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Is living on the state pension really that bad?

717 replies

cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

OP posts:
Charlize43 · 21/02/2026 16:13

Karistyleaftea · 21/02/2026 16:10

Top ranking European pensions - shown in euros
1 Iceland 35,959
2 Luxembourg 31,835
3 Norway 30,879
4 Denmark 30,211
5 Switzerland 27,010

Way down the list is UK £11,973

These are all cold countries that require a lot of heating in winter.

Do you have any sunny climes?

WeepingAngelInTheTardis · 21/02/2026 16:14

If you’ve always lived off benefits youll be fine as your used to penny pinching. If you’ve lived a luxurious lifestyle then it will be difficult.

Hayfield123 · 21/02/2026 16:17

My dad lives on his state pension. Owns a house and still drives. His house needs a new roof really and there is no way he can afford that. He’d 90 and in very good health, but not good enough to do the roof himself anymore. There is very little left over and as a tradesman wasn’t in the right environment to consider private pensions. He also feels the cold so heating is a worry.

Karistyleaftea · 21/02/2026 16:17

@Charlize43 The UK particularly in the northern regions and especially Scotland are not particularly warm countries.

Chesterdrawss · 21/02/2026 16:17

Julen7 · 21/02/2026 09:32

Car related expenses if still driving….

Dentist,
hairdresser,
optician,
podiatrist

Pddn · 21/02/2026 16:18

I have to admit I agree with this. Pensions are the highest welfare spending in the country. The state pension is unsustainable. Makes sense to transition to a time where people are made to save up for their own retirement with private pensions. People actually work and make a plan to have savings in the future.

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 16:20

You need to consider if you have savings.

We've never had dental insurance because on balance it's been better value to pay for anything and we can afford to.

However, if you want to use a private dentist the fees are high- this year we have paid over £500 in one month for small fillings, a re-filling and hygienists.

We can afford this but if you're on a low budge you need to factor this in too.

Boomer55 · 21/02/2026 16:21

Advocodo · 21/02/2026 10:28

I agree. Let’s hope they don’t take it away.

Anywhere in England? I get free travel in London, but free travel doesn’t go everywhere.🤷‍♀️.

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 16:22

Boomer55 · 21/02/2026 16:21

Anywhere in England? I get free travel in London, but free travel doesn’t go everywhere.🤷‍♀️.

It does with a bus pass if you're over 60.

Ponoka7 · 21/02/2026 16:27

Moonlightfrog · 21/02/2026 15:53

I wouldn’t be able to manage on £250, I guess if there’s 2 of you it maybe easier living off £500 a week but I am in my own and will likely stay that way. I do pay into a private pension but I am not sure that’s really going to benefit me as it’s not a huge amount (hopefully I can increase it at some point).

I don’t own my own home so will need to pay rent and all my bills. I don’t want to be living in Tesco value beans in my retirement 😬.

You'll get your rent paid. There might be new build, over 55 housing, available. That puts housing costs down. Too much private pension and it just means less housing benefit.

I don't see struggling pensioners, I'm not saying there aren't any, but there's enough free lunch, events etc schemes, free bus pass, that they get out and about and can afford a Spain holiday. Most pensioners don't want the holidays that posters think they will. Cruises are expensive, of course. It's a matter of luck what's available in your area. Then there's those who have had children in their 40's, which means you may need to still support your child. The advantage of always being poor, means you aren't used to shopping at Hobbs and holidaying in the Maldives. So you can get by.

Fleetheart · 21/02/2026 16:33

Ballondoor · 21/02/2026 09:14

Gosh yes because old people only really need food and shelter. Everything else that makes life worth living is just wasted on them.

it’s not that, but the pension was intended to give us the means to survive when we couldn’t work. Everything else is over to us.

Fleetheart · 21/02/2026 16:35

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 16:22

It does with a bus pass if you're over 60.

unfortunately not; it’s state pension age most places

AnybodyAnywhere · 21/02/2026 16:38

You can live on the State Pension as long as everything is trouble free. It’s not so simple when you need to replace appliances, maintain a vehicle or need costly house repairs.
All fine if you have substantial savings but life can become very difficult very quickly if you haven’t.

SmudgeButt · 21/02/2026 16:39

Doable, just. And then the oven/frig/boiler needs to be fixed/replaced.

Ihatetomatoes · 21/02/2026 16:40

Hayfield123 · 21/02/2026 16:17

My dad lives on his state pension. Owns a house and still drives. His house needs a new roof really and there is no way he can afford that. He’d 90 and in very good health, but not good enough to do the roof himself anymore. There is very little left over and as a tradesman wasn’t in the right environment to consider private pensions. He also feels the cold so heating is a worry.

An option might be equity release. An amount enough to sort the roof, so he can continue to live there in comfort.

Cashmereclothing · 21/02/2026 16:41

Then there's those who have had children in their 40's, which means you may need to still support your child

If your child is almost 30 there is no need to support them. Prioritise your own old age. Not selfish but sensible. Kids who refuse to to act like adults are destroying their parents lives.

aLFIESMA · 21/02/2026 16:46

The area in which you live, the facilities and shops, libraries, clubs and transport links not to mention easy access to healthcare have (I believe) much more of an effect on your general well being as you age.
To live somewhere remote without a shop or anywhere to socialise if you can no longer drive would be severely limiting and cost a fortune in taxis.
My retired friend has moved to a village where the bus route and shop closed down after 2 months of her moving there.

Julen7 · 21/02/2026 16:47

Chesterdrawss · 21/02/2026 16:17

Dentist,
hairdresser,
optician,
podiatrist

Yes, all expensive. DM’s monthly podiatry is a significant cost.

ThisJadeBear · 21/02/2026 16:48

Ballondoor · 21/02/2026 09:14

Gosh yes because old people only really need food and shelter. Everything else that makes life worth living is just wasted on them.

I agree. My next big birthday is 60 and I’m wondering why they don’t just put us all down.
Seriously, I see so many posts on here about what people have in pension pots.
As if someone doesn’t have one they are told to get a better job.
A huge proportion of the working population will never have a decent pension scheme, or one at all. So the state pension may be able they have some after working for five decades.

Augustus40 · 21/02/2026 16:50

I pay the private dental ins £21 pcm.

I seldom need a podiatrist and cut my own hair.

BMW6 · 21/02/2026 16:52

Boomer55 · 21/02/2026 16:21

Anywhere in England? I get free travel in London, but free travel doesn’t go everywhere.🤷‍♀️.

Yes, anywhere in England using the buses local to that area - not coaches obviously.

You have to be State Pension age and you apply for the bus pass at your Council offices.

Travel is time restricted - I think after 9.30am but I may be wrong.

So for instance, I live in Southampton so could get buses to Portsmouth, New Forest, Romsey, Salisbury etc. I could then get buses from there further away, throughout England.

The downside is the journey times because of all the stops, but Gift Horse in The Mouth and all that 😁

gostickyourheadinapig · 21/02/2026 16:53

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 21/02/2026 09:29

But did you pay enough in to cover your living expenses for another 30 years? If you think about it, that’s a lot. Assuming people go to uni, as so many do, that’s working from 22-67- 45 years. Then living another 30 when you aren’t earning… did you really pay 33% of your income into your pension to cover the 1/3 of your adulthood when you aren’t going to earn?

30 years? I bloody hope not! How many people live to be 97, or would want to?

QueenBee749 · 21/02/2026 16:55

I'm 51 and husband 60 - neither of us have any private pensions worth a great deal, probably 50k between us if that. But we live a good life now. Personally I don't see the point of paying money into a private pension when you may never see any of it (if i'd worked a normal job all my life I probably would have done just this but I haven't, i'm self employed and it was something that passed me by til it was too late to make any great difference). There's a group on FB called Epic Retirement with some ridiculous figures talked about - but I don't want an epic retirement, i'm happy with my epic life thanks :) We have always said, if we get to the age of 70 and we are sitting in our house eating beans on toast then so be it - the previous 50 years would have been amazing! We have heard of too many people not making retirement for us to worry about it.

Storynanny1 · 21/02/2026 16:57

SparklyGlitterballs · 21/02/2026 16:04

You can’t count on there always being two of you to cover expenses tho. My DH developed cancer and died within 18 months so I have to cover everything myself now.

I know, it’s a frightening prospect. I’m sorry you lost your husband.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 21/02/2026 17:03

gostickyourheadinapig · 21/02/2026 16:53

30 years? I bloody hope not! How many people live to be 97, or would want to?

Are you sure?
3 of our 4 parents are in their late 80s and show no signs of nearing the end. They are as I remember my grandparents being in their 60s. People tend to spend a lot of years with poor health, and ours aren’t really there yet. FiL will be 90 soon and has reached the ‘happy in his chair with the tv’ stage. No actual ill health, just frailer than he was. Mil would be out on bus trips and shopping every day if she could find someone to take her. She’s only 86 though. DM is still driving, going to events, shops, theatre etc. Short of a sudden severe illness, none of them are going anywhere for a few years yet.