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Is receiving £30k pa on benefits “living in poverty”?!

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ChumpWizard · 21/03/2026 19:40

Amol Rajan BBC R4 Today was in Colchester this week. Great interviews but one thing had me wondering.

Is receiving c£30,000 pa on benefits “living in poverty”? That’s the equivalent of a FT job earning c£40-£42k Pa.

OP posts:
notmyfirstrodeo2 · 22/03/2026 01:43

Allergictoironing · 21/03/2026 22:25

"...low-level, low-skill , low-paid staff in your area are very often the local council."

Please don't equate low pay and low grade with low skill or unskilled. For my local council job, which pays the princely sum of just under £27k pa (less than £2k more than minimum wage) I need to have good Excel, Outlook and Word skills plus various specialised software, be responsible for handling 10s of thousands in expenditure every month including pushing back when rules have been broken or processes followed incorrectly by seniors, take calls from often distressed or abusive "clients", be able to work flat out to make up for the recruitment freeze meaning we are at not much more than 50% of required staff, be able to drop everything at a moment's notice & change to the 10th different task of the day, be able to respond at a moments notice on any query, know certain aspects of laws and council rules...

It can take months for someone to learn how to do our job properly; when we had a temp in recently we were still finding little things we had to correct months later as there are so many little nuances to the job that I'm still finding out after being there years. Plus the rules and systems seem to change constantly, with senior management not bothering to tell us properly or allowing for the time it takes for new systems to bed in etc etc etc. We've had 2 staff off for a number of weeks over the past year due to work stress related breakdowns; they definitely weren't taking the micky it's that hard and pressured.

As a single adult with a mortgage I am eligible for virtually no benefits at all, just 25% council tax deduction and in my case PIP, lower level as I can actually walk more than 30 metres.

Exactly
people think low pay = low skilled. I’ve never earned more than 29k
jobs I’ve had include emergency services call handler and working for a prestige car brand
if you want to tell me handling 999 calls is low level and low skill then go watch Ambulance and come back to the thread. I still hear some of those calls in my sleep

HelenaWaiting · 22/03/2026 02:54

Livelovebehappy · 21/03/2026 22:13

So the following statement is incorrect, or does it depend on how people are interpreting the figures here?

UK welfare spending is experiencing a significant increase, with
projections indicating it will rise by over £73 billion over the next five years, reaching a total of £406.2 billion by 2029-30. This surge is driven by rising health-related and disability benefits, an aging population, and policy changes, with spending on disability benefits alone set to increase 49% between 2023-24 and 2028-29

I already answered that question in my initial post and I don't appreciate attempted entrapment by people who aren't half as clever as they like to tell themselves they are.

leftyberefty · 22/03/2026 04:09

The number of people claiming disability benefits is rising from what I understand but because people are being given smaller and smaller amounts (hence stories in the disability news press about people being forced to live off dog food and cases of people starving to death), the amount spent is not going up by all that much. Fewer people working, however, is bad news but all the evidence suggests that we are seeing increasing levels of genuine disability which we cannot just pretend isn't happening. We must work out how to help people who are not able to work. Not just "slash" their incomes.

LakieLady · 22/03/2026 06:17

Tipsowner · 21/03/2026 21:08

I think they should have a modest amount of help to keep the show on the road because not helping will mean them losing their home and requiring more expensive help.

And the money paid in benefits was only the interest element, not the capital, so the actual cost of the property wasn't covered.

Catcatcatcatcat · 22/03/2026 07:02

The main issue with the benefits bill is that old people are living so long. I am in my sixties myself so heading that way.

When the state pension was introduced, it was intended to prevent poverty and homelessness for about ten years after retirement.

The silent generation and boomers are living another thirty years. And of course with the boomers, there’s just so many of them. We can’t afford it because people can’t afford to have children (aka future taxpayers) to pay those pensions.

But in the same way as we can’t send people’s babies back, we really can’t start culling our old folk. At some point the old age pension will have to be based on need rather than being universal.

pinkpalmleaves · 22/03/2026 07:05

The irony being as a single parent earning £42k I’m expected to live off that with zero help or benefits! My friend earns £28k and work minimum hours to receive benefits that take her wage up to £43k - the irony! The system is ridiculous and something Labour will never acknowledge - they are not a party of the working people. They are clueless! And they will never receive my vote again!

dizzydizzydizzy · 22/03/2026 07:14

OonaStubbs · 22/03/2026 00:57

The poorest person that works full time should be better off than the richest person on benefits.

A healthy / non-disabled person on benefits is much poorer than a healthy/non-disabled person working full time and on minimum wage.

If you look at my PP, you will see the figures for benefits.

previouslyknownas · 22/03/2026 08:22

My niece gets UC & PIP high rate for both
live in a council house 2 kids
she transferred over from the old ESA system so gets a bit more money because of that

her rent is 400 a month
council tax around 200 a month she gets 100 rebate on this for both rent / council tax

What she has for herself after rent and council is paid is 1k from having LCWRA And pip 700

then child benefit 160 for her 2 kids
640 for both of her children on UC

add it all up it’s roughly 3150 a month
yearly is roughly 37k

minus of the rent & council tax it’s roughly 30k a year or 2500 a month to live on

her prescriptions are free

Coffeeandbooks88 · 22/03/2026 09:02

Currently filling in a DLA form for my son. It isn't as easy as people think!

Livelovebehappy · 22/03/2026 09:27

HelenaWaiting · 22/03/2026 02:54

I already answered that question in my initial post and I don't appreciate attempted entrapment by people who aren't half as clever as they like to tell themselves they are.

Yep you did. By manipulation to fit your own agenda. Thats the definition of ‘attempted entrapment by people who aren’t half as clever as they like to think they are’……

Livelovebehappy · 22/03/2026 09:30

Coffeeandbooks88 · 22/03/2026 09:02

Currently filling in a DLA form for my son. It isn't as easy as people think!

It’s not meant to be easy. Money from the ever depleting public purse is being offered out here. DWP need to get it right, so however difficult it might be, all the appropriate questions and information needs to be obtained. Lots of online help out there to help with completion….

pinkpalmleaves · 22/03/2026 09:31

@previouslyknownaswhy does she get PIP?

metellaestinatrio · 22/03/2026 09:45

ComtesseDeSpair · 21/03/2026 20:45

I’m politically centrist with probably some views which lean towards the right. But I worked a significant part of my career in social research and social housing, and when it comes to welfare I’m a pragmatist: cutting welfare doesn’t stop people making bad choices like having more children than they can afford, it just means that children grow up in poverty. And when children grow up in poverty, we see the repercussions of that in our education, health, criminal justice and social services: the money that isn’t being spent on welfare just has to be spent somewhere else along the line.

I largely agree with you, provided the money is actually spent on the children - often in these cases it is not, and the children are still turning up to school hungry and their teacher (who may well earn less than £30K net - because remember we are talking here about a £30K NET income not gross) is buying them breakfast.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 22/03/2026 09:47

Livelovebehappy · 22/03/2026 09:30

It’s not meant to be easy. Money from the ever depleting public purse is being offered out here. DWP need to get it right, so however difficult it might be, all the appropriate questions and information needs to be obtained. Lots of online help out there to help with completion….

I have heard of children with cancer being denied. Utterly stupid. Yes I am aware that they will try not to award it and yes my child has SEN.

metellaestinatrio · 22/03/2026 09:51

AngelicaArchangel · 21/03/2026 21:01

Was she unemployed i.e. claiming benefit? Or just a mum at home looking after her children. We don't know when she had the children or when her husband became unable to work due to his disability.

This is the trouble with having barely any facts.

OP has dropped rage bait and fucked off.

We do know she’s been unemployed for ten years and the youngest child is three, so she had at least one (and likely more, given the oldest is 20) since she stopped working. Given the age range, it would presumably also have been apparent that the older children had disabilities before she and her DH decided to have the younger ones. If you can’t manage the children you have alongside a job, why go on to have more?

Allergictoironing · 22/03/2026 09:51

shuggles · 22/03/2026 01:28

It's understandable if your DC and their partner are high earners. People generally choose homes that they can afford.

I was saying that anyone who is on benefits that tries to rent a £2k a month property is a clown.

They may have no choice depending on where they live. If you look at say, Kent, minimum rental for 3 bedrooms is around £1k -per month, and living within a few miles of any towns nearer £1300 - £1600 per month. Many of these are apartments. Greater Manchester area starts at £1k per month.

The closer you get to the greater London area the more rents go up e.g. Brentwood a 3 bedroom home starts at £1800 per month, Dartford around £2k, Croydon £1.8 - 2k. If a family has 2 children of different sexes they need that 3rd bedroom once they get to a certain age.

And bear in mind that they may have been renting that home then the main earner loses their job for whatever reason - finding a new place that accepts benefits is really hard due to the conditions on most Buy to Let properties. And don't even think of suggesting Housing Association or Council housing - there can be years and years of waiting for that in some areas.

They probably can't just up and move, they may have support networks where they live now, or children in special schools, or other health needs.

OrdinaryMagicOfAcorns · 22/03/2026 09:52

Livelovebehappy · 22/03/2026 09:30

It’s not meant to be easy. Money from the ever depleting public purse is being offered out here. DWP need to get it right, so however difficult it might be, all the appropriate questions and information needs to be obtained. Lots of online help out there to help with completion….

The ‘ever depleting purse’ of public money while billionaires get ever richer…

ColinOfficeTrolley · 22/03/2026 09:55

Badbadbunny · 21/03/2026 19:51

Before tax, national insurance, student loan repayments, workplace pension deductions, etc. and costs of working, such as commuting.

Edited

You ain't paying any student loan back on £25k

metellaestinatrio · 22/03/2026 10:00

XenoBitch · 21/03/2026 21:44

If all 6 kids are SN then chances are the parents are too.
You can't stop anyone having children. That is a massive slippery slope sliding down into eugenics territory.

But you can disincentivise them from having more children by reducing the benefits available, so they can choose to have more kids but are required to consider whether they can actually afford to support them rather than just knowing the state will provide.

sunshine244 · 22/03/2026 10:00

feellikeanalien · 21/03/2026 21:53

If a single parent has a severely disabled child their monthly UC payment would be made up as follows:-
Single person rate £400.14
Carers element £201.68
Child element £339.00
Severely disabled
child element £495.87

Total amount £1436.69

They would automatically lose £739.14 once their child is no longer on the claim. The child will get £534.24 in UC including the new LCWRA amount. Child benefit will also stop so a further £110 will be lost. If the child is not classified as severely mentally impaired they will also lose their single person Council Tax discount.

The child will already be in receipt of PIP so that makes no difference to the household's total income.

The household will be at least £300 per month worse off so I'm not sure how you work out that they won't be significantly worse off.

Also if it's a single parent family they will lose any child maintenence too.

metellaestinatrio · 22/03/2026 10:04

CousinBette · 21/03/2026 21:56

I heard this piece. Whilst all 6 children had SEN, that doesn’t mean they’d all qualify for benefits related to the SEN. The mum adored her children, they were her pride and joy and gave her purpose in life… I think that goes some way to explaining why she’d had six.

Edited

But many of us might in an ideal world have liked to have more children, but we limited our family size so we could give the children we have a good life. Surely everyone’s children are their pride and joy - doesn’t mean we should all be able to have six and not to have to work!

CandyEnclosingInvisible · 22/03/2026 10:08

It depends on the number of people that £30,000pa has to support and what abasic rent for an adequate home would be for a family that size. If an adequate home is going to cost £2000pcm leaving £500pcm to cover all bills food and other expenses for 5 people then that would indeed be poverty. The same amount of money to support just a single parent and once child in an area where rent is only £600pcm would not be

Pickledonion1999 · 22/03/2026 10:15

XenoBitch · 22/03/2026 00:59

No one on benefits is "rich".

Someone on more benefits than the "poorest person that works" will have disabilities and/or disabled kids.

Would you like to swap you wage for their disabilities? Yeah, thought not.

Of course there are rich people on benefits because some benefits aren't means tested. I regularly help older people to claim Attendance Allowance. Some live in massive houses and have hundreds of thousands in the bank and still want to claim AA. I personally think it's wrong and it should be means tested but that's unlikely to happen.

Thelongestcovid · 22/03/2026 10:48

AnnaQuayRules · 22/03/2026 01:09

@XenoBitch that's the problem, isn't it? I don't think the children should suffer because their parents made poor choices, but I also don't think the parents should be rewarded for having 6 children whilst not working. I don't know what the answer is.

We know that educated women have less children. In many parts of the country having DC is the only real joy they will experience. There are many children growing up in 'rough' areas that go to schools in special measures. Maybe if the government put more effort into properly funding and improving education outcomes for these children would be improved. Plus so many low skilled jobs have been replaced by technology so it is vital that these people are given an education if we expect them to work.

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/03/2026 10:57

Grendel7 · 21/03/2026 21:27

2.5k a month!!!! As a couple we live on 30k a year, have no debts and live comfortably. Not entitled to benefits as both work and no small kids.

That’s £15k each then so you both must be working part time