That’s a very good question, and I’m humbled to be asked. Firstly, it’s been a long journey of discovery for us, and one of the reasons I want to post here is in response to some of the nonsense I see, but also to help genuinely curious people bypass some of the learnings we’ve had.
I used to have to do long trips for work and covered around 1,000 miles a week at one point, but that was a while ago now. Nowadays we mix short local hops to the shops or to drive DDs 2&3 around (DD1 has left home) with much longer trips where we’re either together (so can share the driving) or on our own.
The first EV we bought was a secondhand Nissan Leaf in 2018, which is still going strong at 11 years old, but it was only ever intended to manage the short local stuff.
For longer trips we started by hiring Tesla Model 3s from Hertz, and then Polestar 2s. We took one on a 1,500 mile road trip (to the north of Scotland and home via North Wales) and then another one from the south of France into the Ardeche Mountains.
And what we learned was that the pleasure of driving long distances in a Tesla or Polestar, the almost silent power, the adaptive cruise control, the single-pedal driving etc. makes any small irritation around charging niggles just disappear. Driving small distances in London, where road-humps are ubiquitous, is almost pleasurable. I still keep a screenshot of the consumption/regen chart as the car was driven 10km up an Ardeche mountain and then 10km down into a valley, recharging the battery the whole way down as it navigated steep hairpins - the brake pedal wasn’t used once.
When we took the plunge and finally got our own car, we decided the Polestar 2 had everything we needed. Driven carefully, from 100% to 0%, it can manage 400 miles, but you will know by now that you don’t do that. What matters is how far you can go from 100% to around 10%, if what you’re doing is a road trip where you know you will plug in and charge at the end.
On that basis, I would happily take the Polestar on a 300 mile trip and not need to charge it, but one of the learnings is that it is so easy to just plug it in when we stop we often just do it rather than parking in a normal space. One of the reasons people fill their fuel tanks to the brim is that visiting a petrol station is objectively horrible, and I’m very happy I never have to stand in one again waiting for 60l of toxic liquid to be pumped into my car.
One of the game changers is that Tesla has opened up a lot of sites to non-Tesla drivers, and we recently tried a new site they opened just south of where we live that has 20 chargers. We have taken the car to Brussels and back, using Tesla charging en route and destination charging at the hotel car park.
So it does take a mindset shift, as others have pointed out, and we have had to learn which charging locations suit us best. Because the rates charged vary a lot more than for petrol, we’ve also had to learn which networks suit us too. That has been hugely assisted by various organisations aggregating charging access, so we use just Tesla’s app and the Octopus Electroverse one, with the Lamppost charging done through the Char.gy website.
If I was doing regular long journeys for work, I would first work out whether I could get home without charging, and if not where I would most likely need to stop to have a break, and see what rapid charging is available there. If destination charging is possible I would take advantage of that.
TL;DR - it’s been quite a change to shift away from petrol, but it’s been worth it. I loved all the ICE vehicles I’ve driven, but I don’t miss the refuelling of them, and the Polestar 2 leaves all of them in the dust. I am never going back.