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Commute to work so much shorter when schools are off

111 replies

Ifo · 20/02/2026 12:51

I believe that traffic levels have gone up since parents were able to choose which school their DCs go to. Parents apply without thinking about how their DC get to school. Yes car.

It’s half term here and my journey to work during term time is 1 hour - 1 hour 10 mins. This week, I left home 15 minutes later and arrive 10 mins earlier than the ETA upon leaving.

This is even with more people doing hybrid/WFH.

i think admission policy should revert back to postcodes. Except for in DC with severe SEND.

OP posts:
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/02/2026 13:03

Well add to that that on the small local bus in our area sometimes it’s packed (so you can’t get on) with school children. A few would travel from far away but the ones who can walk are just lazy imo. When I was younger there was no free travel, you walked or if you had money you got the bus. You could also travel a few stops (short hop) for free.

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:04

When I was younger there was no free travel, you walked or if you had money you got the bus. You could also travel a few stops (short hop) for free

So there was free travel! 😂

MrThorpeHazell · 20/02/2026 13:05

I agree commutes are shorter in school holidays but that has been the case (IME) sine the late 1990s.

Parents being able to select their schools has nothing to do with it.

TheRealMagic · 20/02/2026 13:06

Why don't we have a rule that all kids go to their closest school and all adults must work within cycling distance of their home? That way none of the problem you outline would exist!

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:08

I want other people to not use their car, so it’s easier for me to use my car

Reminds me of the Covid threads; “i was driving to work today & the roads were packed, don’t people understand it’s a pandemic” or “I went to the supermarket & the queue was so long, there’s a pandemic”.

I despair tbh!

Flamingojune · 20/02/2026 13:09

Its crazy how many people drive their kids to school without looking at other options, its the highest percentage its ever been compared to previous generations. It seems like such a stressful way to start the day.

Coconutter24 · 20/02/2026 13:10

SilenceInside · 20/02/2026 13:03

@ifoyou don’t want them on the bus either? Harsh. I doubt it’s the majority of those who attend those schools, but you will get some who live further away. Various reasons why, moving house after starting, being allocated that school due to other schools being full, and possibly because it was the parent’s preference and there were places available. Although that’s the least likely imo.

Op didn’t say she doesn’t want them on the bus, I think they were pointing out the distance children travel by mentioning seeing kids on the bus

TheRealMagic · 20/02/2026 13:10

Flamingojune · 20/02/2026 13:09

Its crazy how many people drive their kids to school without looking at other options, its the highest percentage its ever been compared to previous generations. It seems like such a stressful way to start the day.

Do you honestly, really think that people drive their kids to school because they've never considered that there could be another option? As opposed to not finding any of those other options as practical?

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/02/2026 13:11

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:04

When I was younger there was no free travel, you walked or if you had money you got the bus. You could also travel a few stops (short hop) for free

So there was free travel! 😂

Yeah but not for an hour long or half hour journey.

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:12

@Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain an hour journey in London is completely normal for many secondary dc on public transport!

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:13

You think a 30 min journey to secondary is extremely?! JFC

SilenceInside · 20/02/2026 13:14

@Coconutter24 I know, I was being flippant, it probably needed a <flippant> to be clear...

Yes, secondary school children will get the bus, and may be going to a school that requires a bus or car journey, and that is very likely to have been the nearest school on their preference list that they met the admissions criteria for. Parents do not get a choice, you get one of your preferences, if you are lucky and pragmatic with your preferences, or you get the next nearest school with places left if you don't get any of your preferences.

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:14

Apologies you are talking about free travel!

The fact remains there was free travel!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/02/2026 13:15

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:14

Apologies you are talking about free travel!

The fact remains there was free travel!

Edited

It was a perk admittedly.

waterbobble · 20/02/2026 13:17

Its crazy how many people drive their kids to school without looking at other options, its the highest percentage its ever been compared to previous generations

i wonder if there is a correlation with how many families have both parents working f/t & commute lengths with car usage?

Anonanonanonagain · 20/02/2026 13:17

This is not a new phenomenon, it has always been the case that school holidays mean less traffic. Granted I am not i the UK but I thought this was almost a worldwide thing. Less cars as less kids being dropped off but also no school buses, teachers not having to drive, other school staff not having to drive etc. It has always been the case.

StrawberrySquash · 20/02/2026 13:17

Zivvy · 20/02/2026 12:58

I agree that people should not choose schools further away and add to pollution and global warming.

I think that also applies to commuting though. You want a fancy city job? Live in the city. If you don't want to or can't afford to, get a local job instead.

Neither is what people WANT, which is understandable. But it is what the planet needs.

This is where the individual can do very little. Jobs naturally concentrate in a central area. There simply isn't the square footage available for everyone in those jobs to live nearby. I did once have an office job while living in a suburb, but when I moved I had to start commuting into the city on a Tube.

StormyLandCloud · 20/02/2026 13:19

Why dont you work closer to home? Why should you get precedent on road use? Why should everyone else pay for your convenience?!

goz · 20/02/2026 13:20

Traffic has always been lower when schools are off, this isn’t new.

ChocolateHobbit · 20/02/2026 13:21

It's convenient for me to drive my daughter to school as we live rurally and our village school closed over 10 years ago due to low numbers.

It's a 10 minute drive. No other transport options.
I also drive back home after. Apologies.

goz · 20/02/2026 13:21

So OP’s takeaway is that no one should have much control over the school they use in order for her to work further away. She probably calls other people entitled too.

Quokka2 · 20/02/2026 13:26

Where I live all primaries are within a mile of home, secondaries within a couple of miles, and placements in other schools are very unusual. And the roads are still rammed at primary drop off time (later than secondary) every day except school holidays. I don't drive btw.

Happytaytos · 20/02/2026 13:27

Why are you polluting the roads for 1 hour per journey and not getting a job nearer home?

redskyAtNigh · 20/02/2026 13:28

TheRealMagic · 20/02/2026 13:10

Do you honestly, really think that people drive their kids to school because they've never considered that there could be another option? As opposed to not finding any of those other options as practical?

Yes, an awful lot of parents simply don't consider walking if they have a car.

My DC went to a secondary school that was just under a mile from our house through a residential area with all footpaths and no major roads to cross. Barring SEN that meant a child couldn't be trusted to make the journey on their own, physical disability, or needing to take in their double bass, there is absolutely no reason why any parent that lived in a house between ours and the school needed to drive their child. And yet, there were dozens of them.

Happyjoe · 20/02/2026 13:30

My commute was varied as was sent all over the country and into London. In half term the commute in the morning was half, pretty much. Going home didn't make an awful lot of difference but was fab in the mornings.
Mix of school runs and not working I guess?