To just walk away after I gave my best to my family , came from not much growing up in a council estate made me tough things were hard but it made me who I am today.
Our adult kids are spoilt 18 and 20 years old I gave them love I never had ,ex partner came from a similar background he just chucks money at them but does not give love or empathy.
I’ve always been there for them now I’m leaving the family home and them behind, I work amd have done my best.
Dd going to uni this year but she has had hospital appointments and consultants due to Ill health , ex dp not been there at all.
I’ve done it all and half the reason I’m leaving as he is selfish , I’m not perfect but can’t be in a relationship where we both don’t love each other anymore and no support .
We have now spilt up and they are staying with him until dd goes to uni, I’m trying to find a place still living in the family home.
He has money I’m walking away I feel so hurt not married and after 21 years I’m going to be alone and I’m so scared .
So my Aibu is do get a two bed flat or a 1 bed place for dd in case she need to come back ,I’m torn thank you .