Basically I was in a long term relationship with my ex finance for over 10 years and had 2 kids who are under 5.
He was very nice and loving the first few years and even proposed marriage to me with a ring.
It all changed when his long lost brother came onto the scene.
Was out all the time with his brother, dropped everything for him at a drop of a hat.
Im not joking when I say this, his whole world resolved around him.
All he would do is talk about his brother, and he even told me he would always love his brother more than me.
Plans always were centred around his brothers life.
His brother is awful.
Multiple kids with various women.
Drug abuse issues.
Anyway it's all gone tits up between them as my ex was talking his brothers business to peoplez
He was telling his work mates about his brothers HMRC investigation for tax evasion and it could only be him as he was the only one who was aware of it.
It was all on Facebook apparently.
Now they have fallen out and it's been months since they spoken my ex came to me at the weekend about a reconciliation.
I declined.
He was awful to me in the relationship towards the end.
Verbal abuse.
He would say things like "If I had a decent women I would be spending New Year's Eve with her instead of going out with my brother".
I was relieved and happy when I finally kicked him out and changed the locks and never looked back.
Now his reasoning his I'm the love of his life and he wants to try again for the kids sake.
He says he has changed.
I already sold the engagement ring, burned all the cards he gave me.