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AIBU to complain about Airbnb with owners' belongings and no storage space?

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Holly247 · 28/03/2026 23:56

So we've arrived at our Airbnb in France and although the place is nice, it feels like we're house sitting. Their clothes are filling all the closets, and the kitchen too, not one cupboard has been left free for our use, they're full of the owners food. There's also food left in the fridge (including a fresh pepper?), and although some shelves have been left free in there, the freezer is choc full! The photos didn't show these areas and surprisingly the reviews are glowing with no mention of this (perhaps because owners can review renters, too?). Am I being unreasonable, and what do I do if anything?

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Delatron · 29/03/2026 15:03

Agree that is is how it was supposed to be until recently.

Now they’ve changed all the rules (so you need fire doors and safety certificates) it tends to be more like holiday lets. Then people expect that high standard.

I can’t work out if it’s a good thing or a bad thing but we won’t air BnB our house any more due to the new rules.

I think that’s the risk when you rent an air BnB - it could well be someone’s house and hence have their things there. All you can do is mention it in the review.

Flannelfeet · 29/03/2026 15:14

Scran the lot then put up a brilliant review saying the owner left you loads of food 😀

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 29/03/2026 15:20

I stay in a lot of AirBnB and have only had one which was full of family stuff, clothes, toys, food, toiletries. I think you've been a bit unlucky but it is how AirBnB used to be.....a decade or so ago......

socksandshoos · 29/03/2026 15:40

This is why I stopped Air bnbing our home when we went on holiday - I’d clear the bedrooms of clutter & leave an empty fridge but leave our clothes in usual place. Had a couple of jackets stolen, people helped themselves to our booze - just irritated me in the end and anytime I misplaced anything I’d wonder if it had been pilfered til it turned up. The whole original premise was that you get the “home” experience but became more of hassle than it was worth to host. Final straw was a family of 4 turned out to be a large group of teens who threw a 3 day party…not done it since. Most were great but some ignored the fact it was a family home and treated it like a holiday let

RoseField1 · 29/03/2026 15:46

I used to Airbnb my spare room, and occasionally the whole house. When I did that I cleared fridge space, cupboard space, and to be fair I only included the spare room which was already set up for Airbnb and my DS' room didn't stop some guy sleeping in my bed one time and leaving his boxers on my bedroom floor and made sure the living room was tidy and spotless.
I absolutely listed it as my family home with the price to match and nobody was ever shocked by that. It sounds like they have not actually bothered to make it guest ready. It's not the same as letting friends stay there when you're away - paying guests should expect a certain level of attention given to the house for their comfort.

MaggieFS · 29/03/2026 16:13

Even if it is old school Airbnb I think it’s disingenuous if the photos are deliberately misleading. I would take photos to file a complaint later. Also, if there are zero cupboards available, I would happily empty a couple en masse.

Blessedbethefruitloopss · 29/03/2026 16:15

Sounds like a house swap. Are you sure they haven’t gone to yours?😂

IWaffleAlot · 29/03/2026 16:42

socksandshoos · 29/03/2026 15:40

This is why I stopped Air bnbing our home when we went on holiday - I’d clear the bedrooms of clutter & leave an empty fridge but leave our clothes in usual place. Had a couple of jackets stolen, people helped themselves to our booze - just irritated me in the end and anytime I misplaced anything I’d wonder if it had been pilfered til it turned up. The whole original premise was that you get the “home” experience but became more of hassle than it was worth to host. Final straw was a family of 4 turned out to be a large group of teens who threw a 3 day party…not done it since. Most were great but some ignored the fact it was a family home and treated it like a holiday let

Because it’s absolutely naive to think you could trust a stranger. Just because they paid? What are you basing this random, off the street person among your home and prized possessions.

Denim4ever · 29/03/2026 16:46

Aside from the ice cube tray, who uses a freezer in holiday accommodation?

C152 · 29/03/2026 18:03

I could be completely wrong, but I always assumed that, unless it's a professional host, you are temporarily staying in someone's home. It would be nice if they left you some closet space and emptied the fridge, but it's hardly going to ruin the holiday, is it? If you're worried, send a quick message saying there's no room in the fridge/freezer for your food, so you're binning anything perishable and storing the rest on the side/in a cupboard for them. As far as clothes, unless you're staying for a month or more, it's not really hard to live out of a bag, taking out what you need for the next day.

Oriunda · 29/03/2026 18:10

ladycarlotta · 29/03/2026 02:07

This was the point of Airbnb. Stay in someone's actual home. All my best stays have been in actual homes, not managed properties.

And many more countries are now legislating about how many days a year you can Airbnb a property, and it has to be a main residence. No idea if that's the case in France.

They should probably have made a bit more space for your things but I wouldn't expect a vacant holiday-let style property from an Airbnb.

I concur with this, and in France my stays have tended to be in houses with the owners present. It’s also why I don’t Airbnb our UK home, because people’s expectations are completely different from how Airbnb was originally set up. I only let people I know use it, and with the understanding it’s still our home. The house has books, toys, phone chargers etc and I leave loo roll, tampons, cotton wool and all the usual toiletries for people to use.

That said, I have left a wardrobe and chest of drawers clear, as well as fridge etc.

socksandshoos · 29/03/2026 20:08

IWaffleAlot · 29/03/2026 16:42

Because it’s absolutely naive to think you could trust a stranger. Just because they paid? What are you basing this random, off the street person among your home and prized possessions.

Well, yeah, that was the original premise and it worked for a time. Air bnb vets people (not full proof) and is quick to compensate in my experience (the party) And the families with kids were perfect guests who left it as they found it, and were very complimentary. I don’t mind people using my stuff and having a nosey, but if I were to do it again I’d have locks on everything I didn’t want to be touched or I’d ensure I was there too. Its a rogue few that ruin it for the rest. I don’t think that’s naivety

BauhausOfEliott · 29/03/2026 20:41

Some friends and I stayed in one like this for a weekend in the UK. It was a very big and expensive house and immaculately tidy, but yes, fridge and freezer contained food and all the wardrobes in the main rooms had clothes in. Bit weird but it wouldn’t have occurred to us to complain.

You can usually tell from listings which properties are holiday properties and which are family homes, I think. A lot of people rent out their home on Airbnb while they’re on holiday.

notacooldad · 29/03/2026 20:46

That's nothing! In a not very well known Eastern European republic I was in a few years ago, not only were clothes and food still there but medication, toothbrushes were still next to the sink and hairbrushes etc were on the dressing table. The young man who met me and my husband took us to the flat and it looked like he removed his grandparents for a few days!

nonmerci99 · 29/03/2026 20:52

Holly247 · 29/03/2026 13:58

I have just checked the listing and there's no mention of it being their home. Says the letting is the entire house. The fridge is plastered on all sides with family snaps, and they are frames on walls as well. I think the problem is expectations, I feel like I have been deliberately misled, as all the photos on the listing have avoided showing any of this clutter and their personal effects, they have been quite clever in the bits they have shown and what they haven't! And no notes left or anything to say 'help yourselves to x,y,z' etc I think that would have helped. I don't want to touch or use anything they have left as it's not clear if we're meant to or not! Just wondering if it's a cultural difference with us being upright Brits and the French owners won't see any issue at all!

If you didn’t want to rent someone’s family home then why are you using AirBnB? As many others have mentioned, that was and technically still is the actual intention of the website. Unfortunately it’s been overtaken by property management companies and “professional” landlords. I find this an utterly bizarre thing to be complaining about, and even more bizarre to say you feel misled!

avignon1234 · 29/03/2026 22:51

I think @Holly247 OP is getting a few unfair comments here. Whilst I think we all get that when Airbnb started, you were letting a room in your house, or your whole house with all that came with it, but when a vast percentage of the "entire property" adverts are now just empty-ish properties for the letting market (they are also on booking.com), then there is an expectation that you are going to get just that, especially if photos have sort of indicated that. I love Airbnb and have had some fab ones, even with quirks (like the washing machine has to drain into the toilet) and yes, sometimes there are helpful things in the cupboards (salt, pepper, dishwasher tablets and so on, kids games). But latterly, they have been more like an apartment let. The wording should have been clearer. Not sure there is anything you can do (or would want to do) in this instance, other than to chalk it up from an experience pov.

madaboutpurple · 29/03/2026 23:50

Have you got the owner's contact details. I suggest getting in touch and ask them to sort the situation out for you.

GoldbergVariations · 29/03/2026 23:52

Denim4ever · 29/03/2026 16:46

Aside from the ice cube tray, who uses a freezer in holiday accommodation?

I do. I'm a Coeliac. Otherwise, families, folk on a budget, people with other dietary requirements or preferences... We are not all the same,

FourSevenThree · 29/03/2026 23:54

C152 · 29/03/2026 18:03

I could be completely wrong, but I always assumed that, unless it's a professional host, you are temporarily staying in someone's home. It would be nice if they left you some closet space and emptied the fridge, but it's hardly going to ruin the holiday, is it? If you're worried, send a quick message saying there's no room in the fridge/freezer for your food, so you're binning anything perishable and storing the rest on the side/in a cupboard for them. As far as clothes, unless you're staying for a month or more, it's not really hard to live out of a bag, taking out what you need for the next day.

Binning their food sounds very rude and disrespectful.

There are a few shelfs free at the family fridge - which sounds similar to a space which would be available in an empty under counter fridge.
If the OP really wants to use a freezer, they can send a message asking to empty one shelf there, but unless freezer was offered in the listing, it's ok that it is full.

Sounds like a simple mismatch of expectations - in France the Airbnb is either someone's primary residence let for limited number of nights in a year or an object with a special permission turning it fully commercial, essentially a mini hotel.

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