you get no help with nursery etc.
I’d welcome it. I’d actually welcome free childcare for all working parents. It’s the best route for the economy.

Exactly we live in what Mumsnet considers a relatively cheap area, our mortgage is nearly £2k for bog standard 3 bed terrace house. Add on £2k of nursery and £400 of wrap around costs and that leaves £1100 of a £100k salary every month for all other bills, council tax, food, transport, gas and electric and water. It is most definitely NOT rich.

RedToothBrush · 31/03/2026 09:33

CurlewKate · 31/03/2026 08:26

Won’t somebody think of the poor £100,000 earners…..

I rest my other case about punishing 'the rich' and not looking at the issue beyond the headline £100k.

Araminta1003 · 31/03/2026 09:37

I think if it were a sort of universal state education starting at 9 months, for all, there would quickly be even more red tape and curriculum and more uniformity across nurseries. I wonder what it would do to childminders and Nannies - out of business for good. There are vacancies in a lot of state primaries so some buildings can be repurposed. And wrap around care would have to be chargeable at a reasonable rate too. And then open in the school holidays too, also chargeable.

horchatatresleches · 31/03/2026 09:39

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 31/03/2026 09:14

These threads always go the same way sadly.

Just ends up an argument between high earners (who aren’t rich FFS) and low income families who rely on the benefits being paid for by the high earners. Without the high earners, the benefits wouldn’t exist.

it’s only the super rich who we can actually call rich.

I think the fact that income not being the same as being rich is lost in these discussions. I have a friend from huge family wealth. University fully paid for, her parents gave her £750,000 to buy a house, and I know they’ve transferred at least one BTL property to her as well. I don’t resent that, and I’d do the same for my children if I could, but I really strongly disagree with being being lumped into the same bracket because one year that might never happen again my partner’s income was slightly over £100k (in a year I spent mostly on SMP so our average household income is probably around or just over two people earning the average income). The discussions of the cliff edge aren’t higher earners wanting sympathy, but a critical look about who this policy works for.

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Araminta1003 · 31/03/2026 09:41

It would be a massive upfront cost but I think better to spend there than on benefits to their parents as it isn’t working for children. The places could also offer advice for back to work stuff. I do remember some of these kind of nurseries being trialled in London in the Surestart era in London in deprived areas, eg middle of a huge council tax estate.

RedToothBrush · 31/03/2026 09:42

PEOPLE EARNING OVER £100K WILL STILL PAY FOR THEIR CHILDCARE IF THE SYSTEM IS CHANGED.

THEY WILL CONTINUE TO SHOULDER THE BURDEN OF EVERYONE ELSE'S CHILDCARE CARE.

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE WILL BE THE METHOD OF PAYMENT AND ALLOWING THEM TO EARN MORE THUS PAYING MORE TAX.

THE NET RESULT SHOULD BE THAT EVERYONE IS BETTER OFF AND KEY SERVICES LIKE THE NHS CAN GET THE SKILLED STAFF THEY TO WORK MORE HOURS WHICH THEY DESPARATELY NEED.

Its not giving people earning £100k something new for free. They will ultimately be the ones who still pay for it, but the system will be free of barriers which are restricting people in various scenarios from working.

This isn't dissimilar to issues with benefits at the other end of the scale, where its becoming increasingly the case that going from benefits to employment isn't worthwhile for some.

These issues are massively impacting productivity.

Ohthatsabitshit · 31/03/2026 09:56

wobblychristmastree · 31/03/2026 08:24

The rest of us?

no - the people earning 100k are paying for these services through the huge amounts of tax they pay. Paying for services they don’t get to use.

Well we all pay for services we don’t use don’t we? Childless people pay taxes that fund education, disabled people pay taxes for facilities they can’t access, those who find their own retirement pay for the feckless and or impoverished’s care, pacifists pay for armed forces, those who would abolish the monarchy pay towards the royal family, and on and on. It’s how a society works. We all pay in and we set up a scaffolding to live within.

Ohthatsabitshit · 31/03/2026 09:59

horchatatresleches · 31/03/2026 09:39

I think the fact that income not being the same as being rich is lost in these discussions. I have a friend from huge family wealth. University fully paid for, her parents gave her £750,000 to buy a house, and I know they’ve transferred at least one BTL property to her as well. I don’t resent that, and I’d do the same for my children if I could, but I really strongly disagree with being being lumped into the same bracket because one year that might never happen again my partner’s income was slightly over £100k (in a year I spent mostly on SMP so our average household income is probably around or just over two people earning the average income). The discussions of the cliff edge aren’t higher earners wanting sympathy, but a critical look about who this policy works for.

I don’t think a salary of £100,000 is “rich” in the context you describe and I’m not sure anyone does.

Lameelephant · 31/03/2026 10:04

RedToothBrush · 31/03/2026 09:33

I rest my other case about punishing 'the rich' and not looking at the issue beyond the headline £100k.

Yes and there’s always an element of self righteousness and victim hood about it.The idea seems to be that the person paying £40k in tax is somehow being selfish and unfair to the person receiving £40k in benefits and therefore need to be punished or held back in some way (along with their children). It reminds me of children being called a swot and bullied at school for working hard. It’s a truely odd and damaging worldview. It can’t continue.

RedToothBrush · 31/03/2026 10:05

I think what lost in these conversations is the idea of 'free' childcare.

There is no free childcare.

Childcare is always paid for by someone.

Getting rid of the cap, those on over a £100k would still pay for more than their own child's care. It's just that they wouldnt be penalised in a way that harmed themselves and everyone else in the process.