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To be weirded out by colleagues attitude here?

7 replies

Uberella · 18/03/2026 20:17

I work with two lovely colleagues;one is 18 (female) the other is 26 (male).

The 18 year old has worked there two years since she was 16.The 26 year has been there longer so has obviously known the 18 year since she 16.

They get on well as they have similar interests but I’m 99.99 % sure they have no romantic interest in each other.

Yesterday I ran into them separately whilst on my day off.I mentioned it to my colleague who’s a 62 year old woman during my shift today that I’d run into both of them yesterday and she got excitable and asked if they were “together” when I’d seen them and when I said they weren’t she replied it was a shame as they’d make a lovely couple as they have common interests.

I mentioned to her that I didn’t think their current age gap is suitable for a relationship as they are currently at different stages of maturity and life experience and she replied “it’s only eight years”.

I think if the 18 year old was a few years older then maybe but I feel my colleagues keenness for a 26 year old man to be dating a teenager is a bit odd.

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Farewelltothatid · 18/03/2026 20:24

Is she really keen for them to be in a relationship? If she is really invested in them getting together that would be weird.

Sounds to me like trivial office chatter to me. A shame for your colleagues to have others speculating and talking about them in this way.

Thistooshallpsss · 18/03/2026 20:28

My husband is 8 years older than me and we met when I was 18. We are old now. 🥰

BauhausOfEliott · 18/03/2026 20:35

You’re being absurd.

They are two working adults who get along and have lots in common. It would be perfectly OK for them to date.

LlynTegid · 18/03/2026 20:37

You could respond that workplace relationships can be a bad idea. They can be workplace colleagues who get on well and not be in a relationship.

RobinInTheCrabApple · 18/03/2026 20:42

Crikey. You seem to be every so concerned over something that probably isn't happening and certainly isn't your business.

Your colleague is right. It is only 8 years.

catipuss · 18/03/2026 20:46

You have different opinions but it's all irrelevant if there is no romance anyway.

Jane143 · 18/03/2026 21:18

Why are you concerned? They’ll decide if they want a relationship

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