To be fair to VA I don’t know if they have changed their policy since I left for Bannatyne, but they were allowing people to use the facilities they preferred. I wrote to their GC to explain that they can and should be using the single sex exemption and didn’t even get a reply.
so, you might want to consider whether you feel safe using their facilities, and whether a company with such a cavalier disregard for safeguarding is one whose crèche you feel safe using.