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Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!

47 replies

OneSassyBlueReader · 05/03/2026 15:05

I’ve just looked at my wardrobe and realised and realised I only really wear each dress for one type of event. One for a wedding, one for a 'smart' lunch, one for a black-tie event.

I can’t wear the wedding one to work (sleeves are too 'extra'), and I can't wear the work ones to a party (too boring). Does anyone else have a wardrobe full of 'one-hit wonders'? What is the one thing you'd change about your 'best' dress to actually make it wearable for your normal life?

For me, it’s always the length or the sleeves—it's either too short for a meeting, too long for a night out, or sleeves are to covered for a cocktail dress or not enough.

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bridgetreilly · 05/03/2026 18:35

This very good boy agrees and would like to point out that cats have no sense of style.

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
SofiaLePrince · 05/03/2026 18:38

Outfits to take you from day to night/from the office to the nightclub etc were much discussed in the 90s and 00s, but (imo) rarely actually required. I don't remember ever doing this tbh!

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 05/03/2026 18:39

Grey never goes out of fashion.

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:40

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 05/03/2026 18:39

Grey never goes out of fashion.

No it doesn’t! Wow! Gorgeous!

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 05/03/2026 18:41

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:40

No it doesn’t! Wow! Gorgeous!

Sybil passes on her thanks 😺

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/03/2026 18:42

bridgetreilly · 05/03/2026 18:35

This very good boy agrees and would like to point out that cats have no sense of style.

He’s very charming, but cats don’t need a sense of style. It’s instinctive & effortless.

I’ve never gone straight from work to a wedding.

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:44

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 05/03/2026 18:41

Sybil passes on her thanks 😺

Amazing name for an amazing feline. So, so ‘paw’jus!

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/03/2026 18:47

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:40

No it doesn’t! Wow! Gorgeous!

Since you missed your birthday, @Arlanymor, & were so complimentary to Kitty, I sounded the klaxon in the Litter Tray board. You can never have too many cats in a thread.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/03/2026 18:47

minipie · 05/03/2026 18:10

There’s been a few “how do I do day to evening” threads recently which makes me a bit suspicious someone is advertising or launching a business.

Pleased to see the MN nest of vipers turning it into a thread about cats.

Came to say the same! Staying for the pussy....

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:52

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/03/2026 18:47

Since you missed your birthday, @Arlanymor, & were so complimentary to Kitty, I sounded the klaxon in the Litter Tray board. You can never have too many cats in a thread.

You are THE best! Thank you! I am heading there right now! Aww, thanks so much! Xxx

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 18:59

Loving all the cats so much… here’s my teapot and my mum’s cat being unsure about his new neighbour…

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 19:24

@Grumpyoldpersonwithcats

I also very much appreciate your cat names. If you had a third it would be either Manual or Polly, right?! (Are they Maine Coons? So stunning).

SpanThatWorld · 05/03/2026 19:43

A tuxedo is always appropriate. See my very smart boy modelling his.

FWIW, I own one dress which occasionally comes out when I have a reason to go to synagogue.

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
EmpressaurusKitty · 05/03/2026 19:43

Arlanymor · 05/03/2026 19:24

@Grumpyoldpersonwithcats

I also very much appreciate your cat names. If you had a third it would be either Manual or Polly, right?! (Are they Maine Coons? So stunning).

Actually his other two are Lenny and Karl!

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 05/03/2026 19:45

@Arlanymor
Basil and Sybil are Battersea rescue moggies, their 15th birthday was a couple of days ago (3rd March).
If I had any more cats I expect they'd be called Karl and Lenny 🤣

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
RumNotRun · 05/03/2026 20:00

Frankie says you can never go wrong with a sleek black outfit.

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Pixiedust1234 · 05/03/2026 20:24

This thread is too funny 😂

Wish I could post pictures of mine but she's hidden her best fur inside the teepee (which might be equivalent to a work desk?).

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/03/2026 21:19

Pixiedust1234 · 05/03/2026 20:24

This thread is too funny 😂

Wish I could post pictures of mine but she's hidden her best fur inside the teepee (which might be equivalent to a work desk?).

I wonder if the OP will be back?

Pudmyboy · 06/03/2026 18:03

It doesn't matter what you wear, it's how you carry yourself, elegance can take you far

Tired of carrying my evening outfit in a bag under my desk!
Luckylu123 · 07/03/2026 07:25

minipie · 05/03/2026 18:10

There’s been a few “how do I do day to evening” threads recently which makes me a bit suspicious someone is advertising or launching a business.

Pleased to see the MN nest of vipers turning it into a thread about cats.

I think it’s because this generation don’t get the advice from magazines about how to go from day to night

Usernamenotav · 10/03/2026 19:33

I dont understand this at all. Why are you going to weddings straight after work and why wouldn't you want to get changed?

I dont wear black tie attire to work either. I wouldn't expect to.

Maybe I'm missing something

EmpressaurusKitty · 10/03/2026 19:35

Usernamenotav · 10/03/2026 19:33

I dont understand this at all. Why are you going to weddings straight after work and why wouldn't you want to get changed?

I dont wear black tie attire to work either. I wouldn't expect to.

Maybe I'm missing something

Edited

You might never find out. The OP hasn’t been back since the cats got involved.

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