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To think a leftover happy meal isn’t the worst packed lunch you could have?

439 replies

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:00

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

Hear me out first. Of course the article is pretty terrible, children being sent into school with only packets of biscuits for lunch, stories of children having no milk for their cereal and bringing in energy drinks.

But one example was a child took a leftover happy meal to school. Aibu to think that this isn’t the worst thing you could have?

No I have never sent my child into school with a cold takeaway for their lunch, and it would be concerning if it was happening all the time. But I would eat leftover McDonald’s if I hadn’t eaten it the night before. It’s probably no worse than taking a ham sandwich and a packet of crisps (which would be deemed as acceptable).

When I was a child most kids took meat paste sandwiches and a wagon wheel and that was a completely normal lunch.

Teachers share students' worst packed lunches and contents are heartbreaking

Teachers share examples of unsuitable packed lunches children bring to school in the UK, including energy drinks, cold fast food and alcohol – with some pupils making their own meals

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

OP posts:
JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 21/03/2026 13:24

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 21/03/2026 12:58

That's really not much food, how old are you DC?

11, 8 and 8.

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 13:26

12pup · 21/03/2026 13:22

Cold nuggets? Why? They serve hot ones at school.

And if it' so snobby, and rage headlines, as you say, why are you further baiting rage?

Super odd thread.

Is this a philosophical question to you? Something judge what you see as precious parenting? Of did you send your dc in with that? Or your Sil?

I happily take my kid to MacD but a left over? That sounds utterly disgusting. A weird thing that people who don't cook or enjoy food might do. Dysfunctional imo

Nasty reply, no need to be like that.

OP posts:
EEHHH · 21/03/2026 13:26

Sesame2011 · 21/03/2026 12:03

Theres many takeaways i would eat the next day (reheated) but mdconalds is not one of them.

Agreed.

Wiseplumant · 21/03/2026 13:29

I can't imagine eating a left over McDonalds from the previous day. Its meant to be eaten as a quick, body temperature takeaway and not thought about ever again after its been eaten!

5128gap · 21/03/2026 13:34

In all honesty, I think the advice needs to be scaled right back to the essentials. There is no way on earth a parent providing an energy drink and a packet of biscuits is going to be swapping to home made popcorn and a 'nutritious wrap'. Some parents are obviously starting from a very low level here and going all in with the optimum healthy lunch is never going to happen.
They'd do better to have a hard ban on energy drinks and packets of biscuits and encourage some sort of sandwich, a piece of fruit and a snack item of choice.
My DC took cheese sandwiches an apple, crisps from a multi pack and a mini roll throughout the 90s, and are now perfectly healthy adults.
The happy meal isn't the worst no. If its bought for the child to eat I don't see the difference between dinner and lunch and at least it isn't food waste.

TheDenimPoet · 21/03/2026 13:35

The question is, was the child happy with the lunch? If so, I genuinely think it's up to the parents what they give to their child. Some of the guidelines of what kids are allowed to have for lunch is ridiculous now. When I was at school I had a sandwich, packet of crisps, and a biscuit, sometimes a Frube too. And that was exactly what everyone else had, too. We all grew up fine, and they were quick, easy lunches for parents to make. Schools have them jumping through hoops to have "healthy" lunches now, they're just making things difficult. There's nothing wrong with having whatever for lunch - they could have 10 portions of veg with their tea for all the school know!

Unpaidviewer · 21/03/2026 13:42

I suppose it isn't the worst and its something in their bellies. But a HM cost nearly £4 and my main feeling is that it would be a poor cost option. You could provide something far more nutritious for the same amount.

AnonSugar · 21/03/2026 13:47

A cold McDonald’s festering in a lunch box all day? Would be lucky if the kid didn’t get food poisoning.

usedtobeaylis · 21/03/2026 13:48

That sounds absolutely rank tbh but as a one off I don't really see a problem. Reheated takeaways are part of life.

auserna · 21/03/2026 13:49

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:10

Ok but presuming that the child usually has a nice balanced lunch, but on this occasion they had a McDonald’s that they didn’t eat the night before.

Presuming it’s been refrigerated it’s not going to do any harm.

"Presuming" is doing quite a lot of heavy lifting here!

HollyScot · 21/03/2026 13:50

I am fairly sure cold french fries upset my stomach once, I googled the science behind it at the time and it can happen, specifically because they go from hot to cold and something happens but I can't remember the details. I don't eat meat so it wasn't that.
So i'm not even sure it is safe as people who are claiming 'it will do no harm', maybe it could and the child could get an upset stomach.

My child typically has:
Either a chicken or cheese sandwich, with chopped cucumber or tomatoes on the side.
Apple or banana (*for break time, the school asks parents to provide a healthy snack for mid--morning break.)
Something else which I try to vary, like crisps or a soreen loaf
Bottle of water

So i'm not convinced by these comments saying average lunchboxes aren't healthy either. It might not be perfect, the chicken might be processed food but the fruit and cucumber at least make it a million times better than mcdonalds.

SiberFox · 21/03/2026 13:52

When people say “90s kids had a sandwich and crisps and biscuits for school lunch and we’re fine’. Well, obesity rates have also been soaring in the last decades. Metabolic health very much depends on what you eat as a child, which is why recommendations for kids are very different now.

I’m from one of the least obese countries in Europe and we had healthy school lunches in the 90s, not fast food.

This is generalising of course but using the poor 90s lunch habits as a good benchmark is weird.

LuciferTheMorningStar · 21/03/2026 14:08

I'm not a food snob, I like and eat McD's/Burger King from time to time (fresh), happily eat reheated Chinese, cold pizza, etc. But stale cold McD's is a no from me.

On the other hand, I don't see the need for outrage. It's not going to kill the kid as a one-off. Often/all the time, sure, that's abysmal. But a one-off? Whatever. Shit happens to all of us sometimes.

SL2924 · 21/03/2026 14:09

It’s lazy, neglectful parenting from people who should not have children. This sort of food should be banned for children and quite frankly adults too. It can simultaneously cause obesity and malnutrition. It has no nutritional value. I would argue that this is not even food- just edible crap.

mondaytosunday · 21/03/2026 14:17

Im trying to think how there can be any leftovers in a happy meal. But cold fries and burger or nuggets are pretty grim. @InOverMyHead84if they can afford McDonalds they can probably afford a freshly made sandwich.

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:21

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:03

If you are voting yabu what exactly is it about the McDonald’s that is so terrible?

Is it that you wouldn’t eat McDonald’s at all or is it because it’s cold?

Nothing but I wouldn't send my child to school with a left over McDonald's happy meal it looks terrible and people will judge and I can well imagine getting some " concerned " phone calls from school

usedtobeaylis · 21/03/2026 14:23

HollyScot · 21/03/2026 13:50

I am fairly sure cold french fries upset my stomach once, I googled the science behind it at the time and it can happen, specifically because they go from hot to cold and something happens but I can't remember the details. I don't eat meat so it wasn't that.
So i'm not even sure it is safe as people who are claiming 'it will do no harm', maybe it could and the child could get an upset stomach.

My child typically has:
Either a chicken or cheese sandwich, with chopped cucumber or tomatoes on the side.
Apple or banana (*for break time, the school asks parents to provide a healthy snack for mid--morning break.)
Something else which I try to vary, like crisps or a soreen loaf
Bottle of water

So i'm not convinced by these comments saying average lunchboxes aren't healthy either. It might not be perfect, the chicken might be processed food but the fruit and cucumber at least make it a million times better than mcdonalds.

My daughter usually has some kind of bar like a go-ahead something or other, and a piece of fruit for morning snack. At lunchtime I normally give her a sandwich, fruit, yogurt and something else, could be some crackers, rice crackers, mini cheddars, jelly. I often also give her pasta in a food flask made with a stir-in sauce, or noodles, or home made soup. Basically, I give her what she will eat minus sweets or chocolate, and if I give her the healthiest option (the soup, my preference because it has actual vegetables in it) too often she starts coming home with most of it uneaten. So not the absolute healthiest lunches, being quite limited by something that needs to keep in a lunchbox for a few hours and the fact that flasks regularly go missing and I can't afford to replace them immediately every time, but also not the worst by a long shot. And frankly, often better than the school lunch options. I don't really pay attention to what anyone else has except to say it was difficult for a long time because she didn't understand why other kids had chocolate and pringles and she didn't. There are children eating worse rubbish at school whose parents are doing the same as me, giving their children what they know they will eat, but there is also a massive culture problem around what we feed our kids. I'm still learning, as someone brought up on fish fingers and supernoodles and who was actually teased for many years because I liked vegetables. Massive cultural problem.

PhyllisLyllis · 21/03/2026 14:25

HollyScot · 21/03/2026 13:50

I am fairly sure cold french fries upset my stomach once, I googled the science behind it at the time and it can happen, specifically because they go from hot to cold and something happens but I can't remember the details. I don't eat meat so it wasn't that.
So i'm not even sure it is safe as people who are claiming 'it will do no harm', maybe it could and the child could get an upset stomach.

My child typically has:
Either a chicken or cheese sandwich, with chopped cucumber or tomatoes on the side.
Apple or banana (*for break time, the school asks parents to provide a healthy snack for mid--morning break.)
Something else which I try to vary, like crisps or a soreen loaf
Bottle of water

So i'm not convinced by these comments saying average lunchboxes aren't healthy either. It might not be perfect, the chicken might be processed food but the fruit and cucumber at least make it a million times better than mcdonalds.

In my experience your example isn’t the average lunch though.

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:26

LassiKopiano24 · 21/03/2026 12:26

As a one off if it’s the kids birthday and they’ve requested it fine, maybe the child is Autistic or has AFRID etc we don’t know. Maybe they had no money and a friend or relative got the family a Mcds the night before or it could just be lazy parenting, it’s easy for people to judge without knowing the full situation.

If the parent was struggling financially I believe most schools will give free school dinners as long as they let the school know.

The school will judge ....

Caterina99 · 21/03/2026 14:26

I’m all for leftovers in packed lunches, but I think a cold MacDonald’s sounds pretty grim.

It’s very sad the number of children who have absolutely shocking nutrition, for many reasons. Universal free school meals wouldn’t prevent this, but maybe it would help slightly.

AppropriateAdult · 21/03/2026 14:26

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2026 12:09

No sorry. If you can afford a Happy Meal you can afford a loaf of bread to last the week, some sliced ham or cheese, an apple and possibly some nuts or crisps which is healthier.

Theres no nutritional content at all in a Happy Meal, its just fat and salt. Also I think sending a child into school with last night’s cold, slimy leftovers suggests such a lack of care. Its one thing if its just bought but someone’s rejected food is pitiful. Yes it’s marginally better than nothing but if you can afford bread and basic groceries you can do better than this.

I wouldn’t send a Happy Meal into school, no, but saying things like “no nutritional content” is just silly. The meal contains carbs and protein, which are the primary nutritional needs of a child, and McDonald’s uses 100% beef in its burgers. Yes, the meals have too much salt and fat, and too little veg, but claiming there’s nothing of nutritional value in them is just incorrect.

usedtobeaylis · 21/03/2026 14:27

What IS the average packed lunch?

Cel77 · 21/03/2026 14:27

It sounds really awful, though. Cold burger and chips? 🤮

DriveVerySlowlyPastNumber23IWantThemToSeeMyHat · 21/03/2026 14:29

Lomonald · 21/03/2026 12:05

Left over happy meal is really bad it isn't the same as a freshly put together ham sandwich. It is neglectful lazy parenting, yes i fully understand parenting struggles, but surely this Is a reason that children should have free school lunches.

But why should schools fund children's food? If they can afford a happy meal, they can afford a loaf of bread and some ham!

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2026 14:30

ForeverAPuppy · 21/03/2026 12:54

Another point is, most of us as good parents wouldn’t send a happy meal in as we are aware how it would look. When parents send a happy meal in, oblivious that it may be questioned, thinking there is no issue at all with doing that, it can show a lack of judgement and therefore a lack of good parenting. They aren’t even aware that it wouldn’t look great because they don’t have the skills to see that, and again, it can be an indicator of a child having a problematic home life.

Yeah any parent who hasn’t been living under a rock would have the social radar to figure out that sending a kid into school with a half eaten Maccy Ds isn’t going to make them look like Parent of the Year.

Regardless of the nutritional benefits of a hamburger versus a ham sandwich (and both have their shortcomings), you know its going to make you look a shit parent and have potential ramifications for your kid.

Why would a caring parent not just spend five minutes making sandwiches to avoid stigmatising their child? Its lame. I just don’t buy that anyone needs to do it.