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Neighbours walking past our front door to leave the house

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Bluesea14 · 17/02/2026 07:15

our new neighbours keep walking past our front door and squeezing past our cars when they go out. We have checked our deeds and title and this is part of our property, not a public footpath. We would never dream of walking past their house when we go out so we can't understand why they think it's acceptable to do it. They recently had furniture delivered and this was also carried down the path past our front door instead of going in between their cars.
I have attached a image which is similar to the layout of our house and the blue line is where they keep walking. Any advice on how to deal with this please? We haven't properly met them yet so we don't want to come across confrontational but we also want to make it clear that we don't want people regularly walking on our property and setting our ring doorbell off.

Neighbours walking past our front door to leave the house
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Catpuss66 · 17/02/2026 13:42

Brewtiful · 17/02/2026 08:26

That doesn't automatically mean they don't have the right to use it though.

I have a right of way through my back garden it will be in the deeds if there is a right of way. Considering however they have their own path I doubt there is a right of way.

GreenPaperCut · 17/02/2026 13:42

People are wierd. We had a new build with a shared path and then private on front of the houses. Neighbours used to use our shared path for their kids to play on and cut thoirgh. We had checked when buying it was private as I didn’t want anyone walking past our window, so we ended up fencing and gating around our private but uo to the shared bit.

Ohpleeeease · 17/02/2026 13:42

Thechaseison71 · 17/02/2026 13:09

It does depend on the rules though doesn't it. As previously stated I have right of way through my upstairs neighbours PRIVATE back garden. It's still their land.

But your neighbour's deeds will contain that right of way. You both know what your rights are.

Our neighbours have a courtyard which they own but over which they have to provide right of way to two other neighbours. They don't like it but they can't alter it.

LindorDoubleChoc · 17/02/2026 13:48

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 12:56

Every time I read one of these petty threads...I remember how wars start and lead to countless deaths and injury it's this ridiculousness. Your house is attached to theirs from the image it appears this is an access path for both properties as they have planting to their side. How does this harm you?

Speaking of ridiculous posts ...

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 17/02/2026 13:50

EmmaOvary · 17/02/2026 13:39

Start walking around your house naked and next time they walk past, pop the window open and introduce yourself. Maybe even invite them over for ‘one of our special parties’. Watch them run.

Be careful what you wish for, that might not deter some folk 😂

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 17/02/2026 13:50

I’ve read all the OP’s comments but not the full thread, so apologies if this has been suggested.

OP: I assume you each own half of the parking area in front of your houses? Can you put up a fence that runs from the pavement to in between the two front doors?

PersimmonsAreNotTheOnlyFruit · 17/02/2026 13:54

PinkTonic · 17/02/2026 13:35

For me, the alternative is that I have to walk many times the distance to go up and down paths. Yes, yes you do

Which would be madness, exhausting and time consuming

No, which would be polite and the correct thing to do, like my postie has to because we do have walls and gates. The lack of physical barriers doesn’t mean there are no boundaries. It’s rude to tramp across someone’s private land because you can’t be arsed to use the public footpath.

No, no I don't.

The postie in the area I leaflet does exactly the same as I do. Clearly if there are fences I don't climb over them (although I have seen a postie doing it in one area), but no one in their right mind when delivering to a lay out like OP's image is going to the left door, turning 180°, walking back along and then down the path, along and up the next path and doing the door on the right, to avoid an invisible, non-existent barrier instead of taking two steps door to door. All because of some imagined act of trespass that occurs when one crosses this invisible obstruction.

Marynotcontrary · 17/02/2026 13:55

confusedeffie · 17/02/2026 10:13

What in the world are you talking about? You don’t want someone walking down a path near your house? Get a grip! You know that you sound ridiculous which is why you haven’t spoke to them about it.

It’s not just a random path outside her house. It’s her path, her private property.

ALJT · 17/02/2026 13:57

It literally looks like a foot path

JustCabbaggeLooking · 17/02/2026 14:01

ALJT · 17/02/2026 13:57

It literally looks like a foot path

Yes! but it's not a public footpath, it's hers. They have their own.

JustCabbaggeLooking · 17/02/2026 14:02

ALJT · 17/02/2026 13:57

It literally looks like a foot path

And it's NOT her house in the photo

lghtnght · 17/02/2026 14:02

PersimmonsAreNotTheOnlyFruit · 17/02/2026 13:54

No, no I don't.

The postie in the area I leaflet does exactly the same as I do. Clearly if there are fences I don't climb over them (although I have seen a postie doing it in one area), but no one in their right mind when delivering to a lay out like OP's image is going to the left door, turning 180°, walking back along and then down the path, along and up the next path and doing the door on the right, to avoid an invisible, non-existent barrier instead of taking two steps door to door. All because of some imagined act of trespass that occurs when one crosses this invisible obstruction.

I guess you only visit these houses every few months or maybe once a year though? That’s very different from the neighbour who uses the path every day, sometimes multiple times a day. I can understand how someone from that area might get confused about the layout too, but the neighbour should really know which path, parking space, etc, is theirs, and which isn’t.

BruhWhy · 17/02/2026 14:06

Assuming the neighbour is coming home from and leaving in the direction that's closest to your path, then it makes sense why they're using the central path rather than walking past it to walk down their own.

I know I probably would without thinking about it too much, but then I've lived in kerbside properties where the public walking past my windows was the norm.

People take the path of least effort and if your path appears first on their journey they'll take it. They probably don't even realise it's an issue or a faux pas.

You will probably seem extremely uptight to them if you raise it but if you don't mind that, crack on.

VWT7 · 17/02/2026 14:06

If you are nippy, when you see them there you could rush out (with a smile) and say “are you ok? - is everything alright?….
and when they question / say everything is fine - you just say “oh, I saw you at my window” ….”I wondered what was up” or something.

Maybe start using their path a little
It will all iron itself out in time - always difficult with new builds IME.

Pinkfeatheredflamingos · 17/02/2026 14:09

Do check your deeds to be absolutely sure that they are crossing your land. If they are you can point out that you will not be legally held liable if they should suffer an injury whilst on your land. You may need to put this in writing. You can put up a sign saying private pathway. You can also point out that any damage they cause to your property/cars, they will need to compensate you for.
It is difficult, but do speak to them. They may not be aware of the issues.

Manxexile · 17/02/2026 14:10

whattheysay · 17/02/2026 13:29

I’m evidently in the minority but that would piss me off I would say something to them. Apart from the fact it’s just weird that the would walk past your window rather than use their own path who ch takes the directly to their front door I wouldn’t be happy if my car got scratched by these people.
I had something similar years ago in my old house, so now I live in the country with no neighbours. I have never been happier.

"... it’s just weird that the would walk past your window rather than use their own path who ch takes the directly to their front door... "

But isn't part of the problem that the neighbours path does not take them directly to their own front door?

It looks fairly obvious to me that the neighbour's house is the last one on that street - looks like a cul de sac. (The wall on the other side of the neighbour's house looks like it's the back garden wall of a house on an entirely separate street or road).

If so then to get to their own front door by using their "own" path, the neighbours have to walk past their front door and double back on themselves.

Manxexile · 17/02/2026 14:13

lilythepinkone · 17/02/2026 12:50

OP has checked her deeds and it shows the path under her window and in front of her door is her property. The neighbour can look at their deeds to check it's the same for them.

Any other comments here are purely personal opinions.

The facts are it's trespassing and whether you'd be happy with that is irrelevant.
OP is not and needs to speak up.

The path may well be the OP's property but without knowing whether the neighbours have a right to use it in the OP's deeds nobody knows if it's trepass or not

sittingonabeach · 17/02/2026 14:14

I bet posties in similar set up to OP’s just walks along the paths in front of the houses as they all seem connected

Fortheloveofpizza · 17/02/2026 14:14

My house is similar but the path is between the drives. Next door still walks along under my drive instead of along the path. Drives me nuts but I just suck it up.

Bellyblueboy · 17/02/2026 14:17

Manxexile · 17/02/2026 14:13

The path may well be the OP's property but without knowing whether the neighbours have a right to use it in the OP's deeds nobody knows if it's trepass or not

there is no right of way in the deeds. Why do you think there would be some secret right of way that the neighbors know about but OP doesn’t?

Markovenchip · 17/02/2026 14:19

Maybe fit a traditional doorbell, at least for a period of time, and cover the automatic one, it's basically a case of right of way when it comes to the path, it needs something in print, wether yay or nay if the path can be used by others, a solicitor may help

Manxexile · 17/02/2026 14:19

sittingonabeach · 17/02/2026 14:14

I bet posties in similar set up to OP’s just walks along the paths in front of the houses as they all seem connected

Yes.

The paths directly in front of the houses all seem to be continuous and connected - even between the separate double blocks of semi-detacheds.

That indicates to me that the paths don't just "belong" to the houses they are in front of, but they belong to every house along the path.

Seems a common characteristic of many new build estates.

StopWindingBobStopWinding · 17/02/2026 14:22

Bellyblueboy · 17/02/2026 14:17

there is no right of way in the deeds. Why do you think there would be some secret right of way that the neighbors know about but OP doesn’t?

There was for me, as I set out I’m my post on page one. So I suggested checking with them before making it very awkward.

Strngerthings · 17/02/2026 14:24

PersimmonsAreNotTheOnlyFruit · 17/02/2026 12:55

Turn off motion notifications on the doorbell. That will at least reduce the disturbance.

Human nature, people take the shortest route. They turn right, walk to what looks like the main path and turn right again or just walk along the path in front of the houses to continue on their way. It isn't about peering in windows.

I do leaflet deliveries. A lot of newer estates are designed this way and everyone I see walks straight along the paths in front of houses arranged like this.

For me, the alternative is that I have to walk many times the distance to go up and down paths. Which would be madness, exhausting and time consuming.

excatly, ive done similar and when you have a row like this its an easy 4 in seconds, although overall considering the designs of new build estates overall it can be a mix time wise vs traditional designs

bondix · 17/02/2026 14:30

With the path right next to your window I’d be annoyed too. After all, they have their own path and parking area to use. I assume the middle path is for accessing the back of the properties? I’d invite them in for a cuppa as you haven’t already done so and politely tell them your big plans for an outdooor window seat and large planters for the front of your home 😁