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To get a credit card for 21yo?!

58 replies

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 18:56

Is it possible? DD is heading off to uni in September and would like a low limit credit card. She’s sensible - would be useful for emergencies but primarily would like to use instead of her debit card and then just pay it off at the end of each month. I think it would be a useful way of keeping track of her spending, alongside building her credit score & earning air miles (she’s a frequent traveller). Having travel insurance included would also be a huge bonus and save money in the long run.

Her earnings are around £8k/year from her part time job alongside her student loan and a £5k course specific bursary. Is it a possibility at all or am I looking for some sort of unicorn card?

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Lemonfrost · 22/03/2026 20:03

ThisSunnyBee · 22/03/2026 19:44

Er she means for the daughter to keep track..
#comprehension skills

Have a re-read of the thread. The only one with comprehension issues appears to be you.

#don'tbesorude

herbalteabag · 22/03/2026 20:03

She'll probably be able to get one herself even if she earns £8K, albeit with a lower limit. She can then use it for emergencies or however she likes, and you won't need to be involved.
I would definitely not have wanted a parent to be able to see all my transactions at the age of 21!

BudgetBuster · 22/03/2026 20:07

Bunnybigears · 22/03/2026 19:52

Without being unnecessarily pedantic OPs use of "To get a credit card for 21 year old" and "am I looking for some sort of unicorn card" does somewhat imply OP will be the one organising and applying for the card on her DDs behalf and therefore be somewhat involved in the card at least initially so I don't think it was a massive leap to make.

I agree. Looks like the OP is implying that THE OP wants to keep track of her daughters spending. Sure the daughter can keep.track of her spending via a debit card.

But in general, just very strange for a parent to be getting so involved in a 21yo finances.

letshearitforDavid · 22/03/2026 20:17

Butchyrestingface · 22/03/2026 19:48

She meant for the daughter to keep track of her spending. OP didn't imply SHE was going to do it.

The whole thing implies OP is doing it.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:21

Miranda65 · 22/03/2026 19:05

At 21 she should be getting her own credit card, and no way should her parent be "keeping track of her spending"!

Which is exactly what I was saying. I haven’t got a clue what she spends and have no intention of ‘keeping track’! I meant that having to look at a credit card bill every month would mean that she is more conscious of her spending, rather than having it mindlessly come out of her current account.

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Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:22

letshearitforDavid · 22/03/2026 20:17

The whole thing implies OP is doing it.

You’d be wrong..!

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CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:23

Miranda65 · 22/03/2026 19:05

At 21 she should be getting her own credit card, and no way should her parent be "keeping track of her spending"!

This. If she's not able to get and use her own credit card she shouldn't have one arranged for her. I really dont understand the question.

CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:25

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:22

You’d be wrong..!

But your question was should you get it for her. She should get it herself if she wants it.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:25

ThisOneLife · 22/03/2026 19:22

Your advice isn’t actually very sound. For a start there’s no interest if you pay off the full amount each month and building up a good credit score is important for adults. In addition, with a cc you get brilliant consumer protection for big purchases like white goods and without a cc you can’t hire a car.

Edited

The extra protection is part of the draw for DD. At the moment she typically makes any ‘bigger’ online purchases like flights, more expensive clothing etc on my credit card and transfers me the money

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Bunnybigears · 22/03/2026 20:26

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:21

Which is exactly what I was saying. I haven’t got a clue what she spends and have no intention of ‘keeping track’! I meant that having to look at a credit card bill every month would mean that she is more conscious of her spending, rather than having it mindlessly come out of her current account.

If she mindlessly spends from her current account without keeping track of her spending she it would suggest she is not financially aware enough for a credit card.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:26

CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:25

But your question was should you get it for her. She should get it herself if she wants it.

She’s 21 & has very little banking experience like most others her age. I’m simply trying to help her out - she’s as independent as they come so seeking advice from me is very much a rarity

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AmazingGreatAunt · 22/03/2026 20:27

When I went off to university in 1977 my father offered me a credit card, Access in those days. I refused.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:28

Bunnybigears · 22/03/2026 20:26

If she mindlessly spends from her current account without keeping track of her spending she it would suggest she is not financially aware enough for a credit card.

She certainly keeps track, has a good savings pot etc and is never stuck for money but I do personally believe that having to manually transfer at the end of the month would build better awareness. It certainly does for me.

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Coconutter24 · 22/03/2026 20:29

Miranda65 · 22/03/2026 19:05

At 21 she should be getting her own credit card, and no way should her parent be "keeping track of her spending"!

Nowhere did OP say they’d get the card in their name for their DD, they also didn’t say they’d be keeping track of her spending

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 22/03/2026 20:29

NoWordForFluffy · 22/03/2026 19:19

I don't think that poster understands how credit cards work.

No. I've got a friend like this that warns her DC off of doing sensible financial & other things because she doesn't understand them herself.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:29

herbalteabag · 22/03/2026 20:03

She'll probably be able to get one herself even if she earns £8K, albeit with a lower limit. She can then use it for emergencies or however she likes, and you won't need to be involved.
I would definitely not have wanted a parent to be able to see all my transactions at the age of 21!

Again, I have got a clue about her transactions! Any bank statements that arrive for her go straight into her room. None of my business at her age

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CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:30

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:26

She’s 21 & has very little banking experience like most others her age. I’m simply trying to help her out - she’s as independent as they come so seeking advice from me is very much a rarity

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My grandchildren have had bank accounts since they were 11. The oldest two are at university no way would anybody need to organise their banking.

MoonieDoo · 22/03/2026 20:30

Why can’t she review her current account statement every month to keep track of her spending? Or use an app like Snoop.

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:31

CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:30

My grandchildren have had bank accounts since they were 11. The oldest two are at university no way would anybody need to organise their banking.

Edited

Good for them! DD has only ever had a basic current + savings account so is just looking for a bit of advice. It’s hardly the end of the world considering many fully fledged adults end up consulting financial advisers

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Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:32

MoonieDoo · 22/03/2026 20:30

Why can’t she review her current account statement every month to keep track of her spending? Or use an app like Snoop.

She could do, yes. Feels like a waste of Avios points etc though to only spend on a debit card

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Bunnybigears · 22/03/2026 20:35

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:26

She’s 21 & has very little banking experience like most others her age. I’m simply trying to help her out - she’s as independent as they come so seeking advice from me is very much a rarity

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I think it is pretty inaccurate to say most 21 year olds have very little banking experience. At 21 she will be a mature student, a lot of her peers will be leaving uni having navigated their finances successfully for the last 3 years.

It's pretty irrelevant anyway. You have been advised that a credit card for a 21 year old on a part time wage isn't a "unicorn" and is pretty par for the course. If she wants one and feels it will benefit her then let her get on and apply for one. Money Saving Expert is a great place to search for an appropriate card and let's you know the likelihood of being accepted before you apply.

CaptainMyCaptain · 22/03/2026 20:35

Blueeberry · 22/03/2026 20:31

Good for them! DD has only ever had a basic current + savings account so is just looking for a bit of advice. It’s hardly the end of the world considering many fully fledged adults end up consulting financial advisers

Once more, you asked if you should GET it for her. Not give her advice but get it for her. No, she should be perfectly capable of getting it herself if she wants one.

bonjourtristesse16 · 22/03/2026 20:35

Neobanks like Monzo and Revolut are a great way to track spending/savings, they also offer chargeback should goods be faulty.

WhoTheWhatTheWhere · 22/03/2026 20:36

Ds is almost 23, he got a credit card when he got his grad job. It is paid off automatically in full every month so he can build his credit score along with the protection for anything he buys over £100.

We have had the same automatic payment on the credit card we have had for nearly 30 years. Never not paid the whole balance. We get benefits from the credit card, same with our bank account, we make money from both, they don't make any interest money from us.

As long as she realises that if she spends £1000 and pays back £950 and leaves £50 she gets charged interest on the whole £1000 not just the £50 remaining. Martin Lewis video confirming this.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/RFBuCs7ekQ4

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/RFBuCs7ekQ4

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 22/03/2026 20:39

A credit card will not make it easier to keep track of spending. And I say this as someone who puts 99% of her monthly spending on credit card. It takes additional effort to stick to budgets and have the cash in the right place to pay it each month.

At a societal level, it’s statistically more likely that the credit card will be a gateway into a lifelong consumer debt cycle than it will improve her financial habits.

I’d suggest she spends some time researching, maybe listening to the Financielle podcast which I very much rate on finance topics, and then deciding for herself what she wants to do.

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