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AIBU?

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JoyousArtist · 17/02/2026 19:54

A few months ago, there was an incident at my workplace where the landlord wasn’t happy and got really aggressive and was right up in my face shouting and pointing her finger at me. The incident that the landlord was angry about was a family matter that wasn’t any of my concern and she has nothing to do with the business.

Unfortunately this incident triggered a lot of childhood trauma for me involving emotional and psychological abuse from my family. I’m having counselling to deal with the childhood trauma. As a result of the incident, the landlord was told that she wasn’t to come into the building.

Fast forward to this week and I’m at work when the doorbell rings. It’s the landlord. I didn’t answer the door to her because I didn’t feel comfortable talking to her. My manager dealt with her but then when they came back into the office they made a comment saying ‘Do you not feel like you can speak to her?’ meaning the landlord. I don’t think my manager meant anything by it but am I being unreasonable not wanting any interaction with the landlord?

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MertonDensher · 18/02/2026 00:02

I don’t understand why the landlord (of your workplace?) was getting angry with you because of a family matter (of whose family?), but surely you just reminded your manager that after that incident, you weren’t going to deal with her, and that she wasn’t supposed to enter the building?

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