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Leave Nursing ?

85 replies

ohsotired2022 · 25/02/2026 08:26

I’m 47.
I’ve been a Nurse for over 20 years.
I’ve worked in hospital settings. Community. Health Visiting and School Nursing.

On my Pension Statement it says my Normal Pension Age is 60 as I stated before May 2006.

I’m staying so that I can retire somewhere between 55-60.

I hate it though but worry if I leave I will regret that I walked away from a good pension.

I also don’t know what else I could do.

I have applied for other jobs outwith the NHS and never get an Interview

I even applied for one of the PIP assessor jobs although I hear mixed things but got knocked back.

Would I be Unreasonable to stay for the Pension?

OP posts:
Zanatdy · 26/02/2026 06:09

How about moving into the civil service? They also have a great pension. We have lots of ex teachers / nurses join.

ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 07:55

Thanks @rainandshine38I do feel torn between walking away and holding onto my Registration
Did you complete a Masters to become a Lecturer?
do you still hold your Nursing Registration?

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rainandshine38 · 26/02/2026 08:01

@ohsotired2022i started teaching in FE. I did bank work at spire on side. Then I moved into an HE job after I started my Masters ( but I hadn’t completed at that point). You need a current NMC registration to teach on nursing programmes. ( unless you are a biologist or some other specialist they have teaching science etc)

ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 08:59

Thanks @Zanatdy
Do you search for Civil Service on Local Council Website? What sort of job are ex nurse and teachers doing?

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ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 09:00

Thanks @sashhwill have a look at the FE colleges websites

OP posts:
MSJ14 · 26/02/2026 10:43

Your never too old <3

DemonsandMosquitoes · 26/02/2026 13:26

I’ve only stayed for the pension but am lucky to have SCS and will be gone at 55 by the end of the year. I will be so glad to be out. I work in general practice, lots of PN’s coming up for retirement. It’s hideous at times.

WinterNightStars · 26/02/2026 14:30

Im only biding my time to retire too. I’m 54 now, started nursing in 1990 & I’m just done with it. Unfortunately I don’t have SCS as I had 8 years out working in private sector. DH & I are definitely hoping to retire in next few years. I was v poorly last year & almost didn’t make it so brings a very different perspective. I’ve also heard awful things about the PIP roles too. I’m currently a practice nurse.

FakeTwix · 26/02/2026 15:15

Zanatdy · 26/02/2026 06:09

How about moving into the civil service? They also have a great pension. We have lots of ex teachers / nurses join.

What roles do they do?

TheHouse · 26/02/2026 16:36

Try PIP assessor. My sisters done it for over a decade but the turnover is very high. Most people hate it. But you never know?

MrsBenevolent · 26/02/2026 17:12

TheHouse · 26/02/2026 16:36

Try PIP assessor. My sisters done it for over a decade but the turnover is very high. Most people hate it. But you never know?

We covered this earlier on. And as an ex assessor I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

OP isn't eligible either as is an RSCN. You have to be an adult (RGN) or MH nurse.

TheHouse · 26/02/2026 17:26

@MrsBenevolent

Fair enough then the OP couldn’t apply. My sisters done it for a decade though. It isn’t all that bad for some people clearly.

Teresa3349 · 26/02/2026 17:29

I was lucky enough to retire with a reduced pension at 57 and then worked part time until 61 . Now fully retired.And loving life There were soo many times I wanted to leave as the job was soo stressful. Just leaving the stressful environment and finding a job in another specialty worked for me . And I ended up with loads of transferable skills . Have you thought about freezing your pension ? Idk if you can leave the NHS pension for up to 2 yrs without adversely affecting your pension.
Best Of luck

ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:23

@MrsBenevolentI could apply for PIP as I’’m dual trained and also MH, RCN and SCPHN plus 1 year as Family Nurse.
I’ve completely worked my way down 🤦‍♀️
I see people I trained with years ago who have just kept climbing up whereas I’ve side stepped then down due to demands of my family.
I am torn as to whether I would like PIP
or not. Have heard people saying both good and bad but think more bad.

I also checked out one the NHS 24 post advertised earlier and I can’t apply as you need to be Adult trained which I’m not. Sometimes wish I had done Adult instead, as more options. I chose Children’s Nursing as my Goal was to be a Health Visitor so thought this would be a good route to do down.

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ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:24

@Teresa3349Glad you found a role that felt right and now you can enjoy your retirement 😊

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ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:26

@DemonsandMosquitoesdefinitely nearly there ! That must be a nice feeling that all your hard work will be worth it soon. Hope this year goes by calmly for you.

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ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:27

@WinterNightStars ahh that is frustrating that you lost your SCS status.
I’m sure you can still retire between 55-60 but just with penalties for taking early?

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Gettingbysomehow · 26/02/2026 19:30

I couldnt do nursing anymore it was gruelling. I gave up at 45 and did podiatry. You can do a 2 year msc course now.
I did the 3 year and worked in nursing homes during the holidays to pay my mortgage.
We do 9 to 5 no weekends, no bank holidays, lots of annual leave and very fast career progression. You could be a band 7 after a year. None of this sitting on band 5 for years like nurses.
A lot of us do half ptivate and half NHS.
I once earned 10k in one month doing private work.
I cant undwrstand why anyone sticks nursing especially at 40 plus.

ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:40

This sounds amazing @Gettingbysomehow
well done getting out and finding a role that works for you.
…..off to Google Podiatry

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WinterNightStars · 26/02/2026 20:52

ohsotired2022 · 26/02/2026 19:27

@WinterNightStars ahh that is frustrating that you lost your SCS status.
I’m sure you can still retire between 55-60 but just with penalties for taking early?

I can still take it from 55 but with reductions so hopefully won’t affect our plans too much. DH can get his pension at 55 & I have a pension from my short stint in private sector. As a pp said there are lots of practice nurses due to retire & holding out for pension. Unfortunately we get paid significantly less than hospital nurses too so no incentive to stay.

WinterNightStars · 26/02/2026 20:53

DemonsandMosquitoes · 26/02/2026 13:26

I’ve only stayed for the pension but am lucky to have SCS and will be gone at 55 by the end of the year. I will be so glad to be out. I work in general practice, lots of PN’s coming up for retirement. It’s hideous at times.

I’m a PN too & agree, if really is awful some days. Coupled with the poor pay & conditions there’s no reason to stay longer than necessary.

Pherian · 26/02/2026 22:16

ohsotired2022 · 25/02/2026 08:26

I’m 47.
I’ve been a Nurse for over 20 years.
I’ve worked in hospital settings. Community. Health Visiting and School Nursing.

On my Pension Statement it says my Normal Pension Age is 60 as I stated before May 2006.

I’m staying so that I can retire somewhere between 55-60.

I hate it though but worry if I leave I will regret that I walked away from a good pension.

I also don’t know what else I could do.

I have applied for other jobs outwith the NHS and never get an Interview

I even applied for one of the PIP assessor jobs although I hear mixed things but got knocked back.

Would I be Unreasonable to stay for the Pension?

Can you live off £241 a week ? Because you don’t have enough years to build up a sizeable pension elsewhere.

TwinTeensMum · 27/02/2026 00:31

are you an adults nurse or children’s nurse? Have you thought of switching? Or going back to school or community nursing or GP surgery’s nurse?

Thesleepycat · 27/02/2026 09:55

Have you thought of applying to GP practices - the nurses at mine seem happy. Always get Christmas new year etc off. And it’s sociable hours - no nights or weekends- no idea what the salary is like. Or if you’d be fed up doing smear tests, immunisations etc I’m guessing there is less variety

Toddlerteaplease · 27/02/2026 09:57

What about moving to the CQC?

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