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To insist dd go school everyday between now and GCSE exams since school has no official study leave period?

81 replies

Dreadmill · 09/03/2026 20:07

I expect that teachers will be focused on revision and exam practise etc. My thinking is that there's still much to be done and the exams are a way off

Dd is adamant a high percentage of her cohort are now "WFH" at least 1/2 days a week.

For context, she is very high achieving (predicted 8 grade 9s) has always had 100% attendance and punctuality.

She's convinced that we're being too strict by making her go. Any MNers with recent experience??

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TheRoseBear · 10/03/2026 21:51

Why don't you contact the school (head of year 11 or attendance team) to ask them if she is expected in?

The run up to exams is a critical time so I'd be very suprised if a school pupil is already on any kind of study leave for exams in May.

JLou08 · 10/03/2026 21:54

My DS did his GCSEs last year. The expectation was that they were in everyday, working at home was not an option.

QuiteUnbelievable · 10/03/2026 21:57

Ours had study leave but I don't think from this early
However if they had i would have happily let my DD do what she wanted becsuee she's a committed student who has the knowledge embedded already because she's a natural student.
She achieved mostly 9s at.gcse. again for a levels I'm hands off. Why flog a race horse whose in the lead into the home straight leagues ahead .

And I'm very glad she had the option so she could work and revise on a way that clearly worked for her

juicelooseabootthishoose · 10/03/2026 22:00

Yr 11 mum here and all kids in school and fully focussed with a timetable of additional lessons on top to suit their ability. No flexibility in expected until the bulk of the exams have been sat.

Hairyfairy01 · 10/03/2026 22:12

Ok, based on your update to my original post I might allow the occasional day off school to complete coursework. In some subjects coursework has a higher weighting than exams. But that would only be if they were also being productive with their evening and weekend time.

AllJoyAndNoFun · 11/03/2026 06:35

School is a bus not a taxi. A minority of students would probably gain more from studying at home but the majority will benefit from more structured revision and question practice (including a significant chunk of those who think they'd get more done at home ) and imagine being the school trying to differentiate between the two groups and arguing with parents who think their DC should be in the other group.

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