I’m so at a cross roads been with my husband 17 years, I love him but to be honest the past 3 have been tough we had a great social life and shared so many times together we don’t have kids.
His moods have become worse over the years a friend stayed with me and brought up how he snaps at me and this has carried on the last 3 years to where most days or every few I’m being had a go at being called a pr*, c*t, kn**head he when he on one will mimic my voice.
He never wants to socialise these days when he used to be the life and soul he stopped drinking two years ago which is a fine there wasn’t an issue just wanted to stop but since he doesn’t want to do anything and looks down on people who do if we go anywhere we have to agree a time to leave and he always brings it forward so im on age.
I recently went to visit a friend for two weeks and I felt so free since I’ve been back he had been nice but I can see the snapping creeping in.
We sleep in separate beds I always say come back and he has excuses even when I hit back after two weeks he went to watch a show in his room.
if I go out he gets in a paddy but if I stay in I’m sat on my own.
i don’t know what to do would life be better on my own.