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FML, it's no wonder the NHS has no money.

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Topplace · 25/02/2026 19:05

I have an issue that is causing me a lot of pain. I know what it is and I know what the treatment is. I've tried all the self management techniques, but I'm still in significant pain and it's been affecting sleep for 3 months now.

I know it's not serious or urgent but it is having significant impact on my quality of life.

I hardly ever use the NHS (touch wood) and being a responsible citizen, checked my GP's website and used their e-consult form to send all the details of what's happened to date, and ask for help.

They text back with an appointment at their "sister surgery" in the evening a few days later. I didn't ask for or want an urgent or out of hours appointment, that's what I was given. TBH I assumed it was extended hours rather than OOH iyswim.

I've been tonight to be told that the doctor (?) doesn't think it can be treated on the NHS but that I should see my GP to check.

So a complete waste of everyone's time and money, when they had all the information he's asked for tonight already. And now I have to start again and try and get a GP appointment, which is what I thought I'd already done.

I know it will be process etc, but what a wasteful process. The cynic in me thinks it might be a way of manipulating figures to show people get appointments within so many days, even if theyre no appropriate appointments.

What does an unnecessary and pointless OOH appointment cost the NHS?

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BringBackCatsEyes · 26/02/2026 20:30

Octavia64 · 26/02/2026 19:20

Gp didn’t beleive her at first.

five months in she and my daughter came to visit and I could see it wasn’t right and there was no way it was anxiety.

I sat down with her and did a list of her symptoms and told her the right medical words to use and he did finally do a referral then.

the wait to be seen even for urgent cases which they have categorised her as is eight months.

she cannot afford nor can parents afford private treatment.

I’m stlll don’t understand the time line.
When did she get the scan? After referral or before?
Does she have a diagnosis but no follow up appointment for 8 months?
I honestly had no idea things were that bad.

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