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AIBU to question why taxpayers should fund Ian Huntley’s cremation?

389 replies

PassingStranger · 12/03/2026 23:02

Can't Ian Huntleys mother who was at his bedside and in touch with him, pay for his cremation.
Why should the tax payer pay?
He's already cost the taxpayer loads.🤔😫

OP posts:
TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 13/03/2026 19:19

XenoBitch · 13/03/2026 18:25

I can't believe a few posters have suggested a gibbet as a good idea for IH.

Imagine the threads on here... "AIBU to object to a corpse in a cage being suspended near DC school?"

I'm fairly sure those posters were being sarcastic.

XenoBitch · 13/03/2026 19:20

Everybodys · 13/03/2026 19:09

I'm sure there was a thread on here not long ago from someone complaining that they can't just go in the council dump when they die.

It was probably a throw away (pun not intended) comment.
There are regulations about this sort of thing. For public health reasons, and also for the dignity of the dead.

MissMoneyFairy · 13/03/2026 20:55

XenoBitch · 13/03/2026 18:01

Maybe some people think that prisons have their own morgue and ways to dispose (sorry, I don't think that is a great word but I can't think of a better one) of bodies.

I am pretty sure sea burials is a heavily regulated thing, and would cost more than the £3k that is available to use.

Ian bradys cost 20k, a judge ordered the disposal.

XenoBitch · 13/03/2026 20:57

MissMoneyFairy · 13/03/2026 20:55

Ian bradys cost 20k, a judge ordered the disposal.

Do you have a breakdown of the costs?

Amabo · 13/03/2026 21:03

The number of people who seem to think you can dispose of human remains on the council tip is worrying.

PassingStranger · 13/03/2026 22:40

Tigerbalmshark · 13/03/2026 18:12

Pauper’s funerals are a thing OP. I doubt Ian Huntley had many assets and if you die with no money yourself, the state will pay to cremate you too, because it is better than slinging corpses on landfill sites.

It will be a very basic cremation, he won’t have a horse drawn carriage and doves released, and we aren’t paying for his family to have a knees-up.

There isnt any family apart from his mum.

Don't know how people can bear to do such awful things to other humans who've done them no harm, knowing they will be hated the rest of their life and nobody will care when they are dead.

OP posts:
Samwsnsb · 13/03/2026 22:43

PassingStranger · 13/03/2026 22:40

There isnt any family apart from his mum.

Don't know how people can bear to do such awful things to other humans who've done them no harm, knowing they will be hated the rest of their life and nobody will care when they are dead.

This isn't relevant to the cost of the funeral.

MissMoneyFairy · 13/03/2026 22:47

XenoBitch · 13/03/2026 20:57

Do you have a breakdown of the costs?

You can read it online

Joliefolie · 14/03/2026 00:27

Samwsnsb · 13/03/2026 22:43

This isn't relevant to the cost of the funeral.

It’s not relevant to the cost of the funeral, as you rightly state, but this statement is relevant to the thread as yet another example of the OP’s complete inability to think outside their own frame of reference or beyond their need for attention and admiration. "How can you do such awful things… knowing they will be hated for the rest of their lives and that no one will care when they are dead?

This is the OP’s frame of reference. It also explains why the OP seems to think that the large number of posts in this thread validates the claim that taxpayers shouldn’t pay for the disposal of IH’s body - as if the large number of posters pointing out how stupid the proposal is means it's a debatable question. Ah but x% voted with me, the OP! Yes, on an anonymous thread and were still not able to offer up any genuine debatable points. But it's all about likes, clicks, votes and attention whilst using other people's real and profound trauma as a prop.

sashh · 14/03/2026 00:36

BatchCookBabe · 13/03/2026 08:41

Same question to you.

Playing devil's advocate though, I know some cannot afford to pay for a relatives funeral and the council will pay them, but what if everyone decided they don't want to pay for their relatives funerals anymore? Surely the council wouldn't fund everyone's burial or (cremation?) What happens then?!

I have no issue with the authorities paying when the family can't afford it, (and of course I have heard of a pauper's funeral - horrible turn of phrase!) But what if someone REFUSES to pay? (Even if they can afford it?) Is the council meant to pay for everyone's then?

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Edited

I imagine everyone's Council Tax would go up.

Samwsnsb · 14/03/2026 00:45

This entire thread is a waste of time

EyeLevelStick · 14/03/2026 06:49

PassingStranger · 13/03/2026 22:40

There isnt any family apart from his mum.

Don't know how people can bear to do such awful things to other humans who've done them no harm, knowing they will be hated the rest of their life and nobody will care when they are dead.

You still haven’t said

a) who you think should foot the bill for the disposal of his remains
b) why, if you still think it should be his mother, she should be forced to do so

x2boys · 14/03/2026 07:10

Samwsnsb · 14/03/2026 00:45

This entire thread is a waste of time

Agreed don't think anybody would disagree that Ian Huntley was a depraved person but arguing over how his body should be disposed of and who should pay is pointless it has to be disposed as a matter of public health and the cheapest way to do this would be a basic cremation,
He's not going to be having a big fancy funeral with loads of mourners.

x2boys · 14/03/2026 07:13

PassingStranger · 13/03/2026 22:40

There isnt any family apart from his mum.

Don't know how people can bear to do such awful things to other humans who've done them no harm, knowing they will be hated the rest of their life and nobody will care when they are dead.

I dont think anyone would disagree
Most people find brutal child murder abhorrent

Boomer55 · 14/03/2026 07:13

x2boys · 13/03/2026 08:38

About £1500, or it was 3 years ago when my FIL died

Government departments and councils pay a lot less than that to the funeral directors. It’s a very basic cremation.

Everybodys · 14/03/2026 07:51

EyeLevelStick · 14/03/2026 06:49

You still haven’t said

a) who you think should foot the bill for the disposal of his remains
b) why, if you still think it should be his mother, she should be forced to do so

I'd like to add a small addendum to question b, if I may. If his mother should be allowed/forced to pay, how does that work if she wants something less minimalist and more celebratory than people seem to be envisaging OP? Not asking whether you think she would, because none of us know her anyway so that's meaningless. Only what would happen if she did.

The state paying for it means the authorities get to be in ultimate charge of doing it quietly and practically, which is in everyone's interests.

TheHillIsMine · 14/03/2026 07:54

Idontknownowwhat · 13/03/2026 10:38

I dont think that's right or fair. She didn't commit his crimes, and I don't think she agreed with what he did.
As mother's we don't know what the limit of loving or contact with our grown up children would ever be.
I have a friend who's son has done terrible, terrible things to her, yet she's still in contact with him. She doesn't think he's a good person, doesn't like him, but cannot turn her back on her child.

And actually, look at the government paying for his cremation, they're saving money in the long run. Keeping a prisoner isn't cheap.

You don't think? Bloody hell.

Lincslady53 · 14/03/2026 07:57

He should go the same way as Ian Brady. Cremated in secret, then his ashes dispersed by being put in a salt urn, and dumped at sea, with no publicity and no fuss. No chance for any misguided people to honour his passing, ir for others to dedicate his grave.

Needspaceforlego · 14/03/2026 08:08

Lincslady53 · 14/03/2026 07:57

He should go the same way as Ian Brady. Cremated in secret, then his ashes dispersed by being put in a salt urn, and dumped at sea, with no publicity and no fuss. No chance for any misguided people to honour his passing, ir for others to dedicate his grave.

No matter what he's done.
Nobody can deny his mother's right to mourn her son. If she wants his ashes to put under a rose bush then that is her right.

He is still the baby she carried, birthed, and raised full of hopes and dreams.
She wouldn't have expected him to be come a murderer or be murdered.

Nobody can say how they'd feel in that situation. It's probably a right mixed bag of emotions.

NotAnotherScarf · 14/03/2026 08:23

He will get the same thing as someone who doesn't have the funds to pay for a funeral....with the opportunity for family to put what they can towards it.

So he gets a cremation and that's about it. The hearse, one family car and a spray of flowers.

One of the first funerals I did was one of those. The family put a bit of extra to have a burial. But it was still a respectful thing to do for the family....they weren't responsible for him being evil. You make that choice yourself.

FourSevenTwo · 14/03/2026 08:29

YABVU

He was a criminal, sentenced to prison. Taxpayers were funding his prison costs.
He was not sentenced to death
Actually if he had been, the Taxpayers would pay for the cremation in that case as well.

You are being very unreasonable to suggest selective application of the death in prison rules based on public opinion about the prisoner in question. It isn't part of the punishment.

Randomuser2026 · 14/03/2026 08:30

igelkott2026 · 13/03/2026 14:57

Ian Brady didn't have a funeral and his ashes were disposed of at sea. I suppose this is slightly different because Huntley was murdered when he should have been protected by the state. But it would be easier if they just had a quiet committal.

Who paid for his cremation and ashes disposal?

x2boys · 14/03/2026 08:36

Lincslady53 · 14/03/2026 07:57

He should go the same way as Ian Brady. Cremated in secret, then his ashes dispersed by being put in a salt urn, and dumped at sea, with no publicity and no fuss. No chance for any misguided people to honour his passing, ir for others to dedicate his grave.

That would cost more than a basic cremation.

Bellaunion · 14/03/2026 08:41

PassingStranger · 13/03/2026 22:40

There isnt any family apart from his mum.

Don't know how people can bear to do such awful things to other humans who've done them no harm, knowing they will be hated the rest of their life and nobody will care when they are dead.

But that's completely irrelevant to who pays or how his body is disposed.

You can still be outraged at his crimes and realise that his body needs to be disposed of safely and hygienically.

There seems to be some train of thought on here that the more fuss you are make about possibly everything to with Huntley such as making half brained suggestions of ditching him at sea or getting his mum to pay for the funeral. Or the more blood thirsty you are calling for the death penalty or violence in prison, that you are somehow more morally superior, care more about his victims or are more outraged at his crimes.

The Wells and Chapman families haven't been calling for his mum to pay for his funeral, the death penalty or condoning violence in prisons. I'm pretty sure they want the whole thing to go away as quickly and quietly as possible so they can move on with their lives.

NigellaDelia · 14/03/2026 08:44

NotAnotherScarf · 14/03/2026 08:23

He will get the same thing as someone who doesn't have the funds to pay for a funeral....with the opportunity for family to put what they can towards it.

So he gets a cremation and that's about it. The hearse, one family car and a spray of flowers.

One of the first funerals I did was one of those. The family put a bit of extra to have a burial. But it was still a respectful thing to do for the family....they weren't responsible for him being evil. You make that choice yourself.

This is from the government document regarding deaths of prisoners📧

As a guide, reasonable funeral costs may include:
• funeral director’s fees
• hearse
• simple coffin
• cremation or burial fees (this does not include the cost of the burial plot)
• faith or belief leaders’ fees (when someone from the prison’s chaplaincy team is not available or the family chose their own leader).

Reasonable costs do not include the following:
• headstone
• embalming or chapel of rest for viewing the deceased
• flowers
• transportation for mourners
• clothes for the deceased and/or mourners
• a wake, or other hospitality related to the funeral
• obituary notices
• order of service sheets