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John Davidson shouting the N word during the BAFTAS

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Crawse · 23/02/2026 10:02

John Davidson has Tourettes and is a campaigner for the condition. Whist Michale B Jordan and Delroy Lindo were presenting he shouted out the racial slur. It’s extremely uncomfortable to watch. I feel terrible for the two presenters. I’m really conflicted on this one.

What are your thoughts?

No one should be subjected to abuse. That is my bottom line. Maybe the fact I was called P*** (I’m half Indian) growing up has influenced my views. I obviously recognise Tourette’s is involuntary.

https://edition.cnn.com/2026/02/22/entertainment/baftas-2026-tourettes-racist-slur

British acting awards interrupted by racist slur from man with Tourette Syndrome | CNN

At Sunday night’s BAFTA ceremony in London, a man yelled a racist slur as two of the world’s most celebrated Black actors, Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo, presented an award on stage.

https://edition.cnn.com/2026/02/22/entertainment/baftas-2026-tourettes-racist-slur

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nomas · 23/02/2026 15:16

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:12

So;

  1. don’t approach black people (in case of n word)
  2. don’t approach women (in case of c word)
  3. don’t approach children (in case of p word)
  4. don’t approach men (in case of being hospitalised again)
  5. don’t approach anyone (in case of anything)
  6. do live alone lonely, isolated (maybe in a basement)

If you (general you) know you’re going to be triggered to call people who don’t know you ‘N””””’ and ‘P”””””, yes, you should briefly step out.

That doesn’t mean confining yourself to a basement.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 23/02/2026 15:16

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:11

If you read the thread, there are people saying that even on a black woman’s wedding day, she should invite someone with TS who may call her the N word on her wedding day, if not, she would be discriminating against them.

Those are the attitudes being discussed here, not John’s.

If she knows them well enough to invite them to her wedding she would know them well enough to have a proper grown up chat ( remember those?) with the person and come to a mutual agreement.

itsthetea · 23/02/2026 15:17

I do think the choice not to broadcast should have been made give it clearly was a choice - unlike johns outburst

all Blame and all apologies should only be expected from the BBC not from John

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:17

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:09

The intent doesn’t matter, black people can absolutely remove themselves away from a TS sufferer that is upsetting them by calling them the N word.

Yeah fine, they can leave if they’re ignorant enough to not understand

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 15:17

BAFTA and the BBC failed in their duty of care/ safeguarding and they should take all the heat.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:17

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:14

If a black women likes someone enough to invite them to her wedding, you’d assume she understands the fact they have Tourette’s and wouldn’t take offence

The point is people are saying she would be discriminatory not to invite them, even if they were to call her the N word.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 15:18

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:07

Bleating about intention just makes you sound like a broken record. We all know it wasn’t intentional.

But read the room and don’t approach someone who is going to trigger you to say the N word to them.

He's going to potentially tic at every single person he meets in life. What do you expect him to do?

Ihatetomatoes · 23/02/2026 15:18

JonesTown · 23/02/2026 10:04

It seems like a lot of people still need to watch I Swear to see how this debilitating condition affects John’s life.

Disappointing to see so many people who advocate diversity and inclusion in other areas who seem to think he should be shut out of a ceremony where a film that is literally about him has won awards.

This @Crawse Tourettes is a recognised disability.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:18

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:16

If you (general you) know you’re going to be triggered to call people who don’t know you ‘N””””’ and ‘P”””””, yes, you should briefly step out.

That doesn’t mean confining yourself to a basement.

So, he should live where? And never go to the shop?

Maybe only live in a predominately white area in case he sees a black person on his nip to the cafe for some breakfast?

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:18

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:17

Yeah fine, they can leave if they’re ignorant enough to not understand

It’s not ignorant to not want to be in a situation where you may be called ‘n””””’, no matter how involuntary.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/02/2026 15:19

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:16

If you (general you) know you’re going to be triggered to call people who don’t know you ‘N””””’ and ‘P”””””, yes, you should briefly step out.

That doesn’t mean confining yourself to a basement.

He doesn’t know how his tics are going to manifest. He can hardly live his life avoiding everyone/everything in case he might say x, y, z.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 23/02/2026 15:19

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:18

It’s not ignorant to not want to be in a situation where you may be called ‘n””””’, no matter how involuntary.

Then the onus is on you to remove yourself from the situation if you're going to go through life being offended by people's disabilities.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:20

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:18

It’s not ignorant to not want to be in a situation where you may be called ‘n””””’, no matter how involuntary.

But he can’t avoid all people all the time.

Or is it just black people you’re bothered about? I think that’s maybe the crux here. You’re only going on about black people being offended.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 15:18

He's going to potentially tic at every single person he meets in life. What do you expect him to do?

Of course he’s going to tic, and people will rightly treat that with understanding.

That doesn’t mean people can’t suggest ways forward for awards ceremonies.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/02/2026 15:19

He doesn’t know how his tics are going to manifest. He can hardly live his life avoiding everyone/everything in case he might say x, y, z.

But if he knows seeing black people at an awards show is a trigger, then stepping out for 5 minutes is hardly a huge hardship.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:22

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

Of course he’s going to tic, and people will rightly treat that with understanding.

That doesn’t mean people can’t suggest ways forward for awards ceremonies.

Oooh, you’re just worried about people being offended at award ceremonies?? Right, got it….

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 15:23

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

Of course he’s going to tic, and people will rightly treat that with understanding.

That doesn’t mean people can’t suggest ways forward for awards ceremonies.

I really doubt this is going to be an ongoing issue at awards ceremonies.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:23

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 23/02/2026 15:19

Then the onus is on you to remove yourself from the situation if you're going to go through life being offended by people's disabilities.

There are people on this thread who have said black people just have to suck it up.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:23

clickthat · 23/02/2026 15:22

Oooh, you’re just worried about people being offended at award ceremonies?? Right, got it….

You do get that the event being discussed is an … awards ceremony. Right?

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 15:24

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:23

There are people on this thread who have said black people just have to suck it up.

Edited

Understand that it was a tic and not an intentional slur, yes. That's the non-ableist, adult approach.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/02/2026 15:25

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

But if he knows seeing black people at an awards show is a trigger, then stepping out for 5 minutes is hardly a huge hardship.

Five minutes?! Or black people (seeing as you’re only bothered about them) could look up Tourette’s and educate themselves on tics, and choose not to attend if they feel those tics would be too much to
deal with (which may or may not happen, JD has no control over this for the millionth time).

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:27

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/02/2026 15:25

Five minutes?! Or black people (seeing as you’re only bothered about them) could look up Tourette’s and educate themselves on tics, and choose not to attend if they feel those tics would be too much to
deal with (which may or may not happen, JD has no control over this for the millionth time).

Better to step out tor 5 minutes rather than leave the event entirely as John did.

Tekknonan · 23/02/2026 15:28

Crawse · 23/02/2026 10:11

Like I said I’m extremely conflicted. I feel very sorry for the black actors for being subject to racial abuse. Maybe non-poc won’t understand how terrible that feels. They were abused. Intentionally or unintentionally.

Edited

This is where you misunderstand Tourette's. They weren't abused. You can say that maybe non-poc people won't understand, and I agree that if you have never been on the receiving and of racial abuse, it's hard to understand how dreadful it is; but if you don't have Tourette's, you have no idea how awful it is to have your tics described as abusive, even as unintentional abuse.

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:28

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 15:24

Understand that it was a tic and not an intentional slur, yes. That's the non-ableist, adult approach.

It goes way beyond that, to people telling black people that they can’t put themselves first, even on their wedding day.

itsthetea · 23/02/2026 15:28

nomas · 23/02/2026 15:21

But if he knows seeing black people at an awards show is a trigger, then stepping out for 5 minutes is hardly a huge hardship.

Demonstrating your cluelessness about tourettes

the only way John can avoid offending or upsetting people if they are determined to take offence at a tik is to avoid all people at all times. No train just in case , no bus, no supermarket, no pub no club no gym nowhere

for something he can’t control

we can control how offended and upset we get at most things

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