Fed up

[Sofedup91]

So me and ex have a 2 year old together. We are constantly arguing as I wont allow our child round his as a family member who is living with ex as he was accused of sa one of his children and was arrested etc. This has been ongoing since 2024. ( i dont know much about it only what my ex has told me) Anyway he was on bail for a year then wasnt charged with anything but he still isnt allowed to live with his wife or children as social services are still involved. Now my ex is constantly moaning that he wants our child round his for contact and overnight contact. Which i wont allow. He doesnt understand why. He thinks im being totally unreasonable as he wasnt charged with anything. I havent stopped contact completely ex can take him out whenever and can come see child at mine whenever too.

You are definitely not being unreasonable.

Have you contacted to the police and explained the situation and that your partner is pushing for your child to be sleeping in the same house as this person? They may be able to offer more information or advice on the situation.

I would contact social services tbh.

If you allow this to happen, social care will become involved with your child too. Safeguarding is more important than your ex showing off .

What does he think about having his child live under the same roof as a sa offender??

Thanks everyone. I will contact ss. Ex doesnt seem bothered at all about family member being there as he doesnt believe he did anything and that the younng girl is lying and so does the rest of the family and have all disowned the victim (which i find extremely weird to not to believe a child) and the fact ex thinks its ok is just so bizarre . Yes ive told him what SS would say if i was to let child round there but he still doesnt see an issue