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The three boys accused of taking it in turns to rape a girl have been found not guilty

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Lougle · 19/03/2026 08:04

The three boys accused of taking it in turns to rape a girl have been found not guilty on all counts despite some of the incident being filmed. How could that be? That poor girl. I believe in justice, I wasn't in court. I just can't understand it though.

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Bringemout · 19/03/2026 09:37

DrBlackbird · 19/03/2026 09:27

But we have seen this as one of the reasons for the jury or judge to pronounce not guilty or a light non custodial sentence . In one case, it was a young female medical student who stabbed her boyfriend. IIRC the judge didn’t want to ruin her promising career.

I remember that, it was appalling

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/03/2026 09:38

I am old enough to remember Jill Saward, who was gang raped by complete strangers in her own home. They all got substantially longer prison sentences for burglary than rape because the judge felt she hadn't suffered that much!

That was in the eighties. Nothing really changes or improves where the safety of women and girls are concerned unfortunately.

L0V315 · 19/03/2026 09:38

There is a war on women (and female children)....

Itsmetheflamingo · 19/03/2026 09:38

vladimirVsvolodymr · 19/03/2026 09:35

I have a 13 year old and I know where he is without being with him. I know he will not be gallivanting on trams or in bushes. I know he will be sensible enough to know right from wrong. Amazing that’s all you took from the post.

You said where are the parents. The parents presumably thought their children were off on a short bike ride or similar.

if what you mean is, my children would never behave like that, that’s a different point and I agree with you.

jamcats · 19/03/2026 09:42

Outrageous and then they wring their hands about not enough women coming forwards about their attacks. It isn't possible for a 12 year old girl to consent to this. My niece is 12, there is no way! That girl was raped and those boys got off with it because they were also young, just not as young as the girl. It smacks of prioritising the lives of those males over the girls life.

It reminds me of the scandal of rape and sexual assaults being hushed up at US collage campuses because accusations and convictions of rape would ruin the lives of promising young men, the women as always can go to hell. If anything this is worse as the victim in this case was a literal child. How will she ever have faith in the police or justice ever again?

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 19/03/2026 09:43

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 09:25

I dont know why posters are citing the 'freeze' response as a reason why in this case jurors found the boys not guilty.

We have no idea of their reasoning.

They are citing it as the reason the girl isn’t shouting and fighting in the video.
Had she been doing so, jurors would have found it harder to acquit.

Womanofcustard · 19/03/2026 09:43

No fan of David Lammy, but the sooner they end jury trials and have these cases dealt with by professionals, the better.
A large proportion of people on jury service are not capable of making a clear decision, they just vote the way they ‘feel’

H202too · 19/03/2026 09:44

Is there any way to read the court reporting or no media there?

Ansjovis · 19/03/2026 09:45

I was a juror on a case which was found not guilty. I don't believe that there was a single person in that court room, including the judge and the defendant themselves, who believed that the defendant was innocent of wrongdoing. But the judge was clear about what standard needed to be met for a guilty verdict and unfortunately the prosecution had not done this so there was no other option for my jury than to find not guilty.

My thoughts are with the victim at this time. I do hope that there is someone who is able to explain the verdict to her, because I do believe that the jury will have wanted to find the defendants guilty (the 9h deliberation time shows this, I believe) but could not do so. It may be a small crumb of comfort to her at this difficult time.

L0V315 · 19/03/2026 09:46

The freeze responce is 'hard wired' into us so that when we are raped, sexually abused/attacked, we dont fight our attacker(s). Therefore more likely to survive.

The freeze response really needs to be understood

Gemtastic · 19/03/2026 09:47

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/03/2026 09:38

I am old enough to remember Jill Saward, who was gang raped by complete strangers in her own home. They all got substantially longer prison sentences for burglary than rape because the judge felt she hadn't suffered that much!

That was in the eighties. Nothing really changes or improves where the safety of women and girls are concerned unfortunately.

He ended up apologising about that when he realised how much she had suffered. She died young and I’m sure that trauma of that attack contributed to her ill health. The trouble is most judges come from a very limited demographic and mix with other similar people. I’m sure they have a very narrow, old fashioned view of women and girls.

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 09:47

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 19/03/2026 09:43

They are citing it as the reason the girl isn’t shouting and fighting in the video.
Had she been doing so, jurors would have found it harder to acquit.

My point is, we dont know that.

We have no idea why these jurors made that decision

HeyThereDelila · 19/03/2026 09:47

What a disgrace. Society fails our daughters.

Winederlust · 19/03/2026 09:48

KTheGrey · 19/03/2026 08:49

The jury was out for a very long time - over nine hours - so there were holdouts for some time. I am surprised that it could be charged as anything but rape because she is a child who therefore doesn’t get to give consent - that is what ‘the age of consent’ means, right?

Agree - horrifying verdict.

9 hours really isn't a long time at all. It often takes that long just to review all the evidence. Suggests to me that the verdict was arrived it pretty quickly, sadly.

Fernticket · 19/03/2026 09:50

Ansjovis · 19/03/2026 09:45

I was a juror on a case which was found not guilty. I don't believe that there was a single person in that court room, including the judge and the defendant themselves, who believed that the defendant was innocent of wrongdoing. But the judge was clear about what standard needed to be met for a guilty verdict and unfortunately the prosecution had not done this so there was no other option for my jury than to find not guilty.

My thoughts are with the victim at this time. I do hope that there is someone who is able to explain the verdict to her, because I do believe that the jury will have wanted to find the defendants guilty (the 9h deliberation time shows this, I believe) but could not do so. It may be a small crumb of comfort to her at this difficult time.

My experience as a juror was very similar to this.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 09:51

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 09:25

I dont know why posters are citing the 'freeze' response as a reason why in this case jurors found the boys not guilty.

We have no idea of their reasoning.

The freeze argument should not be allowed though, as it's scientifically proven to very often be automatic response which has nothing to do with consent.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 19/03/2026 09:51

likelysuspect · 19/03/2026 09:47

My point is, we dont know that.

We have no idea why these jurors made that decision

We don’t know that it’s harder to acquit when the victim is seen fighting and struggling?

Whatever else influenced them to acquit the boys who were filming each other having sex with a 13 yr old, I would hope her struggling would have made that choice much harder for them.

I’m struggling to understand why you are nit picking at that. Can you explain? Or is it a blanket ‘we mustn’t wonder about the behaviour of juries’ kind of thing?

Itsmetheflamingo · 19/03/2026 09:51

L0V315 · 19/03/2026 09:46

The freeze responce is 'hard wired' into us so that when we are raped, sexually abused/attacked, we dont fight our attacker(s). Therefore more likely to survive.

The freeze response really needs to be understood

I alway think worse than this (although not relevant for this case) is the fourth primal threat response- fawn. Particularly common as a female response. Make the threat like you, be compliant, and they will go away.

now imagine how many survivors would be able to explain that to a jury

AQuestionAlways · 19/03/2026 09:52

The MEN have turned comments off for it on instagram … is this because it’s to do with children or because it has too many outraged comments?

Interestingly they’ve left comments on for a post two posts prior about a man being falsely accused of rape.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 09:52

Womanofcustard · 19/03/2026 09:43

No fan of David Lammy, but the sooner they end jury trials and have these cases dealt with by professionals, the better.
A large proportion of people on jury service are not capable of making a clear decision, they just vote the way they ‘feel’

Lammy's change was specifically said to not apply to rape and murder trials though.

BlueskiesandPoppies · 19/03/2026 09:54

I am confused. I thought any sexual activity under age 16 was illegal. So, just for sake of trying to understand that the jury heard more direct evidence than has been reported in the media, presumably to the detriment of the poor girl's character and intentions, then all the boys should have declined to have intercourse. That they didnt means they conducted a criminal activity.
And they filmed it
I wonder why underage intercourse allegation was not entered along with rape?
The prosecution seems wholly inadequate

HobnobsChoice · 19/03/2026 09:56

Lougle · 19/03/2026 09:31

The MEN article said 12 this morning, I'm sure of it. The text was in bold print. The bold print text has since gone and says 13.

I'm local to this and followed the trial in the news since it started. The girl was 13 when it happened and one of the boys was 12.
It's absolutely devastating for that poor girl. I hope she has good support around her and is able to recover from both the rape and the subsequent trial.

LakieLady · 19/03/2026 09:56

LayaM · 19/03/2026 09:36

I looked up Rachel Shenton and her notable successful cases profile is mostly a list of men being acquitted for sexual and domestic crimes, including grooming.

I'm not normally into going after lawyers themselves as I understand everyone has a right to a fair trial. But I must admit my mind boggles that a woman would want to make that a specialty she is proud of

I don't know how she can sleep at night, to be honest.

Carla786 · 19/03/2026 09:56

Treacling · 19/03/2026 09:17

But we do know very few reported rapes result in a conviction. We know that the grooming of girls was covered up by authorities. We know raped girls are having to crowdfund to privately prosecute rapists and those who covered it up.

We know we have a huge problem in the U.K.

What are the public doing about that (some people even complained about a privately funded grooming / rape inquiry)? A private inquiry may not be as good as a government inquiry but it’s the best the public could do and I hope it showed the victims that thousands of us do care. We want raped children to get justice.

And i know far more fathers (personally) that have put money into the private rape grooming fundraiser than women or mothers. Anecdotal but it did surprise me.

As I said upthread if this verdict appalls you write to your MP. Put money into the grooming private fundraiser (it won’t help this young lady but will help other women who were raped as children). We are being watched globally and we are a disgrace.

O agree with most of this post, but this bit :

' We are being watched globally and we are a disgrace.'

  • is the UK notably worse than other European countries? The Nordic countries are probably better at tackling SA, France I don't think is, I have doubts about Italy, Spain, Poland & others. America also I'm unconvinced about.
I think most countries don't handle it well.
Carla786 · 19/03/2026 09:57

BlueskiesandPoppies · 19/03/2026 09:54

I am confused. I thought any sexual activity under age 16 was illegal. So, just for sake of trying to understand that the jury heard more direct evidence than has been reported in the media, presumably to the detriment of the poor girl's character and intentions, then all the boys should have declined to have intercourse. That they didnt means they conducted a criminal activity.
And they filmed it
I wonder why underage intercourse allegation was not entered along with rape?
The prosecution seems wholly inadequate

By that logic though , if crime was underage intercourse then the girl committed it too. The point is that it was not consensual.