Nc for this, blended family, moved in with step dad and his children at the age of 4, his children a lot older, say 14-22 years old, was a challenge, I was always just his girlfriends daughter, fast forward 44 years to where I am now
older SB 14 years older, tried to kiss me at dads (his dad my sd) 60th birthday, his wife walked in and disturbed him, just as I was crying saying they didn’t think of me as a sister, I was early 20s. I had had a drink but remember it clear ad day
few weeks later at dads retirement do, he was sat rubbing my leg under the table and paid for me a room at the hotel where the do was, I didn’t stay in that room, let my other SS have it, I didn’t know if he was going to turn up, stayed in someone else’s room
ive distanced this man from my life, over the few years after, whenever I went over with boyfriend or after that husband, snide remarks, muttering under breath, not seen him in 13 years, rest of family think sun shines out of his arse
i did try and tell my mum and SD once and it was dismissed, oh ‘it’s quandary’ is looking for attention or she’s had a bottle of wine again, I have adhd and some trauma and I’m struggling with wine because it’s the only way I can block shit out, I’m working on it, at the time of this happening, I drank maybe once twice a week
Anyway there’s dementia stuff going on with parents and he’s getting more involved (from a distance he lives miles away) but I want to scream at my Step brothers and sisters what he did and I don’t know if I should?
I know it’s a long post and thank you for anyone who is still with me here but I want to tell them that the brother they think the sun shines his arse , but then should I leave it to keep the peace? I really do not want anything to do with him