As always its along story my friend and I have been good friends for 10 years plus and seen each other through some rough times ¨
Anyway the last couple of years Ive felt its been me doing the running ,phoning to keep it going Last year i was her bridesmaid which we flew over for as we live abroad I felt like it was a huge honour.to be asked. At the wedding the groom came over and said listen to my speech when i do it.WTF Anyway to try cut it short he mentioned everybody but me the people who had travelled from x,y,z and those who had travelled down the road.He thanked the best man the groomsmen etc etc.But not me O.K its not a big deal but when he sat down he winked at me.Didnt realize he did^nt like me
Anyway my friend never phones me as she works and is now 5 mths pregnant.I aM SAHM she says I have more time
When I do phone her at work (self employed) her dh tells her to get of the phone as its me.She laughs and says she needs to go
The longest weve gone not speaking is about 3 weeks and then I feel guilty and phone to which she says I knew you phone me first
Got so pissed off I thought f**k it
Well its been 6 weeks since we last spoke and I don`t know what to do
She has spoken to a mutual friend(who has the same issues with her you have to always phone her)Asking if I was alright
Now I know her DH pissed me off but thats not got anything to do with her and I.
Do I phone her or leave it which means when I see her when I come back to the U:K it will be awkward
If I told her she would say I was being dramatic and shes been busy well so have I BUT I do try and make time for phoning friends
Am I being Dramatic????