My DGM is 93 and luckily still has fairly low care needs which my DM manages at home. The private carers the council offered ended up being unhelpful so she prefers to do it on her own - it's difficult but manageable. A lot of my DGM's friends are in much worse positions in care homes, and I've been trying to find out why care homes are in such a bad state for a while.
Obviously there's a lot of reasons, but from this book extract in the Guardian it sounds like private equity is a big part of the picture.
AIBU to wonder what can be done? This has to be tackled, but how?
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/mar/28/the-great-care-home-cash-grab-how-private-equity-turned-vulnerable-elderly-people-into-human-atms