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The three boys accused of taking it in turns to rape a girl have been found not guilty

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Lougle · 19/03/2026 08:04

The three boys accused of taking it in turns to rape a girl have been found not guilty on all counts despite some of the incident being filmed. How could that be? That poor girl. I believe in justice, I wasn't in court. I just can't understand it though.

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Itsmetheflamingo · 19/03/2026 10:29

ApplebyArrows · 19/03/2026 10:23

Stop going on about the "standards for a guilty verdict". The only defences in law to having sex with a child under 16 are (i) they didn't have sex with her, (ii) [if she was 13] they believed her to be 16 or over. That they had sex with her appears to be undisputed and I very much doubt they could reasonably claim (ii). There is no comparison to an adult case where consent is disputed because consent is irrelevant to the statute. I struggle to see how the jury are not simply failing to apply the law properly here, led on by a highly misleading defence case focusing on irrelevant details.

Isn’t this different if the boy (as here) is also under 16 though? Specifically to deal with the situation of 2 14 year olds agreeing to have sex being different to a 17 year old having sex with a 14 yea old?

My understanding is that’s where the hard line of 12 (can’t consent under any circumstances) comes in

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 10:30

Itsmetheflamingo · 19/03/2026 10:29

Isn’t this different if the boy (as here) is also under 16 though? Specifically to deal with the situation of 2 14 year olds agreeing to have sex being different to a 17 year old having sex with a 14 yea old?

My understanding is that’s where the hard line of 12 (can’t consent under any circumstances) comes in

That is correct

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:30

ApplebyArrows · 19/03/2026 10:23

Stop going on about the "standards for a guilty verdict". The only defences in law to having sex with a child under 16 are (i) they didn't have sex with her, (ii) [if she was 13] they believed her to be 16 or over. That they had sex with her appears to be undisputed and I very much doubt they could reasonably claim (ii). There is no comparison to an adult case where consent is disputed because consent is irrelevant to the statute. I struggle to see how the jury are not simply failing to apply the law properly here, led on by a highly misleading defence case focusing on irrelevant details.

The law doesn't tend to prosecute similar-aged teen couples having consensual sex though.

This was clearly not consensual, though...

SueKeeper · 19/03/2026 10:30

Ukefluke · 19/03/2026 10:07

The mothers will think they are little princes, the fathers will think they are "lads". Thats part of the problem.

It's worse, the jurors will think they are "lads," as juries are so skewed in sexual assault cases. Women who have been assaulted can be excused early on and even women who cry at evidence or footage cam be excused (my friend was swapped a few days in for getting upset at a CSA case). Think about how many women this is excluding and who was left to fill up the jury?

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:30

Itsmetheflamingo · 19/03/2026 10:29

Isn’t this different if the boy (as here) is also under 16 though? Specifically to deal with the situation of 2 14 year olds agreeing to have sex being different to a 17 year old having sex with a 14 yea old?

My understanding is that’s where the hard line of 12 (can’t consent under any circumstances) comes in

I think so too.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:38

SueKeeper · 19/03/2026 10:30

It's worse, the jurors will think they are "lads," as juries are so skewed in sexual assault cases. Women who have been assaulted can be excused early on and even women who cry at evidence or footage cam be excused (my friend was swapped a few days in for getting upset at a CSA case). Think about how many women this is excluding and who was left to fill up the jury?

The crying thing feels awful but I can see that technically it could be argued that crying suggests they already believe the crime happened before having heard all the evidence. Difficult not to cry at a video clearly showing assault, though...

Noodles4Me · 19/03/2026 10:38

SueKeeper · 19/03/2026 10:30

It's worse, the jurors will think they are "lads," as juries are so skewed in sexual assault cases. Women who have been assaulted can be excused early on and even women who cry at evidence or footage cam be excused (my friend was swapped a few days in for getting upset at a CSA case). Think about how many women this is excluding and who was left to fill up the jury?

It is a concern but I’d refuse to be a juror in a rape case. Having worked for the CPS many years ago (more admin than legal) if a case even got to court then there was ridiculous amounts of evidence - more than many other crimes. But then the victim has to fight something worse that her rapist - 1000 years of cultural and systemic misogyny and rape myth. This is from barristers, judges and jurors.

No way am I sitting with 11 other “peers” and listening to that shit.

Whatafustercluck · 19/03/2026 10:44

Needspaceforlego · 19/03/2026 10:28

One thing the jury will have focused on is how did the boys get the girl in to the woods. Where did she think she was going?
Why did she think she was going there?

It's entirely possible she thought it would be a consensual snog and a secretive fumble, not to be gang raped.

Tillow4ever · 19/03/2026 10:47

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JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 19/03/2026 10:47

DrBlackbird · 19/03/2026 09:33

The problem is that we cannot rely on judges either to be free of prejudice, bias or holding inaccurate beliefs. Especially ones that hurt girls and women. Look what’s happened to family courts eg the "presumption of contact" law that assumed children benefit from contact with both parents. Now being repealed after a decade of children being killed by abusive fathers.

I don't disagree with you but judges can be required to revisit their training and guidance, they should - in theory - have the capacity to understand and critical thinking. There are some godawful judges out there but the make up of juries is too full of aggression and bias.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:50

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Your accusations are completely unwarranted. I've been clear throughout thus thread that I believe it was a disgusting miscarriage if justice on the part of the jury.

Questioning a specific issue in pps does NOT mean that I'm saying this poor 12yo girl is lying or was not assaulted.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:51

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 19/03/2026 10:47

I don't disagree with you but judges can be required to revisit their training and guidance, they should - in theory - have the capacity to understand and critical thinking. There are some godawful judges out there but the make up of juries is too full of aggression and bias.

Why is the makeup of juries so bad, so often? If they're randomly picked, does that mean most of society endorses rape myths? Or is there something else going on re how they're selected?

Tillow4ever · 19/03/2026 10:51

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:06

. If both really had been consenting, imo it would be unfair & arguably sexist to say the boys were assailants because they penetrated.

The point is that it clearly WAS forced, she was not consenting. What were the jury thinking? What are the chances she was consenting to thus?

The law allows for where both parties are under the age of consent and both are consenting. They would not be prosecuted, in England at least, if both parties said they consented.

This is not the place for talking about how boys are so hard done by, and how they are the victims of sexist attitudes/behaviour and why we need to look out for them too.

If you want to discuss that, start a thread about that, it is so fucking disrespectful to rape victims for you to be saying “but what about the boys? Someone needs to protect the boys”.

Boys and men are already offered more than women and girls are in the way of protection in the world.

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 10:52

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This post is completely inappropriate, the poster is doing no such thing

VexedofVirginiaWater · 19/03/2026 10:56

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/03/2026 10:06

I don't think that would be an apology that I would be able to accept.
I remember Jill granted forgiveness to one of the attackers who apologised for his actions (so I presume she did the same for the judge too).
She was a better woman than me.

Oh I remember this case - it was the vicarage one wasn't it? That's why her anonymity was blown. And I remember - all those years ago - being incensed when her father (the vicar) announced that she was the jewel in his crown but that he forgave the attackers for her rape! Unbelievable even then.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:57

Tillow4ever · 19/03/2026 10:51

The law allows for where both parties are under the age of consent and both are consenting. They would not be prosecuted, in England at least, if both parties said they consented.

This is not the place for talking about how boys are so hard done by, and how they are the victims of sexist attitudes/behaviour and why we need to look out for them too.

If you want to discuss that, start a thread about that, it is so fucking disrespectful to rape victims for you to be saying “but what about the boys? Someone needs to protect the boys”.

Boys and men are already offered more than women and girls are in the way of protection in the world.

You misunderstood my post, I can see it wasn't clear. I apologise.

I used the word 'sexist' because I feel it would arguably be sexist to women if this were a case where 2 teens had consensual sex and the girl was immediately assumed to be a victim of assault. I didn't mean 'sexist against boys'.

However, I was clear that I was NOT talking about this particular case, it's clear it was not consensual. (Apart from the the idiotic jury...)

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:58

Tillow4ever · 19/03/2026 10:51

The law allows for where both parties are under the age of consent and both are consenting. They would not be prosecuted, in England at least, if both parties said they consented.

This is not the place for talking about how boys are so hard done by, and how they are the victims of sexist attitudes/behaviour and why we need to look out for them too.

If you want to discuss that, start a thread about that, it is so fucking disrespectful to rape victims for you to be saying “but what about the boys? Someone needs to protect the boys”.

Boys and men are already offered more than women and girls are in the way of protection in the world.

On this comment : ' Boys and men are already offered more than women and girls are in the way of protection in the world.' I don't think male victims of sexual abuse are offered more protection.

But clearly male perpetrators are..

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 19/03/2026 11:02

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 10:51

Why is the makeup of juries so bad, so often? If they're randomly picked, does that mean most of society endorses rape myths? Or is there something else going on re how they're selected?

My DS did his law dissertation on this (juries generally not rape cases specifically), the statistics are not good on education and bias. I don't have any info to hand but there are lots of studies out there on it - rape myths are a big part of it and protecting men's careers and lives in terms of not being punished.

Lougle · 19/03/2026 11:03

The boy who was deemed unfit for trial would have been deemed unable to defend himself due to his disabilities. So it went to fact finding. The jury decided he didn't do the things he was accused of.

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JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 19/03/2026 11:04

@Carla786 if you haven't seen it already, do watch The Jury Channel 4, it's an eye opener but also not - you'll know what I mean when you see it.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/03/2026 11:05

VexedofVirginiaWater · 19/03/2026 10:56

Oh I remember this case - it was the vicarage one wasn't it? That's why her anonymity was blown. And I remember - all those years ago - being incensed when her father (the vicar) announced that she was the jewel in his crown but that he forgave the attackers for her rape! Unbelievable even then.

Yes, that's the one.

OrlandointheWilderness · 19/03/2026 11:05

OhWise1 · 19/03/2026 09:29

Posts like this are pointless
We are seeing a few cherry-picked paragraphs about the case whereas the jurors have heard days worth of evidence. It is ridiculous to assume on that basis we can discern whether there was a miscarriage of justice.

Agree with this.

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 11:09

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 19/03/2026 11:02

My DS did his law dissertation on this (juries generally not rape cases specifically), the statistics are not good on education and bias. I don't have any info to hand but there are lots of studies out there on it - rape myths are a big part of it and protecting men's careers and lives in terms of not being punished.

Yes Im bound to offend someone when I say this, so I'll say it and be damned

I have a theory which is born out of anecdotes that the average juror is fairly illinformed and uneducated

Reason being, anyone with quite a professional job, or a fairly successful self employed business does not have the time to dedicate what could be weeks and weeks on a jury, so are likely to ask for deferment or excused. You can only do this once or twice I learned when I was at university, I couldnt guarantee when my service would come and didnt want to risk my exams, so I turned it down and therefore was taken off the list (probably not describing the process right, it was nearly 40 years ago)

Self employed people do not get anywhere near the expenses needed to justify them being off work for any length of time. You need a reasonable employer who will pay you to make it worth while.

So that leaves, retired people, unemployed and possibly unemployable people, full time parents (who may or may not be full time parents by want of not really being able or willing to enter the world of work).
Yes of course that isnt the full cohort and there are lots of educated and able people on juries but I would wager that the first categories outweigh them in terms of numbers and availability.

Needspaceforlego · 19/03/2026 11:09

ITV news says the video clip is 10 seconds long. So it possibly shows the intercourse but not much more.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 11:10

VexedofVirginiaWater · 19/03/2026 10:56

Oh I remember this case - it was the vicarage one wasn't it? That's why her anonymity was blown. And I remember - all those years ago - being incensed when her father (the vicar) announced that she was the jewel in his crown but that he forgave the attackers for her rape! Unbelievable even then.

Unbelievable. Jesus said people should forgive wrongs done to them. Not forgive wrongs done to other people....!

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