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To apply for night jobs?

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 13:10

DS 14 is in a children's home, but his social worker is starting the process of him coming home. I'm looking for a second job because my current one can't give me anywhere near enough hours. I'm on Universal Credit, but they expect me to earn upwards of £952 a month. Would it be unreasonable for me to go for night jobs even though when he comes home I'd have to switch to days? I'm widowed and DS has ADHD and a history of not going to school and going missing. How long does the parenting assessment process take?

TIA.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:37

purpleme12 · 13/03/2026 19:51

That doesn't seem right
I've never earnt that much since being in universal credit and they've never said I had to earn more

If you don't earn at least that you're asked to look for work and come in for appointments. I go in for appointments every 2 weeks and upload my job search. I understand that not all work coaches are strict about it.

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Birdsongisangry · 13/03/2026 22:39

Op if the social worker is assessing the suitability of your son coming home, applying for jobs that aren't compatible with childcare isn't going to look great. Is there a reason that you're looking at night shifts rather than something more family friendly?

purpleme12 · 13/03/2026 22:40

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:37

If you don't earn at least that you're asked to look for work and come in for appointments. I go in for appointments every 2 weeks and upload my job search. I understand that not all work coaches are strict about it.

Sorry I got confused
I do earn over that some months so it must even itself out which is why they're ok with it.
Sorry I wasn't thinking enough and shouldn't have commented

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:40

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:09

Weird / I wish it was only £952 I had to earn. Tho that’s £11.5k a year and def wouldn’t pay my bills

But then Universal Credit top it up. My rent alone is £1404 so they'd still pay that.

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tellmesomethingtrue · 13/03/2026 22:41

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 16:41

£952 ?? That’s low to me and That seems easily achieved of 18hrs x nmw

I have to earn £1446 as a single parent of an 8yr

Gross or net?

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:41

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 21:38

It’s 28hrs I think

don’t they say if a child is at school you need to work 30hrs - 9-3 x 5 days or something like that

but that’s def my amount and if I don’t earn it they still use that figure as if I had

No, it's definitely 18 hours on NMW.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:44

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:29

Sorry @TheLovelinessOfDemonsfor hi jacking your thread

It's fine.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:46

tellmesomethingtrue · 13/03/2026 22:36

Earning £952 net per month is only working around 18 hours a week - why can’t you do this?

That's why I'm looking for other jobs. My present employer can't give me the hours. I'm on a zero hours contract.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:53

Birdsongisangry · 13/03/2026 22:39

Op if the social worker is assessing the suitability of your son coming home, applying for jobs that aren't compatible with childcare isn't going to look great. Is there a reason that you're looking at night shifts rather than something more family friendly?

I'm applying for every job I can right now. As I said, that's why I'm asking if I can apply for night jobs now along with all the other jobs I'm applying for, and then switch back to days when I know he's coming back. By my calculations, if I'm going to be home when he is I'll only be able to work a maximum of 20 hours, and if he doesn't get DLA Universal Credit will be pressurising me to work more hours when it will be impossible.

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pinkdelight · 13/03/2026 22:54

It’s nice that your store is like a family but if they can’t even give you a couple of shifts to stack up to that wage then just see them in your spare time and get a day job with more hours elsewhere. Or deliver parcels or whatever to make it up to the monthly amount. Don’t get sentimental about a zero hours job. You could get on well somewhere else and not have to do the ‘won’t have to work’ strategy.

pinkdelight · 13/03/2026 22:55

(But in answer to the original question, yabu to apply for night jobs. It’s not practical at all)

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:57

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 22:41

No, it's definitely 18 hours on NMW.

Says up to 30 here. Which is roughly what I do

To apply for night jobs?
Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:58

tellmesomethingtrue · 13/03/2026 22:41

Gross or net?

Gross

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:59

pinkdelight · 13/03/2026 22:54

It’s nice that your store is like a family but if they can’t even give you a couple of shifts to stack up to that wage then just see them in your spare time and get a day job with more hours elsewhere. Or deliver parcels or whatever to make it up to the monthly amount. Don’t get sentimental about a zero hours job. You could get on well somewhere else and not have to do the ‘won’t have to work’ strategy.

This. Was thinking this but you have worded it better

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 23:04

pinkdelight · 13/03/2026 22:54

It’s nice that your store is like a family but if they can’t even give you a couple of shifts to stack up to that wage then just see them in your spare time and get a day job with more hours elsewhere. Or deliver parcels or whatever to make it up to the monthly amount. Don’t get sentimental about a zero hours job. You could get on well somewhere else and not have to do the ‘won’t have to work’ strategy.

I'll still have to do the 'won't have to work' strategy, because Universal Credit will pressurise me to work more hours when I won't be able to because my DS is not reliable enough to come home after school. I'm looking for both full and part time jobs. Ideally I'd rather have another part-time job so I don't have to leave my store.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 23:08

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 22:35

Guess I will never know but to me it makes sense if babe child at school you need to work 30hrs

so not sure why @TheLovelinessOfDemons only had to work 18

Minimum £952, which is 18 on NMW.

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pinkdelight · 13/03/2026 23:10

I guess my point was that if you’re barely at your store then don’t have that as a parameter. Get a job elsewhere and pop into the store on the other days to chat or whatever, but as a job it’s not really ticking the box. If the after school hours are an issue, cleaning jobs could work where you do gigs during school hours. Maybe sign up to some agencies if you haven’t yet.

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 23:21

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 23:08

Minimum £952, which is 18 on NMW.

Yet this says 30 which is what I do roughly for the £1447 I have to earn

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 23:46

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 23:21

Yet this says 30 which is what I do roughly for the £1447 I have to earn

Yes I currently have no dependents. When he comes home I'll need to apply for DLA because I won't be able to leave until he goes to school and I'll need to be back before he gets home. That's if I don't have to take him there and back. Where he is currently, he's only allowed out of an adult's sight outside the home for 5 minutes at a time. They drive him to and from school.

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LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 15/03/2026 21:16

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/03/2026 16:41

£952 ?? That’s low to me and That seems easily achieved of 18hrs x nmw

I have to earn £1446 as a single parent of an 8yr

This is because you’re self employed - you are impacted by the minimum income floor; if you were employed then you’d also have the same earnings threshold if a single adult in a household.

Blondeshavemorefun · 15/03/2026 21:31

Why should it make a diff whether in se or employed ? It’s still work

SanctiMoaniArse · 15/03/2026 21:48

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 15/03/2026 21:16

This is because you’re self employed - you are impacted by the minimum income floor; if you were employed then you’d also have the same earnings threshold if a single adult in a household.

That's what I was coming to say.

Self employed people don't have to meet the AET, instead they are expected to meet the MIF which is much higher.

Blondeshavemorefun · 16/03/2026 08:12

SanctiMoaniArse · 15/03/2026 21:48

That's what I was coming to say.

Self employed people don't have to meet the AET, instead they are expected to meet the MIF which is much higher.

That’s very unfair then. Esp as only me !

Blondeshavemorefun · 16/03/2026 08:12

Why are the hours different 18 to 30 is a huge amount diff to earn £500 ish

SanctiMoaniArse · 16/03/2026 08:19

Blondeshavemorefun · 16/03/2026 08:12

That’s very unfair then. Esp as only me !

Yep, I'm also a self employed single parent and totally agree with you!

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